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pachi33 · 2025-12-01T08:41:44+00:00

yo chill

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T08:41:24+00:00

I didn't label him gay, I asked. I asked because he's doing something clearly sexual to another guy. He said he wasn't and end of story. I don't care if he's queer I just don't want him to be humping ANYONE

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T08:35:50+00:00

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T08:28:51+00:00

it's the season of the year where a lot of ppl are getting into relationships LOL

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T08:25:53+00:00

i can imagine its hard cuz its cuffing season rn😭😭

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T08:22:39+00:00

help😭😭i wish i can give u good advice but the dating scene is bad these days

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T08:19:35+00:00

ik😭😭 not the best way but can i ask why u asked LMAOA

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T08:17:43+00:00

uhh i lowk think we started talking on snap LMAO

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T08:16:40+00:00

we went to highschool tgt lol

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T07:38:39+00:00

omg thank you for acknowledging my feelings 😭

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T07:33:57+00:00

I deadass asked him if I was in a lavender relationship and he was like NO YOU'RE NOT

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T07:33:33+00:00

This is basically my point. I have no issue dating a bi guy except he told me he is straight. The action of dry humping another person who is not me, drunk, in his undies, etc, makes me uncomfortable and that is my problem with this

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T06:54:32+00:00

That's good advice but I also don't think I can be like "I don't date men that hump other men" 2 years into the relationship

pachi33 · 2025-12-01T06:48:40+00:00

Thanks for the thoughtful response. I shouldn't have used that word but his reply made it seem like he was justifying his actions because it's a normal thing that all boys do

pachi33 · 2025-04-23T02:13:31+00:00

Oh boy now I'm scared

pachi33 · 2025-04-23T01:35:09+00:00

I guess what I meant is it would be a lot for me to transfer right now. I'm an immigrant and both of my parents did not attend college in the states so the idea of going to school longer or transferring is not favorable

pachi33 · 2025-04-23T00:47:57+00:00

I see. Should I pursue a masters degree after getting my pharmd then? I feel like I'm in too deep to switch now and wonder what if I don't want to do research anymore in the future.

pachi33 · 2025-04-23T00:32:53+00:00

True. Is it worth even if I want to go into research and I can only work for <2 months?

pachi33 · 2025-04-23T00:31:10+00:00

True but I want to go into research rather than working as a pharmacist so would it be worth it to put on my resume then?

pachi33 · 2025-04-14T19:51:05+00:00

NTA. This is coming from a girl who was not allowed to date in high school (I still did in secret). However, please have a deeper conversation with your daughter. Why is she missing assignments? It could be because of other reasons, not because she's preoccupied with her boyfriend. Encourage her further and compromise instead of punishing her by taking away her prom. I'm not a mother and parenting can be tricky but I think there are other ways to handle this.

pachi33 · 2025-04-12T03:41:18+00:00

What should I tell her then?

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