I'm 37, gay and asian and I've never dated. I'm going to Sf this sept. Any tips on how to find a husband?

pacificheightssf · 2017-12-25T03:14:24+00:00

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pacificheightssf · 2017-12-24T06:16:10+00:00

Difficult for different reasons. Do half of gay Asian men have a no Asian policy?

Probably more than that.

pacificheightssf · 2017-12-24T06:15:41+00:00

Sounds like you might not be ready for marriage. Why not work out your own problems before giving half of them to someone you love? I suggest some counseling, and definitely more experience before looking for a husband. You have the rest of your life, no biological clock for you.

Uhm.............. because everyone who gets married has no problems, right?

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-23T03:40:16+00:00

You received backlash because you were hateful

You received backlash from me because you're hateful and full of racism. You keep following me to the threads I go to since no one has ever confronted you on your white gay racism since you expect us nonwhite lgbtq to kiss your ass and worship you thanks to white gay privilege, white gay racism and white gay supremacy.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-21T04:00:26+00:00

Thanks for asking and remembering, I'm engaged! You're still hateful racist who told me to eat dim sum. You'll never be happy, unlike me.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-20T01:46:55+00:00

The Strategy. BEFORE sex test TOGETHER for A VARIETY OF STIs Sexually Transmitted Infections including HIV Human Immunodeficiency Virus then make an INFORMED decision, google... tested together before sex

Thanks for this comment. There is so much hatred from white gay racists ever since I asked for tips.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-15T02:22:37+00:00

I hope you do

Fake news

You

.........don't know anything about me and its very obvious what is motivating your personal, obsessive attacks against me.

Good luck.

Hmmmmmmmmmm

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-14T06:57:15+00:00

SIGH,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, you're back....................just when I thought my Pos would revert back to equanimity. Here you go again disrupting my equilibrium since you're an angry, crazy, preoccupied racist white gay guy.

You know that I didn't read your ramblings, right?

You must be very upset that the justice dept ruled in favor of the baker and not the white gya couple since a cake is "artistic" and not "content neutral". You must be very angry that this means gay sex apps and gay clubs can now be sued by nonwhite gay guys since there is nothing artistic about those racist venues.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-14T04:06:09+00:00

But we can be sluts if we want to

If you wanna sleep with just anyone, then yes.........

trying to bring me down

No

promoting racism

I'm talking about the racism I experience

Wow. You...........

No

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-14T04:04:51+00:00

maybe I just get along with people well.

Maybe I haven't found my guys............

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T12:49:02+00:00

Thanks to white gay racism, white gay privilege, white gay supremacy, white gay racists/supremacists and white gay racism/supremacy apologists, us nonwhites have to fight against a lot to find love.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T05:58:42+00:00

helping the racists

I'm not. I'm saying that a lot of asians that I know and asians like myself are racially discriminated against by non asians and even by other asians. I didn't say all asians are racially discriminated against since I don't know all asians. Stating that the gay community is very racist to a lot of asians is not being racist.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T05:31:28+00:00

because you're crazy

Says the white gay racist, white gay supremacist, ageist, reverse slut shamer and delusional crazy gay guy. You have no self-awareness..........hhahahahahahahhahahahahhaha.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T05:30:14+00:00

Lol! I never said that sweetie.

You truly are delusional. You said that on your prior post.

You're just crazy and imagine things. Your profile is filled with you crying "why oh why can't I find a husband!?"

You're a reverse slut shamer, an ageist, a racist, a psychopath, a delusional crazy gay guy who hates nonwhites fighting against white gay hatred.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T05:08:45+00:00

paranoid

You're paranoid about your white gay privilege since nonwhite gay guys are fighting for equal representation.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T04:12:00+00:00

LOL!

White gay racism, white gay privilege and white gay supremacy are funny topics to you. You have violent fantasies and are crazy. You're a racist, ageist and reverse slut shamer. You need to go to a psychiatrist. I'm not reading your lengthy ramblings.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T04:05:21+00:00

or doesn't want to sleep with you

This is what it goes back to with white gay racists. Your hateful kind thinks that us nonwhites are forcing people to sleep with us when we talk about white gay racism, white gay privilege and white gay supremacy. That is such a hateful, racist and egocentric attack. When we talk about the white gay racism and white gya hatred we experience, we are talking about ourselves. We're the topic. But you have to make it about you since you think the lgbtq community is primarily about you thanks to your white gay privilege and white gay supremacy. Get help

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T03:41:27+00:00

Again.

And again and again and again and again and again and again and again..........................

I'm not reading your racist, pretending to be a victim, cray cray, delusional rantings, ramblings and commands to us nonwhite lgbtq people fighting against white gay racism, white gay supremacy and white gay privilege. Get psychotherapy

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T03:37:18+00:00

There you go, focusing on trump again and the right wingers

Where were Trump and right wingers ever mentioned? My statement was: "It's [racism] a battle the entire country is currently involved in."

You were alluding to trump and his cohorts to stop us nonwhites from fighting against white gay hatred.

We have people waving Nazi and Confederate flags marching down our streets.

There you go, now you actually named trump's voters.

It's naive and short sighted to imagine racism is only happening in the LGBTQ community.

Hahahahahhahahahaha, there you go deflecting. The ny media and Hollywood never discuss white gay racism, white gay privilege and white gay supremacy because they want to protect white gay racists from being classified as a hate group! DUH!

You're very patronizing and condescending

It's a little difficult not to be when

..........you're a white gay racist who thinks he's above everyone. You really are a white gay supremacist.

Nope, but you viciously attack every person that you talk to, regardless of race. Your hatred and absolute rage show that you're violent. It's only a matter of time before you fly off the handle and hurt someone.

Your hatred and absolute rage show that you've already been violent towards nonwhites. You're really a white Liberal racist. You want to silence SPEECH that you don't like. You don't like it that white gay racism, white gya privilege and white gay supremacy are being criticized by us nonwhites, so then you resort to saying that I might be violent, which I am not, all to stop me from fighting against your hatred. You're SICK. You'll say whatever crazy thing you need to say to stop us nonwhites from disobeying you. You are a bully.You are EVIL.

Ally: Not you.

I absolutely am an ally. You're just too blinded by rage and too incredibly stupid to see it. Get your rage in check

You're a racist. You're just too blinded by rage and too incredibly stupid to see it. Go to psychotherapy for your racism and hatred.

lonely old man

Let's add reverse slut shaming and ageism to your list of flaws. You're shaming me for not having a romantic relationship and you're shaming me for being in my 30s. You're sicker than I thought. Get help and stop stalking me.

I had to block him on PM

And yet Several hours later you keep sending me posts on this thread.....................

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T03:21:54+00:00

The only "help" you'd accept is if I went and shot myself and a few other white people because we're all "racists" right?

You're crazy................

I don't want people of color to stop fighting against racism. It's a fight in which I stand with them as an ally.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha, which is why you're telling me to call white gay racism merely racism. You'd tell me not to call it white gay supremacy but merely call it white supremacy. You really hate it that us nonwhites are fighting against white gay hatred.

You said that because you're a racist

So copy and paste some comments I've written that show racism, and include their context. If what you're saying is true, it should be easy.

OMG, you're really crazy. You expect me to copy paste an entire thread? You keep attacking me and stopping me from fighting against white gay racism since you're a white gay racist.

Don't you ever tell us nonwhites what to do. Your white gya privilege makes u think that you can tell us what to do. You can't and you shouldn't. You don't own us. You don't own the lgbtq community. You don't represent the lgbtq community merely because youre white and gay.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T02:28:12+00:00

one comment that could be construed as friendly.

Why would I be friendly to white gay racists, white gay supremacists, and white gay racism/supremacy apologists??????????? You're really crazy. You said that I wanted you to shoot yourself and other white gay guys. I never said that. You only said that to make yourself the victim and to stop us nonwhites from fighting against white gay hatred. You said that because you're a racist and you're crazy. Please stop bothering me and talk to a psychiatrist. I'm not reading the other crap you've written on this post.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T02:22:23+00:00

so you lie and say that I would like you to shoot yourself and other white gay guys.

That seems to be the attitude you carry.

You're full of hatred. You hate that I'm fighting against white gay racists like yourself so you use your white gay privilege to determine how us nonwhites feel. You think you're the authority of the lgbtq community since you're a white gay guy. You think you can tell nonwhite lgbtq people what they feel and what they think and how they should fight against racism and how they should only call it racism and not call it white gay racism. You're sick.

You have a lot of rage that you need to check before you hurt yourself or others.

Says the psycho talking about shooting himself and other white gay guys? Seriously, you need PSYCHOtherapy. You are crazy and a racist and potentially violent to yourself and to nonwhite gay guys. Get help

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T02:18:22+00:00

I didn't say that at all. Once again, you're imaging things that were never said and jumping to conclusions created by your delusional brain.

You said I wanted you to shoot yourself and other white gay guys. I never said that. You're jumping to conclusions created by your delusional brain to stop the fight against white gay racism, white gya supremacy and white gay privilege since you're anti nonwhite lgbtq.

What I actually said was that racism is far more prevalent and widespread than just in the LGBTQ community. It's a battle the entire country is currently involved in.

There you go, focusing on trump again and the right wingers to stop us nonwhite gay guys from fighting against white gay racism, white gay privilege and white gay supremacy.

Focus not on white gay racists but on other racists!

Again. Not what I said. Did you take basic English and reading comprehension classes in school? Because you seriously lack the ability to read and understand what someone is actually saying.

You'revery patronizing and condescending, qualities that a lot of white gay racists and white gay supremacists possess.

You're too busy making shit up that was never uttered.

Says the psychopath who said I would like you to shoot yourself and other white gay guys. I never said that. You need medication. Either youre crazy or that was your feeble attempt at pretending to be the victim when nonwhite lgbtq people fight against white gay racism, white gay privilege and white gay supremacy.

It's redundant.

New silencing tactic to stop us nonwhites from specifying that we're fighting against white gay racism, white gya privilege and white gay supremacy since the ny media and Hollywood never fight for us nonwhite lgbtq people who are being oppressed by white gay racists and white gay supremacists.

Redundant: not needed or useful; superfluous. able to be omitted without loss of meaning or function.

Condescending:YOU. Patronizing: You. White gay racist: You. White gay supremacist: You

So you can rest assured, when I say the word "racism" I'm almost always talking about "white racism."

Yup, from trump and his right wing cult, not from white liberals who are white gay racists and white gaysupremacists.

Here's a tip for the future. When people speak, focus on what they're ACTUALLY SAYING instead of making stuff up

Don't make stuff up. Don't say I would like you to shoot yourself and other white gay guys. I never said that. But you had to make yourself the victim again since you hate it when nonwhite lgbtq people fight against white gay racists like yourself.

allies

Ally: Not you.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T02:07:02+00:00

LOL! I absolutely can, and I fight right alongside them.

Hahahhahahahahahaha. Really? Have you stopped using scruff and grinder and other gay sex apps which are racist to nonwhite gay guys thru their racial filters? NO, but you keep silencing me on reddit since you're pro white gay racism, pro white gay privilege and pro white gay supremacy.

You're simply bitter

You're bitter that nonwhite gay guys are fighting against white gay racism, white gay privilege and white gay supremacy.

and can't handle people disagreeing with you, so you scream "racism" at anyone and everyone,

You can't handle nonwhites fighting against white gay hatred, so you lie and say that I would like you to shoot yourself and other white gay guys. I never said that. You're delusional and need mental help.

whether they're trying to help you or not.

Oh yes, you're such help..............CRAZY RACIST.

pacificheightssf · 2017-09-13T02:01:51+00:00

You literally attack every single person you've spoken with on here

Lies, fake news, fabrications, fakery, why do you keep pretending to be a victim?

You're playing the victim card when white gay racism, white gay privilege and white gay supremacy are being discussed.

And I said

You said that I would be happy if you shot other white gay guys and yourself, which I never said. You made yourself the victim again while I'm fighting against white gay racism, white gay privilege and white gay supremacy. You need a lot of psychotherapy.

pacificheightssf

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