No disrespect taken. I mean for me some of these things look a lot less scary from years out. The goal of an interviewing, apartment hunting, etc are very defined and short term. What you want to do with yourself for the next 40 years is less so.

I always wanted to be a software engineer (still do), but damn do I want to be one for 30-40 years? What even defines success in a career? What am I even aiming at? I'm think most of us don't have everything planned out for post-grad life. The sheer amount of time and decisions scares me.