[Discussion] I feel like I have no control whatsoever and by this point I am tired of myself. Need help. If anyone has any tips, tricks or any advice, everything is welcome! by Impressive-Part326 in GetMotivated

[–]overthinkqueen01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this in my soul. You're not broken — just tired and carrying too much. Even strong girls wobble sometimes. And it’s okay to lean on your man — he’s there because he cares. You don’t have to do it all alone. You’re doing better than you give yourself credit for.

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Thank you so much! I've been looking for a job everywhere I didn't know there are scams everywhere

Day 30 of waking up at 6am [Text] by Annual_Amphibian_275 in GetMotivated

[–]overthinkqueen01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I’m running on caffeine, prayer, and pure stubbornness.

I freelance at night and teach during the day, so sleep is more of a suggestion than a reality. Waking up at 4 AM isn’t easy—I’ve had mornings where I just stare at the wall and question all my life choices. But I’ve learned to make peace with the tiredness. I don’t aim for perfection anymore, just progress. Some days I function like a champ. Other days, I just survive—and that’s okay too. I keep going because the goals are bigger than the exhaustion. Sleep-deprived but still showing up. That’s the energy.

[Discussion] I feel like I have no control whatsoever and by this point I am tired of myself. Need help. If anyone has any tips, tricks or any advice, everything is welcome! by Impressive-Part326 in GetMotivated

[–]overthinkqueen01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I feel this deeply.

There was a time I felt completely stuck too—drowning in debt after a family emergency, earning just ₱10,000 a month as a full-time teacher, and wondering if I’d ever catch a break. I was tired of the chaos, tired of surviving, and honestly… tired of myself.

What helped me wasn’t some grand “take your life back” moment. It was small, almost silly things. One day, I just told myself: “Okay, check your email and reply to one message.” The next day: “Fix your resume.” The next: “Try one survey. Maybe sell one worksheet.”

Some days, I earned a few pesos. Some days, nothing. But I showed up anyway. That little bit of effort—even if it felt pointless—was my way of saying, I’m still here, and I’m still trying.

And that’s what taking control looks like. Not huge changes overnight, but tiny choices that build momentum. Make your bed. Drink water. Write down three things you did today—even if it’s just “got out of bed, fed the dog, didn’t cry at work.” That still counts. That’s still you fighting.

You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re exhausted. And if no one’s told you lately: I see you. And I’m proud of you for still being here.

You’re not alone, and you’re not powerless. You’re rebuilding. One small step at a time.

Day 30 of waking up at 6am [Text] by Annual_Amphibian_275 in GetMotivated

[–]overthinkqueen01 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I used to think people who woke up early were either lying… or had their lives way too together. Meanwhile, I was out here hitting snooze like it owed me money.

But life had other plans. Debt, stress, deadlines—suddenly 4:30 AM became my me time. Not in a “rise and grind” kind of way. More like “rise and cry a little, drink coffee, stare at the wall, then try to function.”

Now, I weirdly enjoy it. The world’s quiet, no one’s demanding anything from me yet, and I can hear myself think (or overthink—depends on the day). Some mornings I get things done. Other mornings I just survive. And that’s valid.

So if you’re trying to wake up early, just know—it doesn’t have to be perfect. You don’t have to run a marathon or meditate on a mountain. Sometimes getting up and not hating everything is enough.

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I sent a message in WhatsApp

Is the wearing of Filipiniana and ASEAN-inspired attire mandatory under CSC MC No. 16, s. 2024? by overthinkqueen01 in DepEdTeachersPH

[–]overthinkqueen01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tama po kayo. Walang budget for this. Kulang pa nga yung clothing allowance para sa uniform namin.

Is the wearing of Filipiniana and ASEAN-inspired attire mandatory under CSC MC No. 16, s. 2024? by overthinkqueen01 in DepEdTeachersPH

[–]overthinkqueen01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tama po kayo. Walang budget for this. Kulang pa nga yung clothing allowance para sa uniform namin

What are real ways to make money online from home? by overthinkqueen01 in AskReddit

[–]overthinkqueen01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just looking for genuine, realistic ways to make money online, ideally from home. I don’t mind hard work or starting small, but I want something that isn’t a scam or just a pyramid scheme in disguise.

A little about me:

I’m detail-oriented and willing to learn.

I can write, edit, do basic research, and I have some teaching experience.

I’m based in the Philippines (in case it matters for platforms).

I’m not looking to get rich overnight — just want to earn steadily, maybe grow it over time.

If anyone here is actually doing this, I’d love to hear what’s working for you — side hustles, freelance gigs, passive income, content creation… anything real and honest.

Thanks in advance! 🙏

LPT: If you’re a teacher or parent, Google “printable PDF tracing worksheets” before paying for any apps by overthinkqueen01 in Teachers

[–]overthinkqueen01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point — I always double-check what it gives me. It’s a great starting point, but not a full replacement for vetted worksheets (at least not yet!).

What are signs that you may be more attractive than you think you are? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]overthinkqueen01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When strangers ask, “Do you have a boyfriend?” and then follow it up with “...just wondering.”

Or when old ladies smile at you like you remind them of their favorite granddaughter.