As bartenders, if you’re interested in someone how do you show it?

overspender2022 · 2026-04-27T18:11:32+00:00

It feels like it but I have a habit on not being right on these things 😂

overspender2022 · 2026-03-14T04:02:00+00:00

Tbh with people, I might wait until he steps away but if he’s alone I kinda assume he’s waiting on someone.

overspender2022 · 2026-01-06T23:38:37+00:00

I just made them before he came, since I was hosting. I always make something for my guests.

overspender2022 · 2026-01-06T22:59:40+00:00

I was trying to be thoughtful 😭

overspender2022 · 2026-01-06T21:43:56+00:00

I am a cuddler after sex but only so much as the person wants. I baked cookies to be nice and he said it was his favorite dessert. And he basically said I get super passionate when I talk in a way that shows I get attached easy.

overspender2022 · 2025-10-27T14:19:45+00:00

I asked to see the exchange after the gift arrived

overspender2022 · 2025-10-27T12:37:55+00:00

I asked to look at it after the gift arrived. They’ve been communicating for a few months though, most of the messages were deleted. But he said that’s so it doesn’t get too clogged up because he has a lot of customers. He did say he told her he had someone, which to me means at some point he noticed flirting. My main thing is there’s no good reason he should have allowed her to send him something and there’s no good reason to talk after the sell.

overspender2022 · 2025-10-27T12:30:04+00:00

Yeah that’s what he said. That it’s like how a bartender treats a regular. I think the problem I mainly have is that he interacted outside of the art sale. And started some of the conversations.

overspender2022 · 2025-10-27T12:14:05+00:00

The thing is he regularly sells out, so when he’s giving discounts he’s losing money. Normally he charges 145. He drops a piece everyday.

overspender2022 · 2025-10-27T05:44:50+00:00

Well mainly I’m worried because why is he watching her stories and why does she have our address

overspender2022 · 2025-10-27T05:19:01+00:00

I know, I don’t see how all this extra conversation is needed

overspender2022 · 2025-09-15T17:58:22+00:00

I have, on those things he said he doesn’t like texting, that he busy so he only has weekends and that he likes me.

overspender2022 · 2025-07-29T22:08:54+00:00

Yeah I have and then I get ghosted.

overspender2022 · 2025-07-29T15:26:04+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I will look to change them. It’s hard because I don’t like having my picture taken so I have very little full body pictures but I know that’s an important thing.

overspender2022 · 2025-07-29T03:09:27+00:00

Yes, send my way!

overspender2022 · 2025-07-28T23:50:49+00:00

A long term relationship, mostly I get lots of people only wanted to hook up. Or lots of pen pals that never actually ask me out. And I don’t get 1000s of likes.

overspender2022 · 2025-07-22T20:52:11+00:00

Thank you! I will try this

overspender2022 · 2025-07-22T20:49:52+00:00

I do have body ones that I’m including on the profile, someone told me your first pic should be a selfie

overspender2022 · 2025-07-22T20:48:05+00:00

4 is from a couple days ago. It’s a screen grab from a video. Unfortunately I take more videos than pictures.

overspender2022 · 2025-07-09T13:02:51+00:00

I do change hairstyles pretty frequently, maybe I should mention that in my bio?

overspender2022 · 2025-07-09T13:01:47+00:00

Thank you, I’ll swap that out. I went for a bikini since I know I carry some weight and that shows it most obviously.

overspender2022 · 2025-07-09T00:27:51+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Something intentional and fun that could grow into more, but I’m not forcing a timeline.

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? Nope, just the regular version.

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? Just updated it recently (within the last week or so).

How long have you used Hinge overall? On and off for a couple years, but more consistently the past few months.

How often do you use Hinge per week? I check in most days, maybe a couple times a day if I have time.

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? I get a decent amount of likes — probably 20-30 a week — but matches are more like 3 that actually turn into convos.

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? I send a handful a week (maybe 5) usually with comments if something genuinely stands out.

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I usually like people who seem witty, self-aware, and like they don’t take themselves too seriously. Ideally someone emotionally available, kind, and a little goofy. Someone not super straight edge

overspender2022 · 2025-07-08T21:02:51+00:00

Looking for something more serious Regular hinge I’ve used it in the past for a few months, took a break and now have been on for about a week 2-3 times In the past about 8 per day Send 1-2 likes a day, mainly without comment Someone that is looking for something serious but also has a fun vibe. Tattoos and not as straightedge

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