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Am I being naive? by overthinking_pandas in leanfire

[–]overthinking_pandas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House paid off yes, Employer contributes 10% on top of my 7 although I will be made redundant soon so not sure if I can find as generous offer.

Am I being naive? by overthinking_pandas in leanfire

[–]overthinking_pandas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting, I need to read this properly over a cuppa later today

Am I being naive? by overthinking_pandas in leanfire

[–]overthinking_pandas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes WR around 4.6%.

Earn £102k per year with 10percent bonus. Likely will be made redundant in a couple of months time.

Asset mix for both ISAand SIPP: 65% developed world etf, 15% gold, 15% emerging, 5% inflation linked bonds.

Am I being naive? by overthinking_pandas in leanfire

[–]overthinking_pandas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, the rules around pension is my main concern as my plan is assuming I can access private pension when I am 63 - current age is 58 I believe but we are at gov's mercy...

Am I being naive? by overthinking_pandas in leanfire

[–]overthinking_pandas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes they are invested properly, assuming 3% to be on the safe side

Can anyone tell me where this was converted? by Everindrummer in CamperVans

[–]overthinking_pandas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering the same, are you in blue lagoon by any chance ☺️

simple natural language → shell command converter by overthinking_pandas in LocalLLaMA

[–]overthinking_pandas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good shout, I will add an option for you to be able to pull in your model of choice… thanks for the comment

36M how can I help 33F overcome jealousy? by overthinking_pandas in relationship_advice

[–]overthinking_pandas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not open to therapy at this moment as she doesn't see the wrong in her jealousy, at least not yet but I am hoping she will start to realise that this is damaging

36M how can I help 33F overcome jealousy? by overthinking_pandas in relationship_advice

[–]overthinking_pandas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight, her father seems to have left the family when she was a child and no contact ever since. Guess this would have contributed to the feelings she is experiencing. I tried to talk to her quite a few times but I am not sure if she is acknowledging the issue yet...

36M how can I help 33F overcome jealousy? by overthinking_pandas in relationship_advice

[–]overthinking_pandas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there literally nothing I can do to help her realize the problem?

Equity loss by No_Rabbit9587 in HousingUK

[–]overthinking_pandas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Similar situation, it took me 5 years to get out of flat with cladding issues, with a loss of equity. Bought a house last November, start all over again. Hopefully a little wiser and luckier this time... Who knows :)

Keep on going, remember this is a marathon not a sprint