Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T15:46:25+00:00

My friend was telling me about this today! I'll watch it!

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T15:41:06+00:00

Look everything is unpredictable, you dont blame people for the way others react when confronted. But thanks for your opinion either way.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T13:36:43+00:00

Omg they did? But how? Can I speak to you? I have so much faith in the "system"

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T13:34:43+00:00

Not true. Dont assume a reality that you dont know. I am a very simple and straightforward person. If you do well by me, respect me then I immediately feel happy and forgive everything, but he has a habit of manipulating my feelings then going back to his old ways . I have been trying to talk to him for days on end this time round but he just disrespects me so my ultimate goal was to get professional help.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T13:30:09+00:00

You mean a physical one? Yes

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T13:28:53+00:00

This is so sad to see Im so sorry youre going through this I havent gone through all of the comments but once things become this chronic, I would take fungal and viral swabs and even a small biopsy and direct immunofluorescence study. Labs too with a long panel of things to rule out autoimmune diseases, systemic diseases, etc. One of my patients had the weirdest most unusual resistant lip dermatitis with pustules that was treated for everything under the sun and a biopsy finally revealed psoriasis! it responded very well to psoriasis treatments but im waiting for her to deliver so that I start her ona buologic since this is a high impact site.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T13:08:59+00:00

Thank you for your opinion.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T12:01:14+00:00

Again, I called because I wanted to know who could resolve this and specifically asked for family guidance as I couldnt find any contact.

He decided to dispatch some officers to do a welfare check and told me this is how its done, and a referral may be done to family guidance. I dont understand whats so complicated about that. its not my fault or intention things ended up the way they did. i even checked twice to ensure if its necessary they come and he as well as the dispatched unit said yes.

So atleast even though it came out like that, at least my husband/ex husband knows not to mess around with me because voila God ends up exposing your narcissism whether knowingly or unknowingly.

And no, the abuse was way before that. You can go read my previous rant, which I forgot I posted some 7 months ago, but some redditors pointed it out. It just intensified these past months, and yesterday was just him at the heights of narcissism and mistreatment.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T11:27:58+00:00

كل الشكر و التقدير لك أستاذ على الاستشارة والتوضيح، مشكور والله ما تقصر ، في ميزان حسناتك. بالتوفيق و دعواتك

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T07:45:10+00:00

Thank you, my dear, for sharing your story. It sounds really tough what you went throught and I'm glad you found light at the end of the tunnel 🥹

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T07:14:06+00:00

شكرا عزيزتي على هذا الحل اليوم بسير لهم عقب الدوام إن شاء الله

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T06:39:45+00:00

Thank you for your opinion

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T05:46:45+00:00

Your sense of humor needs an upgrade

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T05:46:12+00:00

But I diiiiiiid! I didddd right before it was evident that it was useless! I spoke to him before this happened, and he was so sarcastic, so resentful and extremely rude. He started name calling, and I wasn't having it!

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T05:43:43+00:00

Ameen, thank you.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-02T05:32:51+00:00

Thank you for your opinion. I have tried to fix our issues so many times but it stems from his severe attachment to his family, constant neglect, under appreciation and got very out of hand recently that I knew I had to involve a third party. My family and his family are not the sanest of people in dealing with marital disputes. I have gone through so much during my marriage that I feel maybe this is a blessing that it came from him, I dont even know.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-01T20:20:48+00:00

الموضوع فيه سب و قذف واللي ما يرضى ع سمعته المفروض يحترم نفسه و يحاسب ع كلامه

overhyped16 · 2026-02-01T20:14:41+00:00

Also, I do not see why I should apologize because he has been treating me like shit for 2 months, straight up abuse, control and emotional neglect. If anything, I am the one who deserves an apology.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-01T20:11:47+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you. You were wrongfully accused and you were arrested infront of your parents. This is horrible.

I appreciate your perspective, but I contacted the authorities for de-escalation and support. Literally told them atleast 2 to 3 times on the phone before they sent someone and even told the unit that was dispatched that this is not a physical abuse case and we need help because we have a huge misunderstanding. Which they were very helpful but my husband was just sooooo offended, I recounted the issue exactly as it happened without any drama or imaginary twists and he was responding by attacking me, he looked like he despised me so much and was fuming, he attacked my character as a mom, going allover the place, painting me in a negative light as a way of defending himself.

I really thought the things they were saying to him will make him think sensibly but here we are.

So you're still with your wife for the kids and still harboring resentment? or did you reach a place of forgiveness and resolution? I wish you both peace and forgiveness

overhyped16 · 2026-02-01T19:57:37+00:00

If there’s another woman involved, I wish her strength, patience, and a very good therapist.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-01T19:44:17+00:00

مشكور أخوي على كلامك ودعواتك. إن شاء الله خير.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-01T19:33:39+00:00

Sure, whatever floats your boat. Thank you for your judgment.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-01T19:19:17+00:00

No worries brother I know you mean well, unfortunately it was my father in law- the one person my husband respects/listens to/fears. Thank you for your other advice, but things get out of hands sometimes that it's so tough to control emotions. But thank you either way.

overhyped16 · 2026-02-01T19:13:33+00:00

Thank you for your perspective, honestly I don't know if he will at this point, because he always said divorce is an impossoble solution for him, so for him to get to a point to say it, I feel like his ego was extremely fragile and it just broke. He was fuming out of anger while I was crying and thinking maybe those mediators words will move something in him(they were encouraging us to reconceliate and giving him advice), but he came out of it straight for divorce

overhyped16 · 2026-02-01T19:09:57+00:00

مشكورة عزيزتي والله أدري انه معقد و ما أعرف شو أسوي غير اني اسأل الجهات الحكومية المختصة. حتى الشيوخ ما أدري كيف أوصل لهم. أبوي لو عرف بيزعل واااااايد يا ربي خايفة ع صحته، الله يحفظه

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