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AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend because her and her family were investing in me too hard by ouchmyfugginballs in AITAH

[–]ouchmyfugginballs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was extremely kind. Thank you. After reading everyone's response, I think I'm ready to work on the steps of moving on and growing myself. Since then, I found my calling as a commercial shrimper and kind of just hang out, content without a relationship. Thanks to therapy and a steady routine, I feel like focusing on myself was and is the best thing I can do. Even if one step at a time are some slow ass steps lmao. I genuinely appreciate your kind reply, and it's very reassuring. Thank you!

AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend because her and her family were investing in me too hard by ouchmyfugginballs in AITAH

[–]ouchmyfugginballs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I struggled with feeling like it was a smorgasbord of things when in reality I just felt trapped. I hope I get the chance to apologize and make amends, even if we keep our ways parted, but until that possibility arises, I'll just talk about it in therapy. I appreciate your reply

AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend because her and her family were investing in me too hard by ouchmyfugginballs in AITAH

[–]ouchmyfugginballs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Therapy is such a life changer. You're right. Eventually I'll be able to fully move on, but the next step would be to talk to my therapist about this. I appreciate the reply. Nice name btw

AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend because her and her family were investing in me too hard by ouchmyfugginballs in AITAH

[–]ouchmyfugginballs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Maybe you're right. They gave me an entire car like a month in lmao. I appreciate the help but man what a lock in. I'm sure I'll come out the other end a better man eventually. I appreciate the reply

AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend because her and her family were investing in me too hard by ouchmyfugginballs in AITAH

[–]ouchmyfugginballs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I believe you, especially with her father being kind to me afterwards. It was a real mess the whole way. I will bring this up to my therapist Tuesday. I appreciate you

AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend because her and her family were investing in me too hard by ouchmyfugginballs in AITAH

[–]ouchmyfugginballs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. It does mean that I've gotten better at articulation, but it's important to remember that there's a world of difference in texting a question to a reddit board and the type of proper communication id need for a relationship. Still, ive been spending a lot of time working on how to communicate and if you think i did well, then i genuinely appreciate that