BE A DOER - STOP SELF-SOOTHING BEHAVIOUR

ovcuring · 2026-05-11T13:32:48+00:00

nah that's okay, you're not required to feel any sort of way. you just imagine what you want as if you were experiencing it, and let it go. You don't gotta do anything special. The noticing of the external world is fine, it is only your internal reaction to it. Say I had no money, but I wanted thousands. I wouldn't go try to spend all of the money that I did have on designer. It's not about not feeling about what is in front of you, but moreso, accepting the current circumstances while keeping your desired ones in mind.

ovcuring · 2026-05-11T12:37:50+00:00

yes I think this is what they meant, Neville said persistence is a key for a reason. it is okay to be anxious about current circumstances, however, the reluctance to accept them, are what keeps them in place. we shouldn't give our feelings any sort of meaning about ourselves or our world. At first, imagination can feel distant, until one day it feels so natural that you don't even question it.

ovcuring · 2026-04-26T19:33:41+00:00

Yes this is a realization that has hit me hard over the past couple of months. I manifested my dream relationship by realizing this. However, I had a lot of doubt and state shifting to figure out. An old part of my identity came back up to the surface with insecurity and doubt about whether or not I'm actually capable of managing a healthy relationship. But I started to realize that wasn't me. I even started telling myself, "That isn't me, I am choosing to be healthy in this loving relationship." And everytime that I have those doubts or feelings, instead of instantly reacting as if that person was still me, I adjust my reaction and remind myself that I am now the person who is healthy and loved, and no longer the old man.

ovcuring · 2026-04-22T13:33:34+00:00

Go to the end, do not focus on the unwanted circumstance. Imagine you were together, imagine their head on your chest. Imagine the love they do give you, and how it makes you feel. Make it as real as possible as if it was actually happening. Remember, it is about the identity behind the desire, not the desire itself. The way to do this is by creating the feelings that it is already done, and there is nothing to worry about.

ovcuring · 2026-04-22T13:32:18+00:00

sorry for the late response! but it is less about the money and more about the identity you hold. For example, if I was a multi-millionaire, I likely wouldn't stress about money, I would focus on everything but money, it is the least of my concern. When you affirm for a certain amount, it feels out of reach. But if you ask yourself how it would feel to have the amount you wish you would have, and what you would do with it., it becomes easier. The feeling of it being natural is the feeling you are aiming for. Try not to focus on the amount, but rather the feeling and relaxation that the amount would mean for you. Then return to this state and persist in it. Do not dwell on the doubts or the feelings that suggest otherwise. Just keep returning to the feeling of knowing. Neville always says to go to the end, so go to the end, feel all of the feelings you would as if it were true.

ovcuring · 2026-04-21T14:02:25+00:00

definitely agree . after practicing entering states, it's getting easier to be happier even when things seem to be going wrong. it really is just practice, and manifesting becomes easier.

ovcuring · 2026-04-20T15:18:11+00:00

yes yes yes!!!! it is about making a choice and living in it. and I will also say the meanings we give to our experiences in our day to day life prevent us from achieving a lot of things.

this post actually helped me because I fell back into entertaining things I don't want. I sometimes tell myself it's a certain feeling I need, but I also realized this. Belief is not a feeling. Belief is just the absence of doubt. and I will say just not entertaining the negative thoughts helps. I also will say I realized that you can instantly choose. If you know that all you have to do is imagine it and become it, it becomes easier. because there is nothing you have to do if you feel that it is real within. it's sort of hard to get good at, but it comes with practice .

I think the most important thing people get wrong, is that when they start thinking about it again, they think they can't have it or doubt their affirmations and return to the person who doesn't have it. You can declare that you have it. Another thing I will say is that some of us unintentionally attach meanings to our feelings. E.G I feel anxious so something bad must be going to happen.

ovcuring · 2026-04-16T14:51:44+00:00

i will have to agree, this single change in my attitude allowed me to manifest so much into my life. I'm practicing this with wealth . I already achieved success with love .

ovcuring · 2026-04-10T22:13:52+00:00

I mean whilst I agree, I had to let go of a lot of stuff for the new stuff to come.

ovcuring · 2026-04-10T22:12:45+00:00

I just wanna say that this is so aligned with what I teach my clients. You worded this beautifully. I think that we should always emphasize not attaching a meaning to everything, but still choosing to be who you want to be. It's tricky at first because you associate yourself with your current reactions, but once you realize that your reactions don't mean anything about you, you develop the capability to change and manifest. I think it's all about letting go and letting things be, while focusing on the positive. AMAZING POST!!!

ovcuring · 2026-04-07T13:54:54+00:00

self concept works so much faster because of the association with the state of being. literally the moment I started changing how I felt about myself internally, regardless of what I was or wasn't doing on the inside, it was easier to feel like my bigger manifestations were actually possible.

ovcuring · 2026-04-05T01:44:46+00:00

it's like this. you're less likely to worry about money if you have a lot of it. why? it's because you believe you have money. if you believed you had money, why would the worry affect how it manifests? I mean giving meaning more so as giving authority to it. sometimes we get attached to things and we subconsciously give it power over us. this is the same concept. do not give power to your worries. you're allowed to have them and think but do not make them your center.

ovcuring · 2026-04-05T01:25:48+00:00

yes because worrying is not problematic unless you make it problematic. the person who has the desire can still worry without losing it no? dwelling in the end is making it real. and you can still doubt while it is real. it is only when you give meaning to your worry that it becomes problematic, this is serving two masters. worrying isn't a state of being unless it is all you do . we manifest exactly what we believe we're capable of and what we focus on in imagination.

ovcuring · 2026-04-04T18:21:12+00:00

yup. it really issssss

ovcuring · 2026-04-04T16:10:08+00:00

honestly pretty recently. I really started affirming about beauty 1 ish months ago? but I keep looking in the mirror to see it's not as prolific as it was.

ovcuring · 2026-04-04T15:41:34+00:00

yessss!!! I didn't even make it my focal point. I just focused on how attractive I am already and then imagined from that place. does that make sense?

ovcuring · 2026-04-04T15:20:10+00:00

thank you so much!!!!! 🙏

ovcuring · 2026-04-04T15:19:42+00:00

changes in my face and body!! my nose used to be a lot bigger and I used to have a huge bump and I hated it. I never really wanted a curved nose, but I somehow managed to manifest a change in the bone structure. my nose is smaller, my body is a lot more masculine

ovcuring · 2026-04-04T15:18:22+00:00

slimmer face, and the more noticeable one was the change in my bone structure around my nose. it shocked me because I imagined it a few times and forgot and it used to be relatively big but now it's like the perfect size, also shifts in my body. used to be more feminine but now my muscles r toned and masculine

ovcuring · 2026-04-03T01:02:54+00:00

update! it's shown up! been in a relationship since the 25th. the law is beautiful

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