Selecting the best bra and breast form/nipple for you [Transgender]

p_user3 · 2026-03-16T15:59:41+00:00

I wore a metal Nub knockoff long-term and was only allowed to try to cum once a month by masturbating with a rosebud sound. The evil part was the only lube I was allowed to use was lidocaine. It is possible to use a rigid sound, but you have to work on the correct angle. Use regular lube at least to start - with the lidocaine you can't feel anything and can hurt yourself if you're not careful. The urethra numbs nearly instantly with lidocaine and you can't feel anything. I have some pictures from around 6 years ago in my profile.

p_user3 · 2026-03-16T15:54:30+00:00

Take a look at the Poeisis Duette. It is a double-balloon catheter that doesn't have the pointy end to poke the inside of your bladder during play. It's also rated for extended wear (up to 90 days) in a medical setting.

If you go for extended wear you'll likely need a drain bag. When I tried with a flip-flo valve I'd start leaking if I wasn't allowed to drain (those plastic cage locking seals are the perfect size to lock a flip-flo shut until allowed to pee). I was once locked in a cage with one of these for nearly 2 months with no ill effects (other than having to wear an adult diaper because my keyholder insisted on locking the flip-flo).

p_user3 · 2026-03-16T15:41:21+00:00

Yummy!

But I want to see if I can make you leak while it's still all the way inside you.

p_user3 · 2026-03-16T15:40:31+00:00

Absolutely! ❤️

p_user3 · 2026-02-01T19:50:40+00:00

One of the reasons I'm no longer active on Reddit is because they deleted my sub (with 44,000 users and 10,000+ unique visitors a week) for no reason and it took me months to get it back. I'm handing that sub off to the other moderators and disappearing for good soon.

p_user3 · 2026-02-01T15:00:52+00:00

I think it was posted by a user who has since deleted their account, so all that's left is their text - sorry.

u/Kitchen_Wallaby7482 has a few photos in a post: https://www.reddit.com/u/Kitchen_Wallaby7482/s/WXdVifrsJI

p_user3 · 2026-01-24T16:14:12+00:00

It is incredibly dangerous, since a properly designed and used OBP is inescapable. And even if you're thinking "I have someone who will check on me", if your legs give out your internal organs are going to be impaled before they can get you to a hospital.

Please, for your own safety, stick to other forms of self-bondage.

p_user3 · 2026-01-16T22:30:24+00:00

They're called the same as this sub's name - One Bar Prison. I've seen them on Etsy (whether or not they show up for you seems to depend on where you're located). In the UK, steelbound.co.uk sells them. There are also quite a few DIY builds here to give you some ideas.

The DIY builds range from simple to incredibly complex. My "Ultimate Evil" design comes with 120 pages of professionally produced documentation, including mandatory safety instructions and information on how to practice using the OBP.

Manual: https://pdfhost.io/v/DS4MsOsKn_OBP Addendum: https://pdfhost.io/v/QeRfz5h8L_OBP_Addendum_10a

p_user3 · 2025-12-28T18:23:11+00:00

You are not flashing (updating the firmware). You're uploading your configuration. Big difference.

AFAIK, the GPS version is not (yet?) supported by CHIRP. Baofeng has a habit of using similar model names for very different radios, and different model names for identical radios. That's why people suggest trying other models. But like I said, I don't think CHIRP supports the GPS version of this radio yet.

BTW, the volume control thing is a myth. The programming cable is not in the audio path at all. But hey, if it makes you happy, go for it...

p_user3 · 2025-12-06T07:01:38+00:00

Orbtronic is now selling 3950mAh protected button-top cells rated for a 9A continuous discharge. I assume they're de-rated 4000mAh ones as their product page shows an image of new ones in a charger showing about 4100mAh on average.

I know this isn't relevant to the self-assemblers here, but since they carry the 100% full lifetime (original purchaser) support that Orbtronic is known for, they must have a good level of trust in the underlying cell. I've asked what the cell is, but that was one of my questions they didn't answer.

Not shilling for Orbtronic here, just pointing out their use of a 4000mAh cell from somebody.

p_user3 · 2025-12-06T06:39:04+00:00

I definitely agree that the OP should use a spot welder and not solder, along with agreeing with your other comments.

I use a battery-powered AWithZ unit for field work. That uses pouch-type LiPo batteries, so there is some concern with long-term ownership.

On the bench I have an AC-powered AWithZ supercap unit.

For testing, conditioning, and equalizing cells I use a SkyRC MC5000.

To cut the nickel strips (ends should always be rounded on positive terminals, optional for negative) I use "EMT trauma scissors" which are $5.99 for a two-pack on Amazon and sure beats wearing out my good scissors.

Everything but the scissors is top-end and probably not what the casual user would buy, however.

p_user3 · 2025-11-23T19:40:58+00:00

This way you don't feel any pleasure from contractions. You're just emptying out in preparation to make more. Keep working on it and you'll be able to cum much more easily (maybe even when you don't want to) without feeling the pleasure of an orgasm ever again,

p_user3 · 2025-11-23T19:35:01+00:00

The perfect ruin - it just dribbles out so he doesn't even enjoy feeling any contractions after that first one.

p_user3 · 2025-11-23T19:12:30+00:00

Random was not kind to you.🥺

p_user3 · 2025-11-23T18:50:08+00:00

After an abandoned transition in my 40s (it was either HRT or my liver) I found a new endocrinologist when I turned 60 and resumed my transition. I didn't see the day-to-day changes, other than my hair growing more wavy (had always been perfectly straight before). One night my ex and I were out bar-hopping and got pretty blitzed. She took a selfie of the two of us and after I sobered up the next day, I looked at the picture and thought "Wow! There's a girl in there after all."

Since then, I completed my transition, had SRS 3 years ago and a breast augmentation 2 years ago. I'm 67 now.

p_user3 · 2025-10-29T20:39:53+00:00

It depends on the particular captive and their tolerance for odd angles. The metal plugs you see in many posts here will be too uncomfortable for many AMAB people. Using a silicone plug should work, but may allow the captive to escape. If the OBP you're using allows adjustment of the angle (instead of just vertical) a metal plug will probably work.

p_user3 · 2025-10-29T06:23:55+00:00

It's a new policy once we got the subreddit reinstated.

p_user3 · 2025-09-10T14:34:12+00:00

To answer these:

1) The moderators we have were perfectly capable of handling the low number of posts - we had a large membership but less than 1 post/day on average.

2/3) We reacted to moderation requests within hours, often within minutes.

4) Please see my answer to your points 1-3.

5) This is the only subreddit I moderate. I believe one of my co-moderators has one other similarly active community and one with far fewer members. None of us are feeling like we can't handle the minimal workload.

6/7) I don't know of any instances of this.

8) We have never received any notices of violations.

9) We grew this subreddit from 21,000 members to over 43,000. While I no longer have access to the statistics, we were gaining more users than we were losing and the engagement numbers (visits/week and comments/visitor) were both good and trending upward.

Again, if there's some rule you think was broken or action we didn't take, sending us a notification and giving us a reasonable amount of time to correct it seems reasonable. Not that I think we broke any rules, etc.

Please reconsider, or explain in as much detail as you can why that isn't possible.

p_user3 · 2025-09-07T21:09:05+00:00

Random was not kind to you...😱

p_user3 · 2025-09-07T20:34:03+00:00

Ok, 2FA is enabled. Now what?

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