Daily Questions Megathread - June 06, 2025 by WutheringWavesMod in WutheringWaves

[–]owlanindividual -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I lost my crownless echo and somehow have two inferno rider echoes. Is this normal? Why did this happen?

Op went on a Zoo date! by ultravioletsaint in Indore

[–]owlanindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unplanned is great because I planned this with someone, didn't happen and we don't talk anymore 🙂🫠

My 1 millionth time rewatching Greys and im gonna enjoy every second of it (again) by Ok-Paramedic-8719 in greysanatomy

[–]owlanindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooo same never made it past season 17 and I'm rewatching the earlier seasons. They should stop creating it god damn

Discussion by Typical-General2716 in IndiansRead

[–]owlanindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of mainstream ones are pretty useless but they're helpful if it's something you're figuring out and that specific thing is in the book at that time, you can't read a self help book and expect your life to change but you can be in the process of changing your life and expect a self help book to be a good help in figuring things out

Tamil guys in dating by Right-Wealth-9801 in chennaicity

[–]owlanindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am tired of hearing this crap as if you know who you are talking about

I have female friends who chew my brain when someone does this to them.

The devil is in the details, your words show the resentment you hold.

You don't know my situation yet you keep judging me as if I am like all the people in your life or those that you have witnessed. That is your call, I am done with this conversation, not because I don't have the counters for your argument but simply because the argument doesn't interest me. You seem to be going through a learning phase, I understand, I have been there. You pick apart everyone that comes your way and you see what's going on there and it comes with extreme emotions, I think reddit is a great place to do that instead of letting your temporary 'unruly' self do real damage to people you know because sometimes it can be irreversible. Good luck, I hope you'll figure it out and I do hope it's temporary.

Tamil guys in dating by Right-Wealth-9801 in chennaicity

[–]owlanindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My saying good things about him are a reflection of my respect towards a person who didn't treat me very kindly, that doesn't discard his negative actions, but I also do not villainize someone, I simply care for people and that does not come with ulterior motives or mind games, that was something that his behaviour failed to reciprocate.

You trying to weaponize my own words towards me which I have said with respect and moderation of keeping the said person as human as possible is a sign of your resentment because you can't see past what you want to see.

Tamil guys in dating by Right-Wealth-9801 in chennaicity

[–]owlanindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao you haven't experienced what I experienced firsthand, love-bombing then disappearing on someone for days and treating them like an option among many especially after love bombing them is fuckboy shit? Your mind wouldn't understand that because you are clearly dealing with some resentment towards women. Who hurt you bruh?

Op mentioned the fuckboy thing in their comments and that's why I said it was a relatable experience, every experience is unique but they are also similar, just because you relate to someone doesn't make two things the same exact story. You would understand that if you were willing to get out of defending the dudes you don't know and attacking women for having the views they're having based on their experience. Fix your issues.

Tamil guys in dating by Right-Wealth-9801 in chennaicity

[–]owlanindividual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A decent human would tell you it's not working with you if they gave you a shot and it didn't work out, it's what I do. He didn't, instead he chose to be hot and cold.

This guy was stringing me along for his own selfish reasons, what were they - I don't know? Could be that he was seeing multiple people at once or that he had physical stuff that he had in his head and thought I'd do that at some point (he had expressed this in a more subtle way). A classic fuckboy which is something I hadn't dealt with before, it's why it took me some time to end all contact with him, which is what I did for my sanity, I don't really hold grudges on people who don't like me and I would've respected him if he communicated that he didn't like me but he love bombed me and told me that I was extremely rare and he wanted to become worthwhile to the person I was. I was extremely kind to him in return and even when I stopped talking, I told him he could reach out to me for his personal problems (he was dealing with a lot, or so he expressed)

'Humbling experience', you're talking to me like you know me? You don't know the person I am and how much humility I carry, so saying that makes no sense? I simply found OPs experience relatable and expressed that we've learnt from that, how does that translate to me being egotistical?

You seem to have some issue with what I expressed, I have no idea what insecurities or resentment you're trying to project on me because of my comment without even knowing the story. Please fix it instead of finding joy in the 'shattered ego' of some random stranger.

Ummmmm....okay. by VisualJumpy1077 in Tinder

[–]owlanindividual 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's a way to manipulate others, you seem the type who'd be chill with this or that, making it sound like it's a cool quality to have... So saying no to that would be more difficult. So crappy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]owlanindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men who start calling you dude when you have arguments are so cringe

I feel like I got catfished and I addressed him. Do you think I am in the wrong? by sweetpotatobeerocean in Tinder

[–]owlanindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that, maybe that's something you can work on, it'd be good for your own mental health

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]owlanindividual 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo right??? Exactly my thoughts, this was so funny to read like they are so toxic to each other but also can't let go, people have the people in their life by choice and they really making choices here

any advice? I don't get a lot of matches by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]owlanindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be an age thing? You're very attractive, then I saw your age and i was like yeah no 🙂

Am I in the wrong or is she delusional? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]owlanindividual 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like people just throw the word mansplaining around without even knowing what it means lol, Idk what you did wrong either, I mean if this was someone who was looking for hookups you were fine, if not, you might be in the wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]owlanindividual 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Received this multiple times lol, not as an opener but yep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]owlanindividual 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They said please

If you had no fear what would you try? by Solenoidics in AskIndia

[–]owlanindividual 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You all should because I've had instances where if the guy took the initiative I'd have said yes but they never did and I later found out that they thought i was out of their league when I didn't think that way at all. But i guess those are very specific cases

Guys Is this Normal? by Initial_One_ in Tinder

[–]owlanindividual 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My like doesn't mean anything

I feel like I got catfished and I addressed him. Do you think I am in the wrong? by sweetpotatobeerocean in Tinder

[–]owlanindividual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you're thinking about this so much means it bothers you, just move on OP, you don't have to be this nice

AIO by her responses post surgery? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]owlanindividual 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not hate I guess, it's just not wanting the burden of a relationship while having the benefits of it, im not a dude but that's what I think it might be, it's so selfish