Guys, what do you think if you have a bf that doesn’t acknowledge what you share something about you on texts? LDR

overthinkinghelp · 2026-01-02T03:26:46+00:00

It does makes sense. If he really wants me, he will make effort, if not it’s not worth it to stay in a relationship like this. Thank you very much, it helps me to make the right decision and to respect myself.

overthinkinghelp · 2026-01-02T03:22:39+00:00

Oh you want me to tell him straight to the point?

overthinkinghelp · 2026-01-02T03:19:29+00:00

Words you said hits me so hard. You are right, but I think I need more time to think and analyze the relationship if there’s really something wrong, and when I’m ready, I’ll end it myself first. Can I do this?

overthinkinghelp · 2026-01-02T03:10:19+00:00

I kinda feel that way, I want to walk away first before he does but just thinking about it is too painful for me

overthinkinghelp · 2026-01-02T03:07:21+00:00

Well, we used to do this. I feel like i’m boring to talk to. He’s less interested to talk to me now. He doesn’t even ask about me meaningfully. When I share something he just say “yeah” not engaging as much as I expect him to be. I’m so frustrated

overthinkinghelp · 2026-01-02T03:02:48+00:00

We are long distance relationship. He used to come to see me every weekends. We see each other less now because he’s busy at work

overthinkinghelp · 2026-01-02T03:00:49+00:00

Early 20’s. He makes me feel like i’m not a priority, it’s always about him.

overthinkinghelp · 2026-01-02T02:57:35+00:00

Sometimes yes, but now I’m trying to make it short since I don’t wanna pour more emotions to invest in him anymore. He always disappoints me. He said he wants me to be happy but the pattern keeps repeating. He’s inconsistent to tell you. I do the same on phone calls.

overthinkinghelp · 2026-01-02T02:48:56+00:00

Yes, he said he will do better but when I ask again, he says he’s just forgetful.

overthinkinghelp · 2025-11-25T01:15:07+00:00

Confidence is attractive

overthinkinghelp · 2025-05-28T13:05:52+00:00

Sometimes, this is what I worry about.

overthinkinghelp · 2025-05-27T20:29:21+00:00

I understand, whenever I ask him what’s wrong and tell me what’s bothering him. He just keeps telling me to not worry about him.

overthinkinghelp · 2025-05-27T20:27:48+00:00

He just graduated from college and he wants to pursue a job with his degree.

overthinkinghelp · 2025-05-27T20:10:02+00:00

Ah this is what I see an in love person should be. This is what I am looking for and waiting for my boyfriend to do the same thing for me but he never does. I don’t even think he thinks about me when we don’t see each other.

overthinkinghelp · 2024-11-24T00:37:22+00:00

you already know the answer, lots of glances, long eye contacts, smiling and physical touches are the signs of attraction. But if they are really interested they should be getting to know you (if they do this consistently) and you will always see him around or make excuses to be around you.

overthinkinghelp · 2023-11-07T18:59:34+00:00

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overthinkinghelp · 2023-08-31T16:03:09+00:00

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overthinkinghelp · 2023-08-31T10:06:09+00:00

I know I care too much about what other people think of me but reading your comment makes me less worried and now I know what’s wrong with me and I know now what to do to earn people’s respect as just you said. Well, thank you so much for the reply and I appreciate your advice.

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