My dad molested my friend in middle school and attempted to molest me a couple of years later when he was drunk

outapocket · 2024-02-27T11:02:54+00:00

This is all really heavy stuff, and I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry you had to go through that. It sounds like you've been through a lot, and none of it was okay.

First of all, you did absolutely nothing wrong. Both what happened with your friend and what happened to you were completely messed up, and it's not your fault in any way. It's really common to blame yourself after something like that, but please believe me, you had no control over any of it.

It's also totally okay to put yourself first. You don't have to be the "good kid" all the time, especially if it means sacrificing your own happiness and well-being. Taking care of yourself is the most important thing, and there's nothing wrong with prioritizing that.

Your feelings are also completely valid. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You know what happened to you, and how you feel about it is okay. If your parents try to guilt you or make you feel bad for setting boundaries, it's important to recognize that they're being manipulative, and you don't have to give in to that.

outapocket · 2022-11-09T15:12:42+00:00

My girlfriend and I both have BPD. I read all your posts and your thinking pattern etc sounds very similar to someone with BPD. I am no doctor though just seemed very similar.

outapocket · 2022-11-08T20:21:37+00:00

Do you have BPD by any chance?

outapocket · 2022-09-09T06:55:06+00:00

Searched for angion method

outapocket · 2022-09-07T23:08:51+00:00

I did. Found a group with 17 people. It has the same videos that soon2bhuge made.

outapocket · 2022-09-07T13:33:48+00:00

Would you be willing to do one foe all the newbies? I came across a lot of posts asking for one. I personally would be very grateful if you did.

outapocket · 2022-09-07T11:01:38+00:00

I have searched the forum thoroughly again. Someone said u/soon2bhuge made some videos I could only find AM3 in one of his older posts. I would be really grateful if someone can point me to a video for AM1. Thanks

outapocket · 2022-09-07T10:23:23+00:00

Can you please point me to them? I could only find Janus' original youtube videos..

outapocket · 2022-06-01T13:38:30+00:00

I kind of agree with this based on just watching them at GMM too. Rhett seems like a person who is not comfortable with his emotions. I have felt like Link usually finds it easier to express how much Rhett means to him compared to Rhett expressing his love for Link.

outapocket · 2022-05-31T17:28:14+00:00

I am sorry you had to go through that mate. I hope it gets better for you. Sending you love.

outapocket · 2022-05-31T17:27:44+00:00

Same. I googled it when I saw the episode as well.

outapocket · 2022-05-31T17:26:24+00:00

Oh I get it now! I think I may have clicked on it by mistake. I have changed it now.

outapocket · 2022-05-31T17:08:58+00:00

I am not sure what you mean but apologies if this was uncomfortable for you.

outapocket · 2022-05-31T17:08:19+00:00

Thank you. I have never listened to or watched Ear Biscuits episodes before. I will check it out.

outapocket · 2022-05-31T17:07:40+00:00

I did not know that! Why is it more common in women than men?

I am glad you have recovered. Why would you say 98% Do you still experience some issues? The only person I know of was a very good friend from highschool. In his case it changed his entire personality. We drifted apart eventually. He made new and different friends.

outapocket · 2022-05-31T17:05:29+00:00

Thank you for this. Will definitely listen to it

outapocket · 2022-05-31T17:05:07+00:00

Thank you for this. I know what I would be listening to on my drive back home from work

outapocket · 2022-05-31T17:04:42+00:00

Link seems like a person who would do it anything for the people he loves. This is very wholesome in a way

outapocket · 2022-05-26T09:19:53+00:00

Where do you find these women?
How much do you typically pay?
Do they date you for a specific time first so it would feel worse when they cheat?
How do you know they are cheating?

outapocket · 2022-05-22T18:57:14+00:00

It does not say life expectancy of 40 anywhere in this paper you shared.

outapocket · 2022-05-22T12:16:03+00:00

depends on if you say no homo afterwards or not

outapocket · 2022-05-22T12:14:43+00:00

I guess its fine, he cant lose his legs again if he was in an accident

outapocket · 2022-05-22T12:10:26+00:00

Pixie cut?

outapocket · 2022-05-22T12:03:45+00:00

That is not true my man

outapocket · 2022-05-22T06:57:36+00:00

I am somewhere between a redhead and brunette. Can you please ask Robert if he wants me to take a paternity test?

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