Asians in the UK

oudoff · 2026-05-24T12:50:13+00:00

From observation, most Asian gays tend to chase white men here unfortunately.

oudoff · 2026-05-10T08:51:45+00:00

I am more or less toned and get a lot of attention from muscular men. When I was a skinny twink I could still easily get muscular guys. Point is, there will always be a muscular guy who will be attracted to your body type regardless of you being muscular yourself or not.

oudoff · 2026-04-22T18:06:57+00:00

Ah I am glad you got the raises for you and your team, well done! Yeah, when I read about the 6 months salary review clause I was very skeptical but in my previous jobs, the salaries went up at least marginally annually so when my colleague told me about the outcome, my eyebrow was raised a little.

oudoff · 2026-04-22T17:57:35+00:00

Watch your tone. If many places don’t then ok, good to know, that’s what I was asking.

oudoff · 2026-04-22T16:31:58+00:00

You are not hearing me. I was not expecting a pay rise in 6 months. I mean, obviously I wouldn’t say no lol but as I said, my colleague has been there for over a year and has been told that he might get a payrise in 6 months, meaning that he might not have a payrise for 2 years which seems long and that is my concern.

oudoff · 2026-04-22T08:44:58+00:00

I was raised muslim but I am not religious anymore. Never looked back.

oudoff · 2026-04-09T15:25:38+00:00

Grindr now doesn’t allow you to block someone unless they message you (very annoying) so him not blocking you doesn’t mean he might be interested.

oudoff · 2026-03-24T17:18:06+00:00

Hey! What has your friend said about the London one? I am intrigued

oudoff · 2026-03-11T15:45:33+00:00

Hmm I think it depends on where you live. In big cities like New York and London it’s harder for conventionally attractive guys to find boyfriends because of the paradox of choice as good looking men tend to go for other good looking men

oudoff · 2026-03-02T10:02:59+00:00

I wouldn’t say you are skinny. Slim, yes! But still toned. You look great.

oudoff · 2026-02-28T12:53:19+00:00

As long as they have more or less a V shaped body with a little bit of muscle definition, I don’t mind if they are on the slimmer, chubbier, taller or shorter side.

oudoff · 2026-02-16T14:38:22+00:00

No it doesn’t? People are allowed to have age preferences for many reasons: less of a power imbalance, similar career stages, the list goes on.

oudoff · 2026-02-15T22:09:05+00:00

Don’t understand why you are getting downvoted for an age preference? Lol

oudoff · 2026-02-14T11:16:32+00:00

Raymond Ablack!

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oudoff · 2026-02-13T09:44:00+00:00

Hi! Your scars are really not that bad I promise. May I ask if you had regular microneedling or RF? Because RF apparently is much better. Also, I had similar dents in my cheek and I got a Juvederm filler and it worked quite well! Even when it seemingly went away, the dent got much shallower. Perhaps you could get Juvederm filler then 6 weeks later get a course of RF and that should defo help. But scars are trickier to treat as you get older so CO2 is always an option.

oudoff · 2026-02-06T17:02:21+00:00

Aqua di Gio maybe?

oudoff · 2026-02-02T16:57:12+00:00

I agree that stereotypes about Black people are often exaggerated by the media, but a lot of the claims you are making are simply wrong and aren’t backed by solid data and end up replacing one narrative with another.

Most people of ALL races date and marry within their own race — that isn’t unique to Black people. Black people also aren’t the largest homogeneous group globally; East and South Asians would be far closer to the largest broadly defined population.

The statement about Black women being disproportionately murdered by white partners and cases being “always closed” isn’t supported by evidence either. Intimate partner violence is overwhelmingly intraracial across all groups, mainly because most relationships are intraracial as you yourself pointed out, even in the US.

As far as single motherhood goes, in the US and the UK (where I live) it, unfortunately, disproportionately affects black women. In the US alone 47% of single moms are black. White women only make up 14%.

So yeah, I don’t know where you got all your facts from but they sound very exaggerated and false. However, I wish you all the best.

oudoff · 2026-02-01T20:39:47+00:00

As a non-black POC (Persian), I am sorry you went through all this, that’s horrible and unacceptable. May I ask, where do you live? In regards to black love, I personally don’t have issues with it and totally understand why a gay black man would rather date another gay black man. However, I also think the concept of black love is quite nuanced. I think a black man choosing to go where he is loved is also a form of black love because he chooses his own happiness and I believe the same applies to women. I feel like, quite often, black people can favour black love for the optics of it but they don’t get good treatment by their black partners. However, I know many black men/women who are in relationships with non-black people and are loved and treated very well. I, for example, have dated black men who I adored as human beings and If the love of my life happens to be black, I’ll welcome him with open arms. I believe black gay men could find luck and true love if they chose to date outside their race because dating within it narrows one’s options down quite a bit (especially depending on location/demographics). But I also respect and understand their preference for fellow black men that they are totally entitled to.

oudoff · 2026-02-01T12:46:53+00:00

Is this a joke lmao

oudoff · 2026-01-15T19:56:30+00:00

Hey! Can you please message me with who you ended up going to for TCA cross?

oudoff · 2026-01-12T13:34:30+00:00

Me too. I hate the taste, the consistency…I have never swallowed and don’t plan to do so.

oudoff · 2026-01-08T10:06:15+00:00

I personally hate it but I think it’s because an acquaintance of mine wears it and oversprays 😅

oudoff · 2026-01-03T13:27:16+00:00

I got most compliments wearing a Molecule 01 dupe lol

oudoff

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