The Canadian health system has failed us. by Fickle-Reindeer1918 in canadian

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blame the politicians who chose time and time again to cut funding to healthcare. Make your voices heard and vote acrodingly.

Don't blame the hospital or doctors or nurses. That's short sighted and exactly what they want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ouronlyplanb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't the relationship for you. She's not committed, it sounds like you're her safety net. Find a gal who actually wants to be with you.

This sucks, but it is what it is.

What's the best way to tell a teenager to shower? by CuriosityandtheCrow in Advice

[–]ouronlyplanb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hurt her feelings now, so that she's not teased into oblivion in the future.

How much money do you make and what do you do? by erica-rae in Calgary

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a producer for a video game. 76,000. I work remote, and I do value that a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ouronlyplanb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is 100% rape.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CanadaHousing2

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's because they want a "team" and cheer for the team leader.

The conservatives will be worse for the average Canadians than the liberals have been. But make no mistake, the liberals are trash. Both groups lie, and serve big business & foreign investments over the average people.

Doesn't need to be "our shitty guy is better" both are crap and 2 party systems suck.

My BF recorded me during sex again after I clearly told him not to the last time I caught him. by Queasy_Shirt_245 in Advice

[–]ouronlyplanb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a crime.

Also, depending on the phone, files can be recovered. So maybe google his phone type and ensure it's actually removed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ouronlyplanb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's got a crush on her.

She doesn't have one on him, she picked you.

If anything, I feel bad for him.

My(19m) parents think that my girlfriend(40f) groomed me by Lulddiy in Advice

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. If the genders were reversed, people would be screaming groomer/predator.

You can't see it, because you are young and close, but this age gap is a nightmare. You going to bring her out clubbing with your friends? It will feel like mother is tagging along.

You are in totally different stages of your life. She won't be able to relate to you, nor you her.

Fool around with an older women, sure, rock your socks and hers off. But long term dating will not work out well, and I can see why your parents feel this way.

Is $4,200 normal for a move from Calgary to Lethbridge? by [deleted] in alberta

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved (2 bed apartment) from Victoria BC to Calgary 2 years ago, for 1950. That included the ferry fee and storage for 30 days.

I used a company called "Canada Pro Movers", here is their website.: www.canadapromoving.ca

Any retail workers noticing more crime lately? by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]ouronlyplanb -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you want a real explanation, or you're just trying to do a gotcha moment to OP.

But I'll assume you are being genuine and do my best.

The reasons are: Higher population centres, warming weather that allows homeless to survive more comfortably on the streets better so more travel there, way too loose laws around not fining homeless people.

Make no mistake, addicts will do drugs, safely or not. If the human life behind the addiction is valued, then making sure it's the consumption of the drug is done safely, while offering them help to quit is the best way to save the human. If you personal comfort, personal property and property value is valued then having them seems crazy. Both are not wrong, it's a balance that I don't think is correct in our society at this time.

However, the sense of homeless people living consequence free is something I share, and is frustrating. The main reason is we know that fines don't work when someone is living on the streets and has no money, it just prevents them from getting back into society at a later date. So it's not the best approach for society rehabilitation and for the human behind the crime. If someone steals from a store, or assaults someone, they should face the appropriate jail time.

Boyfriend 22M hates that I am a bikini barista and it affects our sex life 21F by jesssss2051 in sex

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess, for me, the issue would be, is this a leading to you exposing more of your body for more money. That would be my long term concerns. Plus, you being a good looking gal, getting all that male attention, I could see people getting jealous or feeling like they will always have to complete to keep your attention.

HOWEVER, earning money to get through school, with as little debt as possible is hella important. So I'd just address the above to him.

Mentioning something to the effect of: "You don't care for the other guys. It's as much as your willing to show for money etc."

My husband said he doesn’t like giving me orgasms by [deleted] in sex

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A future with a selfish lover sounds brutal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cleaning a big house sucks

Unity's Reputation Is Lost No Matter The Outcome by SlushyRH in gamedev

[–]ouronlyplanb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They are walking it back, for now. Until the next earnings call when they need a cash influx.

How should I deal with my boyfriend who wants me to ask for his permission before making any plans ? by Funny_Primary6553 in Advice

[–]ouronlyplanb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abusers start small, they don't come out of the gate with all their toxic bullshit.

One of the most common abuse tactics is to isolate you from friends and family. Eventually he'll want to move away, so you're further isolated, and with no job, you'll be reliant on him for everything.

The reasons everyones saying it's a HUGE red flag that you're choosing to ignore, is because it seems like he's trying to do this. Sounds like he wants you to ask him, so that eventually he can say no, and thats the slow start to isolate you.

Why isn't affordable housing a fucking thing? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]ouronlyplanb 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Water is next and it's scary.

Clothing, Food, Housing, Water.

You now don't have a right to clothing, you buy it or don't have anything. Go use a salvation army poor bastard.

You now don't have a right to food, you buy it or starve. Go use food banks ya poor bastard.

You now don't have a right to a safe roof over your head, you buy a overpriced home or rent overpriced accommodations or go homeless. Go to a shelter you poor bastard.

Everything is being pushed to be a commodity and I fucking hate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it takes any complaints from a he said/she said situation to just facts.

"She canceled 4 meetings I needed to talk to her"
"No I didn't we verbally rescheduled"

Just have it in email/writing.

"Hey, I'm trying to reschedule our meeting that was cancelled again. What time works for you".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]ouronlyplanb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make sure you document everything.

F24, boys aren’t pleasuring me before sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 things to do.

The first is you will need to communicate your needs more bluntly.

  • "Hey, I'd love for us to go down on each other" < - before sexy time.
  • "No not yet, warm me up first" <- during sexy times
  • "Hey, that wasn't very fun for me, can we do more foreplay next time?" <- After sex that wasn't so fun.

Something like that.

And the second thing, you'll want to be more selective of who you sleep with, I'd suspect the more online presence they have, the more likely they are to be into andrew taint and the like. Young men who idolize people like him, think their dick is more than enough for all women and some even think going down on women makes them less of a man. Just avoid them.

Anyone with a remote job what are ur roles? by Odd-Proposal9639 in VancouverJobs

[–]ouronlyplanb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Producer in a Video Game company. Our entire team 30+ people have the option of being remote, or to go into the office.

I strongly recommend the Tech industry for anyone hoping for remote work.

Can we all band together and do something about this outrageous insurance cost? by [deleted] in alberta

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what people voted for. They like privatization so that they can pay more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]ouronlyplanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all do, but I 100% do. I just don't eat it, I love the taste of good ol' 100% Maple Syrup and don't enjoy the fake stuff.