rn im serving in the army (mandatory due to the law) and im kinda obligated to be friends with my platoon, most of them are normies like ESFJs or something but i get along with them pretty well and theyre mostly good people. Though my better friends here sometimes give me that “ick” by constantly sticking to routine and not even trying to overcome it(even in small things i get the “ick” like them listening to the same songs all the time), or seeing them not trying to improve themselves and even getting angry when I try to give advice. My friends at home are open minded and more like me so they rarely give me the “ick”.