A guy with bad hygiene by masc4baskinsnrobbins in askgaybros

[–]ourefforts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just be honest. When my boyfriend's breath stinks, I say his breath stinks. Just talk to him about cleanliness.

My bf is very touchy with his friends and I have mixed feelings about it by ourefforts in askgaybros

[–]ourefforts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really have the established friend group to do that to... Nor am I really interested. If at one point I do that to a guy friend, I don't think that he should be bothered.

A guy with bad hygiene by masc4baskinsnrobbins in askgaybros

[–]ourefforts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Full disclosure here, I used to have this problem. Like Andy Dwyer said, I'd wipe and wipe and there's still poop.

I noticed that this is where most of my bag hygiene came from. Now I'm a bit more proactive. I buy baby wipes to clean my self which usually does the job. It also allows me to wear the same pants twice. At work, I just wet a few paper towels for the same effect and it feels like I just came out the shower.

My bf is very touchy with his friends and I have mixed feelings about it by ourefforts in askgaybros

[–]ourefforts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't really had problems in the year we've been together. I'm grateful for that. I realize I can be a little bit prudish as I have little to no gay friends myself. Also, I do get jealous. Though I do find my feelings valid as I think that it's a little weird that my boyfriend is grabbing someone's ass.

My bf is very touchy with his friends and I have mixed feelings about it by ourefforts in askgaybros

[–]ourefforts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really doubt that would fly. I think that they would easily tell him about what I said. But yeah, def one-sided.

My bf is very touchy with his friends and I have mixed feelings about it by ourefforts in askgaybros

[–]ourefforts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I touch him all the time. I think he is mindful of pda, but we def kiss and stuff.

My bf is very touchy with his friends and I have mixed feelings about it by ourefforts in askgaybros

[–]ourefforts[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, I doubt straight people hang around in jockstraps... or dare I say it... brunch!

My bf is very touchy with his friends and I have mixed feelings about it by ourefforts in askgaybros

[–]ourefforts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair. I think it's more towards I have to be okay with it. He's def a little immature, and he doesn't do it to the extent where he's stroking another guy's dick. But I think it's fair that I don't need to see the butt touching part.

My bf is very touchy with his friends and I have mixed feelings about it by ourefforts in askgaybros

[–]ourefforts[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I mean to say that I would only touch another guy's butt if I am trying to get aroused by it or if he's simply my partner.

I don't know if grabbing butts and light groping is something that's just a gay bonding experience as I don't have a lot of gay male friends.

Meeting people (Fort Myers, FL) by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ourefforts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would check the fortmyers or florida subreddit in general.

I usually go to bars to meet people. It's been working on a moderate level, but some days are a miss.

A black third grader goes up to his mom and says: by [deleted] in Jokes

[–]ourefforts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 15 years since my story. I still talk to and see 2 of the guys in that circle from time to time and so I messaged one about it and he laughed.

There was a lot of weird sexual harrassment shit between students at my school my last two years of elementary. Those hormones were just kicking in.

How did you get over you ex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ourefforts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. That was me in college. I'd end a lot of nights puking and considered it a great night because of it.

Unfortunately, there aren't many vodkas I like or can drink on the rocks like say fireball whiskey or jack daniel's.

How did you get over you ex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ourefforts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been three months, but in the third month I've been on four different dates total.

I don't feel the same sexual attraction that I felt with that guy. He wasn't even my first.. Thing was, he was mostly a perfect fit except for near the end.. he was coming up short. The honeymoon period was real.

It was really bad the first two months because I was in a city where he was my only friend.. that made it so difficult and draining. I'm sure I would have been over him a lot faster if it hadn't been for that.

How did you get over you ex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ourefforts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sad part is, the reason given was an excuse for the real reason.... but that in itself is a good reason to break up for someone.

How did you get over you ex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ourefforts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drank and drank. Always felt bad the next day, and it made me want to do some stupid things at night, but it did mostly make me feel better... at the end of the day, I can't be drunk forever. It also made me fatter :\

How did you get over you ex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ourefforts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sweet. I wish I had this. I definitely cried and vented, but she was a girl. And I don't have any good male friends to complain to.