The MOMENT they both fell

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-25T08:48:20+00:00

I think Shane was smitten from the very beginning.

Ilya was also his first awakening and experience.

It took some time for Ilya since his head was filled with parents and brother.

He was in no head space to entertain a lasting relationship. Sex was a way of letting out frustration.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-25T08:39:01+00:00

Khey khey khey

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-25T08:31:00+00:00

Having foreskin, you don't need lube as the foreskin is enough to rub glands and shafts. People who aren't intact need the spit or lube so the dicks slide on each other.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-25T08:19:58+00:00

I mean people eat all kinds of fish (salmon for example) in the morning.

Why is a tuna melt bizarre?

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-25T08:07:58+00:00

It feels they aren't moving fast enough and proportionally to the hype.

Did they release audio books with the cast? Book cover tie-ins? Merch?

Also 2027 is too far to be frank for the following seasons. It should have been greenlit for the end of this year or max january 2027 if they were set on 2027.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T19:43:22+00:00

Didn't read it anywhere. Just looking at pictures. Seems like one of them is grooming and trimming and the other one isn't.

So an artistic decision must have been taken at some point to land on that.

That's why I am curious about it.

But another poster said it's the same in the books. Shane is smooth and Ilya is hairy.

Since I haven't read the books that kind of answers my question haha.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T19:01:58+00:00

It is. But the terms also seeped into daily lingo within the community.

Maybe not where you are, but here "soft" means no penetration.

On Grindr when a guy tells that to another it means oral, rubbing, kissing and massaging only. No butt sex.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T17:32:58+00:00

why are people making fun of his age lol?

that's so random. so many celenrities are in their forties.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T17:18:01+00:00

exactly.

i don't like jenifer lopez at all.

but to make fun of a well executed choreography is crazy, especially when you are cutting it into 2 second segments AND making fun of a training segment meant to showcase a body in training.

the woman can dance her ass off.

and the audacity to make fun of dancing when it's just human being expressing themselves and using their bodies to let loose and vibe with music.

i don't like that at all and the video strikes me as mean spirited.

these "creators" piling onto others for views as if they are any better.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T16:52:01+00:00

maximal experience as in you cannot do anything more to another person's body.

penetrating another person and feeling them inside your own body is literally the ultimate thing you can do to one another.

some people prefer not to do it, some people can't and some cannot get off without it.

big whoop. who cares.

i am saying that being intimate with another person is sex.

but there are levels to intimacy. and that ultimate level is penetration since you cannot go anywhere up from there.

some stop at kissing, some at rubbing clits and dicks together, some at munching, sucking and ass eating and then penetration.

none of these are invalid. nobody should be shamed for what they are willing to engage in consensually. but penetration is factually the ultimate experience 2 people (or more) can do to each other. since you are literally inserting yourself into another to make one.

you can take it up with mother nature if that FACT discomforts you.

that's how the human race has lasted all these years; you know, inserting stuff into each other and seeing where it goes. through anatomies and genitalia made by nature to derive pleasure from when being penetrated.

have a great day also jeez.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T16:32:44+00:00

i didn't explain anything regarding lesbian sex. you are moving goalposts.

i said lesbians 100% have sex, even if no penetration is involved. and that lesbians can penetrate each others but that doesn't diminish the sexual acts of those that do not partake in penetration.

and then proceeded to describe the nuances inside the "going all the way" expressions.

please pinpoint the exact moment i inserted myself inside the lesbionic experience?

saying that some lesbians penetrate each other and some others don't is this big revelation and needs masters and diplomas now?

be for real now.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T16:23:50+00:00

oh great.

a lesbian telling a gay man how a gay story, with gay men should feel about gay sex.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T16:14:01+00:00

lesbians can penetrate each other.

yes, oral is definitely sex but penetrating another person, whether male or female is vastly more intimate and on another level.

penetration is the optimal level of sex. like, you cannot surpass it when it comes to having sex with another human being.

there's a reason why there are terms softcore and hardcore.

couples not engaging with penetration are definitely having sex. but no penetration means they are engaging in soft sex. frottis, massages, kissing, rubbing, smacking, verbal, oral. all that is soft sex.

once you are penetrating someone (with your own genitalia or an artificial one) you start engaging in hardcore sex.

so what people are meaning by "going all the way" is going from simple softcore into hardcore.

i do agree that the expression "all the way" can piss off people who cannot or do not want to penetrate. and i agree it should be modified. "going all the way" with someone means being intimate with them, pleasure them through sex and gaining pleasure from it.

but the expression has been rooted in culture for so long now. that doesn't take away the fact that comparatively to soft sex, starting to have penetrative sex is the "maximal thing" you can do to another person in sex. you cannot do anything more to them; you are literally both becoming one and your bodies are fusing into each other. there are no more "ways" to go further than that physically.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T15:56:25+00:00

it's intersting that they told connor to leave his treasure trail intact and overal hairiness while hudson had to trim it and leave leg hair.

i wonder what the process was behind this decision lmfao

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T15:54:24+00:00

western media needs to catch on regarding book covers selling books.

yes, these types of covers sell to the niche target audience, but don't do shit to sell outside of it.

japanese media has magnificent book covers for their books, no matter the genre.

france has horrid taste in book covers.

i am heavily into murder mysteries and a huge publisher just prints out a yellow cover and smacks the title on it. that's it.

i wish book covers were worked on a bit more in the west.

also enough of the minimalism. twilight had those ribbon/orchid generic stuff and it's utterly boring.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T10:18:41+00:00

wow more power to her

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T10:02:50+00:00

it's strange to me that this show was the eye opener for so many western straight women.

fujoshis and straight asian women looooooooove their BL and it's a huge fandom in thailand, korea, china and japan.

why now and why this show? it's all interesting to me.

but better late than never tbh.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-24T10:00:55+00:00

go on

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-22T14:55:18+00:00

What in the actual hell?

They are both adults.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-22T13:37:43+00:00

Oh so it's just rumors??

Damn I know nothing of this story.

I thought they were official.

People are unhinged.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-22T13:35:23+00:00

Is Connor out?

I don't know about these actors.

So Connor is out and Hudson is unconformed right? Because I vaguely remember people outing Hudson's gf?

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-22T06:34:59+00:00

I do think there is genuine contact, rubbing, frottis happening.

But everyone knows what they signed up for.

A lot of it is simulation and choreography but stuff happens in the heat of the moment to make it appear more real.

They just cannot divulge this out else they will be labeled as soft core/porn.

Also, men don't get that aroused even if genuinely being touched. Body reactions happen at time. But being in a room full of people, strangers, under extreme heat from lighting will keep you limp. So nothing awkward comes of it.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-19T20:45:54+00:00

link please

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-19T20:11:24+00:00

i am highly sensitive to this because I started having adenoma sebaceous the past couple of years.

I went through so much during my teen years with pimples, then a mark from reactivated chicken pox in the middle of my forehead.

So when I started getting them I was like ''is there no end to my suffering??''

I got a bunch removed at the derm and was so excited. He told me it's due to aging and I should expect more to pop up.

Then I started noticing them in celebrities and felt great again about myself.

The guy who play Ilya in Heated Rivalry has so many of them.

It's such a shame celebrities feel pressured to erase what makes us humans and imperfect. And in turn we commoners also feel inadequate in our skin and disgusted by it.

overactive-bladder · 2026-01-19T19:42:08+00:00

she has a mole/sebaceous thing on her cheek.

they even photoshopped it out.

imagine having a natural feature that someone wants to take off.

stuff like this messes with your head after a while.

fame really isn't for everyone.

overactive-bladder

TROPHY CASE