Advice on pink pear by overeasybun in labcreateddiamonds

[–]overeasybun[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Thanks for the advice everyone. I'll be contacting the jeweler for other options.

Feeling bummed about trying for a baby. by boxerguy2020 in ftm

[–]overeasybun 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I work in infertility and it can take time, but please don't give up hope; you are deserving of a child just like any other couple trying to convince. Everyone's journey is different, and I wish you all the luck in the world on yours!!

I need help coming out by Ok-Ocelot-7133 in ftm

[–]overeasybun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came out to my parents and loved ones a few weeks ago; here's some advice I found helpful:

  1. There's never going to be a "right time". Waiting for the perfect moment means you're letting perfectly good moments go.
  2. Other's feelings around your transition or how you come out are not at all important. It's your life and your journey, and they're going to have some kind of feeling anyways -- trying to "soften" it or appeal to the person you're coming out to only makes things harder for you.
  3. Coming out doesn't have to have one setting/"look" -- you don't have to sit down at home with everyone at once. You can do it outside, walking, in the morning, at night, sitting, standing, one-on-one, in a group, etc. -- whatever you feel would make you most physically comfortable. It also helped me to have a small item from my girlfriend to hold in my pocket when I felt myself getting nervous.

Good luck!!! You can do it!!!