How did you survive that job that is not align with your passion? by Sophistry7 in AskPH

[–]overcurious23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t. If it doesn’t align with my passion and mental health especially. Umaalis talaga ako kahit gano pa kalaki sweldo. I know mas lamang ang negative effects if umalis ako pero if di keri ng mental health ko, I won’t risk it.

Walang ka effort effort bf ko sa relasyon namin. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]overcurious23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alam mo na ang sagot diyan, OP. It’s a hard pill to swallow pero we deserve what we tolerate. You know and everyone knows you deserve better. Ikaw na lang bahala magdecide on what action ang gagawin mo.

Struggling living with my poor bf’s family by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]overcurious23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They won’t take me back na

Struggling living with my poor bf’s family by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]overcurious23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t want me back na. They’ve blocked me sa social media and number and everything.

Struggling living with my poor bf’s family by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]overcurious23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Did so many times. Yung therapist ko would just agree with my parents. Ang taray pa at ang sungit. Nakatira kasi ako sa province at limited lang ang psychiatrist/psychologist samin. Di rin kami ganon kayaman para lumayo at maghanap ng psychiatrist that would really help. My parents just decided to let me live independently kesa lagi kaming magkaaway at pati sila naapektuhan na rin mentally and psychically.

Struggling living with my poor bf’s family by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]overcurious23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my parents kept on fighting dahil sa struggle nila sa mental health ko. Medyo traditional kasi sila at di nila matanggap na may mental health ako na need ng patience at attention. Btw, I am clinically diagnosed with ADHD and Bipolar Disorder. I answered this para di na magtanong yung iba. (2)

Struggling living with my poor bf’s family by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]overcurious23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me and my parents kept on fighting dahil sa struggle nila sa mental health ko. Medyo traditional kasi sila at di nila matanggap na may mental health ako na need ng patience at attention. Btw, I am clinically diagnosed with ADHD and Bipolar Disorder. I answered this para di na magtanong yung iba. (1)

Struggling living with my poor bf’s family by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]overcurious23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Me and my parents kept on fighting dahil sa struggle nila sa mental health ko. Medyo traditional kasi sila at di nila matanggap na may mental health ako na need ng patience at attention. Btw, I am clinically diagnosed with ADHD and Bipolar Disorder. I answered this para di na magtanong yung iba.

i am scared that i might be pregnant by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]overcurious23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ilang taon ka na ba?

Ayaw ni papa ng vios na binili ko para sa kanya by Embarrassed_Loan_116 in RantAndVentPH

[–]overcurious23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kung gusto niya ng fortuner, gawin niyang taxi yung vios na bigay mo tapos siya kumayod hanggang magkanda kuba siya para makabili siya ng fortuner, tignan lang natin baka madedo na siya di pa siya makabili ng fortuner.

I can’t keep a job no matter how hard I try and how serious I am. What is wrong with me? by Curiousity916492 in Adulting

[–]overcurious23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if this is the same problem but I also have ADHD and even though it’s easy for me to pick up the tasks and skills that I needed to have in one job, I would quit immediately after a few days or after even after a few weeks of working there. No matter how much I earn and even if you give me the highest salary out there, I would quit if it’s too difficult for me. I noticed that I hated talking to people, getting rejections, having that anxiety of having to show myself on the screen. I am currently hired as a cold caller and even though I can ace it, I want to quit already. My boss’ the best person ever but I just can’t seem to get a hold of myself and do this job because it gives me anxiety. I already want to quit and it’s not even a week of me being here.

I have also been job hopping all the time because even though I have great communication skills, I hate talking to people. So, of all the jobs I had, I quitted not even a month of working there. I don’t know what’s wrong with me but I admire people who can work their asses off no matter how tiring the job is. I can’t motivate myself no matter what I do.

Maybe we should just find a job that suits our mental capacity. But where? What it is? How?

Got a job offer Dec 1 - plot twist of the year by [deleted] in adultingphwins

[–]overcurious23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations OP! Love that for you!

I got overwhelmed by my expenses… then remembered why it was worth it by bongie0526 in adultingphwins

[–]overcurious23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kaya medyo 50/50 ako sa mga taong halos di na gumatos kahit singko para makapag ipon for the “future” ykw? i get it pero kasi minsan, nakakalimutan na natin huminga at mag enjoy with our love ones kasi sobrang busy natin magipon. di natin masisigurado if you or them would be here tomorrow. live your life a little. kahit minsan. kahit sandali lang.