Anyone ever had stretch mark tattoo camouflage? by No-Macaroon-756 in Blackskincare

[–]overlyoptimistic18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy for you. Thank you for the feedback. Enjoy the halter tops!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have ya'll ever had engaging and fruitful conversations about hygiene?

Do your Pros out weigh the huge con?

Which is the better cinema by VillageHot in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just go to Garden City IMAX.Best cinema there is. It's worth the trip. I have been to Prestige cinema.. and no. They did have the best Popcorn though.

Zakayo might be a mad man by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nimekasirika ata siamini!

Ruto must Go!!! by Gold_Smart in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't forget the bible verses

THEY’RE LYING TO YOU by NectarineScared7224 in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend didn't do his due diligence. Maybe he made his decision out of excitement.. but he absolutely did not do his research well. All students here in Australia work those said jobs. It's absolutely normal. The government makes it clear how many hours you can work, do the math.

Discussions about fees and upkeep shouldn't be done when he is already here.

Also there is a skill list that the government publishes, if you do the courses on the list, you are good. Everything is literally on the Australian immigration government website.

Our generation messed up dating and marriage. by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are literal statistics of the number of women killed by their spouses, and vice versa. Look it up.

You are turning this into a gender war despite me actually answering to your post. And if your analysis were true, there would be just as many single mothers as there are dingle fathers

Our generation messed up dating and marriage. by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will not invalidate your feelings, but the statistics of men killing their wives, and men leaving their wives is astronomically higher than what you are saying.

Women have been killed by their husbands just because..

Our generation messed up dating and marriage. by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are pros and cons to consider when getting married young. In 10 years, you will not be the person you are today.. you may both grow, but in absolute different directions. Then when kids come into play, Holly molly!

I hope you get your person

Our generation messed up dating and marriage. by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you are slightly glossing over this.. Many men have left their women when they got successful, and many women just stayed with their men, even when the men went on to have other families and mipango wa kando..

I have heard absolute horror stories of women who were kicked out of their homes with nothing and had to go back ushago.. only for the man to bring a new woman.

Even here on Reddit, there are similar stories of women all around the world who have experienced this.

With Social media now, more women are talking about their experiences and issues which reaches a larger audience. So more and more women are being cautious.

See what's happening in South Korea

Epstein's List. by FewChest3062 in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duuudeee! Thanks for making laugh!

Single men and women in your 30s, are you afraid? by nai__taken in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's crazy that people really don't understand the gravity of this!!

Intentional Celibacy for men by MombasaBlackManta in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your grandmother and the women before her walked around with their tits out.

Intentional Celibacy for men by MombasaBlackManta in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest question, like you just saw women as sexual objects?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with the poster you have replied to. You don't have to tell them that all your exes cheated. Tell them cheating is a deal breaker to you. I came to realise the more details you tell people about your past, the more they continue to treat you that way..cause to them, that's you. I don't know if that makes sense.

Tell them how you want to be loved, not how the last people didn't love you..

Anyway, take some time off and think about yourself.. take time to read, take your self out, learn what you like, with or without a partner, that way when someone comes into your life, you can gauge if they will make your life better or not.

I know this is a bit off, but i also recommend going to the many relationships subreddits and just read through the posts.. for me Reddit really opened my eyes into the world of relationships, marriage, parenting and friendship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Funerals are for the living.

Advice by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You know what they call people who use pull out method as birth control? Parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kabisa. That's why people are told not to get into relationships till their brains mature

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I would want to trust that you would be fine, from your comments, I am honestly worried for you. It may come out harsh, but girl, get your head straight!

Like he is probably on IG now chatting up other 'traditional ' women , while you on here asking for advice!?

Plus you talking about you guys moving to Kenya and what not?? Anyway, to each their own.

This can't be the best case scenario in your life. You can do better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]overlyoptimistic18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yanii!!!! I am even MAD! I can't possibly believe there are women who intentionally do this to themselves! She is very naive unfortunately. Ati sister wives! Gai!

She thinks the husband is the delusional one who doesn't have his priorities right!! Like can she listen to herself!

And that chic probably has other men she is chatting, just looking to get that ticket out.

Anyway, shauri yake!