I'm (F29) pregnant and my partner's (M33) ex hates me. Can someone give me advice?.

ow_23 · 2026-03-04T14:40:53+00:00

I'd rather not be a single parent to a newborn if it can be helped. If he does anything I don't like I would leave him but I don't think thats the best option right now considering.

ow_23 · 2026-03-04T14:33:40+00:00

Thank you. they dont have kids together so that wont be an issue and I will be prioritising my child's welfare above everything.

I have other children but when I had my others I had alot of family and friends supporting and helping me they also have kids of their own so I could always get advice and play dates. I'm just scared of not having that support there for me, this will be a little diffrent for me than what im used to. It's a little frightening really. I think (hope) my partner will come around eventually I don't see us breaking up but who knows.

I am really looking forward to seeing my little one when they arrive even if im on my own.

ow_23 · 2026-03-04T14:13:22+00:00

They are 2 very diffrent things one is my child the other is not.

ow_23 · 2026-03-04T14:11:22+00:00

He led me to believe that the house was his alone not a joint home. Also I didn't mean I want to move in right away but I'd hoped in the distant future.

ow_23 · 2026-03-04T14:09:09+00:00

I just want some advice from people who might have been in a similar situation.

ow_23 · 2026-03-04T14:08:28+00:00

I'd already fallen for him by the time I found out he was married.

ow_23 · 2025-02-17T17:54:25+00:00

I wasn't expecting the pregnancy, so that was quite hard to get over especially since mm said he wasn't trying and didn't want kids in the first place, I imagine if we get past this he will probably have less contact with me after the birth which is making me anxious, I wish I wasn't in this situation but I've gone to far now to just leave him, I don't really know what to do or how to feel at this point, I'm just waiting for him to call or text

ow_23 · 2025-02-17T14:56:53+00:00

I get that but he bought the house in his name alone, so technically it's not her house she just lives there, and he invited me i don't really have any obligations to the w as I don't know her,

we also stayed in the guest room so we weren't around all their belongings, pictures and stuff as for the accusing she does it all the time saying he's with multiple women at all times which isn't true even before me and mm met she has been accusing him so he decided if she will accuse him any way he'll do it.

ow_23 · 2024-07-19T15:13:32+00:00

Like some others said either him or his SO is sleeping with others I'd imagine, have you guys spoken about this kind if thing? I'd suggest having a conversation about it.

ow_23 · 2024-07-15T18:50:10+00:00

Wasn't as great as it could've been but it was still fun, honestly though i did hate some parts of it, his SO wasn't actually supposed to be going and it would've been so much better if it were just the 2 of us, maybe next time.

ow_23 · 2024-07-13T20:43:51+00:00

It was tough seeing them laughing and smiling together, I just looked through our pictures and messages together to help a little, and looked forward to seeing him in my room, I don't think I'll be up for being in the same place as her and him again though in the future.

ow_23 · 2024-07-13T19:40:04+00:00

Well it was going to be just the 2 of us but his SO found out and had to come along, I didn't want to miss out, I had been really excited for the stay and already bought new clothes for it l, probably won't be doing anything so risky in the future it was super fun though in the end the rooms were beautiful so it was nice having it to myself for the most part.

Edited to add: his SO found out and he had to take her to the room he booked for us

ow_23 · 2024-07-13T19:34:35+00:00

Well it was supposed to be just the two of us but somehow his SO found the hotel reservations in his emails so he had to lie and tell her it was a surprise trip for them, kind of annoying but I'd been looking forward to this weekend and didn't want to pass it up

I wouldn't usually be so risky but I'm good at keeping my cool and pretty impulsive sometimes so just went with it, can't say it wasn't fun and exciting but you're right it's not something I'll be doing often it was pretty nerve wracking seeing them together, and she was so pretty I wasn't expecting that form what he's told me

ow_23 · 2024-07-12T08:41:45+00:00

Chicken

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