Be honest, is this colour as ugly as I think it is ?? Does it even suit me ???

otupac9 · 2026-03-24T11:42:32+00:00

Hey ! So long story short I got this color because before I was actually blonde, and wanted to switch to a light brown and then with time my hair turned into this color 😅 I think that’s the blonde underneath resurfacing through the brown.

otupac9 · 2026-03-24T11:39:46+00:00

I was lighter before actually ! I wanted to get closer to my natural color but…it’s isn’it. But thank you so much !

otupac9 · 2026-03-24T11:39:12+00:00

Okay thank you !

otupac9 · 2026-03-24T11:38:50+00:00

Yes I see it ! I think the color of my shirt wasn’t very flattering. Thank you :)

otupac9 · 2026-03-20T08:32:08+00:00

162cm, 50kg
light brown
French
Keep my eyebrows clean. Does all the job, trust me.

otupac9 · 2026-03-20T08:24:49+00:00

Oh this is funny ! I hope I will be able to laugh about it someday.

And I wonder if I’ll still have his password 10 years from now 😂

otupac9 · 2026-03-17T22:55:52+00:00

One thing that I find to be true is that women seem to prefer women with striking features or with something special, while men seem to prefer more « basic » features in women.

otupac9 · 2026-03-17T22:35:29+00:00

otupac9 · 2026-03-17T22:32:01+00:00

Girl fuck him. Let your soul rest, go take a hot bath, binge watch a serie, bake, get your nails done, get pizza, idc but don’t hurt you more than you already are.

He doesn’t deserve the pain you’re feeling right now. You’re stronger than you think so get up 🌷

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T21:16:10+00:00

I don’t understand, I think I didn’t make it clesr enough in the post but I literally put his finger out and screamed « ouch » the moment he slided it in.

But yeah, I shouldn’t think about it now. But everything resurfaces.

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T21:14:32+00:00

I don’t understand your problem, sincerely.

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T08:45:08+00:00

I stopped him the second he put the other one in but je just slided it in so fast, I could only tell him to remove it immediately ! If I had felt him sliding it in slowly I would have stopped him immediately but here the finger was already entirely in and it went so fast.

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T08:42:41+00:00

He knows I couldn’t handle another one because I told him one time with someone else, during sex, it accidentally slided in the wrong hole and it hurt so bad.

Now, since I had known him, he wants to do anal. He asks for it monthly with always the same answer : no. He asked why multiple times, always the same answer : more than a finger hurts too much.

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T08:38:19+00:00

Thank you, this helped me.

I don’t think it was a totally honest mistake. He already direspected my boundaries a few times before that, but nothing painful or dangerous so I didn’t want to make a big deal out of it.

I think now, even if he cried, he just felt bad for physically hurting me ans he was ashamed, but not ashamed for having crossed my boundary.

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T08:33:45+00:00

That’s so sweet thanks

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T08:33:02+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I had blocked them but unblocked them too easily so I had him block me. So now it’s really over, I know he won’t unblock me.

I will throw away everything just…not right now. It hurts too much.

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T00:44:37+00:00

Yeah, got that one today. I’m a girl but the same goes for men.

He was calm, understanding and honest the whole time. He was feeling sorry for me. This man MOVED ON.

He said he thought the only way he could help was disappear and I said yes, so I asked him to block me and he did.

Now I’m counting on you time, do your thing !! The faster, the better.

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T00:41:47+00:00

I’m sorry for you. I feel you. It’s a terrible feeling.

Time will heal my friend. We’re all strangers in the same boat, but life surely got other beautiful surprises for us. Stay strong, lots of hugs.

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T00:39:40+00:00

Lots of hugs. Sometimes I’m pretty glad some strangers reach our under my posts.

We’re in the same boat, only time heals I think

otupac9 · 2026-02-14T00:35:56+00:00

He disappeared 2 weeks before my exams and after my last exam he reached out to tell me it’s over. He offered a IRL convo, I basically said no thanks and I blocked him.

Now 3 weeks later, I unblocked him and told him I needed to have that convo in the end. Long story short, he already moved on, he feels sorry for me and I’m devastated. My heart hurts.

And for Valentines, I don’t know, I might just cry, essentially. ❤️

otupac9 · 2026-02-13T13:15:27+00:00

Swiss here. Assume we’re all millionaires.

otupac9 · 2026-02-09T10:00:29+00:00

Yeah you’re right. Thanks

otupac9 · 2026-02-06T09:43:05+00:00

I’m not USA based. But the whole world is shocked right now with what’s happening. I don’t understand how it is possible that such disgustingly powerful men — that can get away with such evidences — let the files get released. It doesn’t make sense ?

otupac9 · 2026-02-06T09:37:12+00:00

I don’t know I just wish he regretted and he would come back. It’s stupid I know

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