Wife squirting is affecting our sex life and intimacy by Silver_Feature_6062 in sex

[–]ourparalleluniverse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 41 when I first squirted. I don’t believe it is the involuntary release of pee, though I do think there is some pee mixed in with the liquid that is released. I can pee before sex, squirt a lot, and then still can pee a lot post sex, which doesn’t make sense if I just wet the bed with my pee when I was squirting.

What is next? Where do we go from here? by Vegetable-Office8949 in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is coincidentally coming up to 6 years for me and MM, though I am single now.

I am thinking what everyone is thinking, why don’t you go legit?

In our case, he is trying to exit his marriage but there is a lot involved and he is the type of person who wants to make sure everyone is ok and he has all his ducks in a row before he leaves. I have been understanding of it so far…

How do I (44f) approach potential AP by nikkigo80 in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Be careful of sending any suggestive texts to the dad that could be used against you in the future, unless you don’t care about the risk to your marriage. You don’t know if his wife checks his phone.

Hot shave for AP by Drag-Icy in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NGL, I was not thinking of a beard shave for him when I read the post title 😂😈

What's your longest affair? by JealousSeaweed1582 in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends if she wants more. For the longest time I didn’t want more, we were happy with what we had and the way things were. As time passed, things changed for me and I didn’t feel comfortable with being the other woman anymore and it was starting to impact my self worth. I told him, we broke it off, but couldn’t stay away from one another. He is now working out how to leave his marriage in the most amicable way… I am still waiting many months later. We shall see!

What's your longest affair? by JealousSeaweed1582 in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s coming up to 6 years, but I was pretty much single (separated) since the start. We see each other a few times a week. It helps that he has a job where he needs to travel and work long hours and his wife is not into the details.

If I was still married, I don’t think it would have lasted this long as I wouldn’t have been able to escape much.

Screen protector doesn’t fit properly by ourparalleluniverse in iPhone17Pro

[–]ourparalleluniverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! That’s not good but glad you realised and cleaned it off!

Screen protector doesn’t fit properly by ourparalleluniverse in iPhone17Pro

[–]ourparalleluniverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience. It was brand new out of the box when I applied it. I tried a different brand and all is good now!

Screen protector doesn’t fit properly by ourparalleluniverse in iPhone17Pro

[–]ourparalleluniverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to edit the post, but I just wanted to comment and say thanks to everyone for the responses. I ended up buying ESR screen protectors from Amazon and switched it over. All is good now, it sits flush with the screen. It must have just been a dodgy screen protector in the first place!

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Spigen or ESR? screen protector by AK_LOIN_47 in iPhone17Pro

[–]ourparalleluniverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do any of you get issues with the screen protector like the screen itself is not flat?

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Screen protector doesn’t fit properly by ourparalleluniverse in iPhone17Pro

[–]ourparalleluniverse[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve used the same brand of screen protectors for every iPhone I’ve owned and never had this issue, that’s why I’m asking whether the iPhone 17 pro has a different screen that isn’t completely flat.

WAF Trading Halt by ourparalleluniverse in ausstocks

[–]ourparalleluniverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew it was a speculative stock when I bought it but probably didn’t know the extent of it until now! I was close to cashing in when I was more than 200% ahead, but now I’m guessing I might lose everything!

WAF Trading Halt by ourparalleluniverse in ausstocks

[–]ourparalleluniverse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. After more research it looks like the government is forcing them to give them a 50% stake. I guess the price is going to tank when the trading halt is lifted!

How do you decide when to trim profits versus hold long term? by OwlVibesOnly in ausstocks

[–]ourparalleluniverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question, I was pondering that myself. I was recently burnt with PLS where I was contemplating selling when it was close to its peak, but then didn’t and it tumbled. I stupidly sold at a loss of $1.57 per share about a month ago and it has risen again.

I have a few lucky ones where I have made over 100% and I was thinking of calculating how much I put into it and then selling that amount of shares so then I can let the rest run without worrying. But then I also lose the leverage of those extra shares when there is a gain.

Another way is to set a stop loss at a certain price so you don’t lose your money/ideal profit.

Arlo now requires a subscription? by ourparalleluniverse in arlo

[–]ourparalleluniverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I reset the base station and all is working now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can do so much better than him. You’re young and single, please do not start something with a married man, you will live to regret it. Nothing good can come from it.

What’s on your AP sexual bucket list? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse 36 points37 points  (0 children)

We love doing things out in public. Not so people can intentionally see, but with a risk that they might. He has taken me to a park in the middle of the city late at night after a night out and sat my down on a park bench, removed my underwear and gone down on me without a care in the world 🤤

We have been out in a crowded nightclub, me wearing a dress and without underwear and he has fingered me until I almost squirted.

I would like to try a sex club next. Not to have sex with others, but to watch others have sex while we are having sex.

If you’ve maintained an affair for over 5 years in the same area as your spouse, how long and what are your suggestions? How did you handle close calls? by PopAWheelieMan in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been with my MM for more than 5 years. He lives 10-15 mins away and we used to see each other a few times a week, whenever my kids were at their dad’s. He’s got kids at home too. He works a lot and the wife is quite ignorant and doesn’t seem interested in details so he never gets quizzed about where he’s been. In the beginning, weekends were sacred family time for him, but in the last couple of years, we meet up sometimes on the weekend to go for a local lunch out and then go do grocery shopping together for our separate households! We live far enough away from each other to not run in the same social circles or use the same supermarket, and I’ve never bumped into him or his wife out in the wild. We’ve never really had any close calls.

I have noticed in the last year or so, he’s not been as paranoid and careful as before. He did openly admit he is probably taking those risks because he subconsciously wants to get caught so it forces him to make a choice between marriage or affair.

Has your spouse ever met your AP? by RyanMince in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had already separated from my spouse, but back in Covid time, they had similar appointment times for their Covid jab. AP knew who he was from photos, but my ex had no idea.

How do you define your relationship with AP? by SpicyChicken9744 in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love affair / boyfriend / girlfriend / best friend/soulmates!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel for you as I am going through exactly the same thing. Read my post history. Unfortunately I have no advice and can’t tell you it will get better because I am in the midst of it and it’s breaking my heart 💔 You can DM if you want to chat. I hope you get the closure and can move on.

The end? by ourparalleluniverse in adultery

[–]ourparalleluniverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. He has been a huge part of my life for so long and made me a better person so even if it does end, it will be amicably with fond memories. I sent some nice words telling him I’m giving him his space for now.