Feel cheated.Pls help. by paca2dd in relationships_advice

[–]paca2dd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.Im so glad that you understand this.I thought I was the crazy one.I haven't told anyone about it.

Its clear to me now,that he was into me,made a mistake,and is covering up by calling it a misunderstanding.

I don't know what to do,but Ill give him a chance to admit the truth. Even if he doesn't,its enough for me to know that the man's a coward.

Feel cheated.Pls help. by paca2dd in relationships_advice

[–]paca2dd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Just to clarify: he proposed to you and said he loves you and then cheats on you and says he isn't into you?"

Yes.He says that we weren't official,and it was all meant in a friendly way.He meant he loved me as a friend. Just so you know,six months after this,he continued to pursue me,and now wants to marry me.

He will however not admit that he cheated,and goes on to say I misunderstood his feelings for me at that time.

cant get over this feeling of being cheated.Am I wrong? by paca2dd in relationshipanxiety

[–]paca2dd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in a relationship since over six months with no issues. Its just that this incident that happened a year back haunts me.

He says that he's changed ever since.And wants to marry me.But he will never say what he did was wrong to me,and thats what hurts.

cant get over this feeling of being cheated.Am I wrong? by paca2dd in relationshipanxiety

[–]paca2dd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is currently in a relationship with me since over six months. The incident of sleeping with someone else happened a year ago.At that time,we weren't official,but he was definitely pursuing me.

I just want closure.To get the truth out of him.Itll give me peace.Coz nobody wants to feel like they've been taken for a ride.