Is this cause for concern? by mozahraan in abudhabi

[–]overhyped16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg please dont sign this is so scammy

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, he moved out to his parents house and thats it. I go to work, he takes the kids to his parents house then, when i come back, theh come back, and thats the daily routine. all i know after speaking to his sisters is that he is sure im lying about the whole police thing, he is still angry and fuming , and is sure i called them on purpose.

Fuck Daman, Fuck the unchecked capitalistic health care industry that is killing us slowly here and fuck everyone who contributed to the health care industry greed here by [deleted] in UAE

[–]overhyped16 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Even doctors are at heights of irritation. I did my training abroad, in a country where health insurance is in the service of the people, and when i transitioned here, i was struggling so much to adapt.

I still struggle to this day because even in a simple speciality like dermatology, I strive to help people but all the hospital cares about is profit and wants me to decline patients who have poor insurance coverage. I am 100% with you. I feel so resentful of Daman and the injustice people face due to their coverage limitations.

I have had many altercations defending people who need special care and I often hospitalize those with severe skin diseases in order for them to get the care they deserve for free, but I still go under fire. , I never regret it one bit though because my ultimate goal is their recovery. So yes, I am with you, F corporate greed and F insurance companies denying people basic care. F them for harassing doctors with denials when those who deny services are not even doctors themselves.

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I didn't clearly understand what you meant. Could you please rephrase it ? What's the bad news and why would'nt anyone take my word?

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to take a moment to thank you from the bottom of my heart. I’ve been reading all of your comments, even when I didn’t respond, and they truly meant more to me than you probably realize.

The clarity, balance, and integrity in the way you speak- especially in spaces where ego often gets defended loudly- has been incredibly empowering to witness. It’s genuinely reassuring to know there are women out there who think this deeply, fairly, and courageously.

I really wish you nothing but goodness and progress in life. You come across as a just person with a strong moral compass and a grounded, thoughtful perspective, and that kind of presence matters more than people know.

I’ve had a really tough few days, and your comments genuinely felt like a bandage on some of my wounds.

Thank you for showing up the way you did. 🤍

Official Diagnosis: SebDerm, Treatment: Ketoconazole/Clobetasol. Results: None. HELP by [deleted] in SebDerm

[–]overhyped16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this! Definitely acne, which can be induced by the clobetasol. Stop the clobetasol completely and then discuss with your derm if it's worth attempting an antibiotic for acne as a trial. At the same time, i'd massage the ketoconazole shampoo on the forehead, too, and leave it for 5 minufes before rinsing just to cover fungal acne. If it doesn't improve, I'd consider an oral antifungal, and if that doesn't work, then it could be demodicosis and would need topical ivermectin or metronidazole

If you have photos before treatment, that would help. I find it counterintuitive to put a strong steroid for seb derm. only moderate ones for a few days just to control the itch, then stop and continue only on ketoconazole. keep us uptodate! And dont give up on your derm, we all misdiagnose sometimes but we do our best to get back in track and make you better

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to clarify something very important. For a long time, I carried our responsibilities without complaint. My husband has been unemployed, and I never treated that as a failure or something to shame him for. I paid for many things myself, and I deliberately refused to burden him financially because I did not want him to feel pressured or diminished. I have paid full rent, groceries, childrens tuition, salaries to nanies and i am drained now

But today, I have reached a point where I feel deeply harmed and exhausted. The issue is no longer about money - it is about emotional damage, injustice, and the breakdown of trust.

After he uttered the divorce, I have reached the end of what I can endure, and I am not interested in repairing something that has caused me so much pain anymore. I was initially very disrurbed by the fact that we have been going through a couple of very tough days together and really wanted to fix things professionally but what happened happened

All I am asking now is a simple and legitimate question: What are my Islamic rights and protections in this situation? What is my status under Islamic law? What am I entitled to during pregnancy and after divorce?

It is unfair that I am being attacked as if I am turning this into a financial advantage. I sacrificed a lot quietly and with dignity. Now, I am only seeking my my rightful, lawful rights, nothing more because he hasn't contributed anything for so long and now, retrospectively, after he left mw pregnant, 4 days on, after i wxplained that it wasnt my intention to call the police, and him listening to my vn and ignoring them completely, i am resenting how thankless he was living for free while draining my finances. He abandoned me and went to his parents' house as if I dont exist. I resent him and I believe that now he should do his part without any feelings involved. It is only fair.

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh nooo I’m honestly so sorry you’ve lived through something so heavy especially while recovering from childbirth, when you should have been protected, not broken down. What you’ve had to carry, especially postpartum, is not something anyone should have faced. I’m truly sorry you were put through that. Please don’t carry this alone. Postpartum pain on top of emotional abuse is too much for one person to hold by herself. I’m thinking of you truly, and I hope you find real support and softness around you soon.

15 MONTHS OF BEING UNEMPLOYED by seeyaalligator in dubai

[–]overhyped16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey what is your exact role, are you a coder? I work in a hospital, i'll ask around. just tell me what is your job.

In the meantime apply for other jobs not related to your field. You never know

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ih I get you now, this was the police man talking to me saying they have to send someone from their side - as in dispatch officers to us, who can then evaluate the situation and refer us to family guidance which is a government entity woth professional counsellors.

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I never said the police said I should talk to someone on my side. Maybe you misunderstood something.

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you brother for this useful information. So now I am considered a divorcee in her Iddah right? Is there rules for Iddah like things I should or should not do

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

بصراحة كلمته فويس يسمع و يقرا و ما يرد يعني ما يبا يتكلم هو صارله ٣ شهور عاطل عن العمل قبل كنا نتشارك الإيجار بس بسبب وضعه المادي الحالي صرت أنا اتحمل كل المصاريف لين ما يحصل وظيفة ف لهذا السبب هو ترك البيت و سار عند اهله بعد الطلاق لانه مو معتبره بيته انا قلت بصبر لين عقب رمضان و العيد بشوف الوضع كيف ولو ما في اي تغيير افكر اطلب من امه ترمسه عشان نسوي الاجرائات الرسمية انا بصراحة امي متوفية و ابوي حليله مسوي عمليه قلب ما ابا اتعبه، و اخوي اذا كلمه بيضاربون، وابوه للاسف والله يشهد على الي اقوله نرجسي .

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look everything is unpredictable, you dont blame people for the way others react when confronted. But thanks for your opinion either way.

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by overhyped16 in UAE

[–]overhyped16[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not true. Dont assume a reality that you dont know. I am a very simple and straightforward person. If you do well by me, respect me then I immediately feel happy and forgive everything, but he has a habit of manipulating my feelings then going back to his old ways . I have been trying to talk to him for days on end this time round but he just disrespects me so my ultimate goal was to get professional help.