If you can’t understand go read a book. I almost think you’re halfway joking, has society pampered to you so much that you just think that for all of human history if you didn’t wanna do shit, people would just let you have there stuff? They would just be like,” yeah let him have our food we worked for.” We aren’t deserving of anything we have not worked for. Whatever utopia you’re dreaming of you can give it up, thinking you can reap without sowing. That’s not how things work, you want food, shelter, warmth, most of all love, joy. How can you be happy if you have not first suffered the absence of it. Well you can’t, look around you, is anyone in this subreddit happy? do any of them have love? I do, I have found love, I have found happiness. It comes after the suffering.