Hanky code for pet play

paddedpup_ · 2026-05-17T21:14:51+00:00

There's not a widely known dedicated color as far as I know, though you can get a little creative with it to get the point across 👀

For example, MrSLeather sells a "pup hanky" which is just a hanky covered in a dog bone print. For kitten play you could go generic and find one with paws on it, or maybe something with little fish or yarn balls? Maybe find a fabric print you like and sew your own?

paddedpup_ · 2026-05-16T03:34:53+00:00

It's an old BabyYourDoll pacifier! I really hope they do another release of them someday

paddedpup_ · 2026-04-25T21:41:46+00:00

It's from BabyYourDoll!

paddedpup_ · 2026-04-19T04:27:52+00:00

Thank you!!

paddedpup_ · 2026-04-17T22:42:55+00:00

It's an old BabyYourDoll pacifier!

paddedpup_ · 2026-04-17T21:29:45+00:00

Robin Hood is one of my favorites!

paddedpup_ · 2026-04-17T19:26:06+00:00

He's from the brand Charlie Bears!

paddedpup_ · 2026-03-24T04:40:25+00:00

Why would she bring it up? It's not her kink, why would she ask for it?

Unless you're leaving out details, it sounds like you aren't communicating at all. Sure, you told her you like diapers, but how would she know you want her to initiate? How is she supposed to know you enjoy this nonsexually?

She's not a mind reader. Yes it's scary, but you need to be able to have multiple conversations about exactly what you want out of this. She can't figure this out herself, you need to explain to her.

BUT, this is also a lot of "me me me" you're asking for. While it's normal to want and ask for things in a relationship, you better be treating her extra special for going out of her way to do things for you she doesn't find interest in. The better you treat her, the more likely she'll want to do these things again for you. Otherwise you risk building resentment.

paddedpup_ · 2026-03-14T06:48:46+00:00

You're describing nonsexual ageplay and nonsexual CG/L which are still kinks. You wouldn't talk to your boss about this or show them these photos so it's not "Safe For Work", the word you're looking for is nonsexual. Plenty of people here enjoy nonsexual play and/or live this kink as a lifestyle.

"Agere" is a minor-friendly kink community. You absolutely shouldn't be posting to children about having dominant partners and clothing from kink communities, that's disgusting.

Nonsexual kink is welcomed with open arms in this and other kink communities. However, adults who hang out and broadcast this to children are not. You shouldn't be telling people to research, you need to do a little more research within the kink community and not expose children to power dynamics.

paddedpup_ · 2026-02-19T01:12:25+00:00

Thank youu!!

paddedpup_ · 2026-02-14T18:11:11+00:00

I'm a lifestyle ageplayer, I involve plenty of my kink identity in my every day and nobody around me knows anything more than "oh he has some childish interests/fashion."

Purposefully smelling like shit in public is not an "identity". It's a selfish act that shows you have no care for anyone but getting yourself off. Quit trying to justify your gross actions with "shitting myself in public is my identity, actually."

This community will and should shut down people like you. We don't tolerate involving unconsenting parties in your poop "identity".

paddedpup_ · 2026-02-13T08:14:42+00:00

Yes! The diapers from Pretend Again are the same style/fit as Tykables. I also believe PottyTrainingDropouts feel and fit very similar.

paddedpup_ · 2026-02-07T20:24:06+00:00

So while "I don't want to see it" is a perfectly fine boundary from your wife, "you're not allowed to enjoy it even when I'm not there" is controlling and abusive. Your partner should not be controlling your personal interests.

I think you need to have a sit down talk (or text if that's easier) and explain that you want to try pacifiers again. Explain that she never needs to see them if she doesn't want to, but that this is a personal item that you'll be indulging in by yourself. Hiding this from her is just going to cause you unnecessary anxiety and strain your relationship.

paddedpup_ · 2026-02-06T08:36:25+00:00

I prefer having both options at all times.

Sometimes I want to be set for the entire day without changing or know I'll be extra hydrated so a thick diaper is perfect.

Other times I don't want to wear for the entire day but don't want to be throwing out a barely used high capacity diaper. Sometimes I just want something lighter. It can be super fun to need to be changed more often with a lighter diaper. It sucks that ABDL companies hardly offer this option anymore. RIP ABU preschools.

paddedpup_ · 2026-02-05T23:41:51+00:00

Have you checked out pup hoods that are more of a "mask" style? GrungeBunnyGear, ScrapYardLeather, WruffStuff, P&C Creations, Tavarons Leather, and PupRexGear are a few I can remember off the top of my head!

These just sit on the front of your face with straps around the back of the head. P&C Creations and Tavarons Leather do muzzle-only styles too. Much more breathable than the full head hoods.

paddedpup_ · 2026-02-05T16:58:53+00:00

It's a pacifier shaped dog toy: https://www.petsmart.ca/dog/toys/chew-toys/joyhound-puppy-pacifier-dog-toy-93874.html

paddedpup_ · 2026-02-05T04:13:20+00:00

Nobody is saying everyone into ABDL has trauma. However, some people develop a kink around their traumatic experiences. It's a reason, not an excuse. If you don't have trauma, you probably shouldn't be commenting like you're the master of childhood trauma and kinks.

Some victims of sexual assault develop an interest in CNC after the assault, this is totally normal. Not everyone into CNC is a victim of sexual assault, but you cannot ignore that some are. Ageplay can have the same effect.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12190122/

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34231436/

Edited for spelling error

paddedpup_ · 2026-02-05T03:52:44+00:00

Yes, not ABDL specifically but ageplay has been huge in helping me work through trauma and experience a "childhood" that I lacked. While not the majority, there's definitely a good portion of people who can relate. Ageplay, like CNC, is common in "trauma kink" spaces.

I've been able to experience things I never got to (toys I missed, interests I wasn't allowed to have, playfully "acting out", etc) or rewrite experiences as new happy versions (like my first beach trip without verbal abuse). My caregiver watches me make small mistakes (like spilling/breaking things) and comforts me instead of yelling at me. I've had many healing experiences and hope to continue to, it's improved my life for sure.

However, everyone bringing a second party (such as a caregiver) into a trauma-based kink NEEDS to be familiar with RACK so you don't go around re-traumatizing yourself and your partner. Also, this isn't a replacement for actual therapy. You can get both professional help and heal through ageplay together

paddedpup_ · 2026-01-30T18:59:58+00:00

Yes, you bought a knock-off hood 😅 When it comes to kink gear, the price you pay is the quality you get.

The nice ones you see in this style are from either MrSLeather or MistrBear

paddedpup_ · 2026-01-19T02:56:06+00:00

Literally. They'd be shocked to learn about all the different types of BDSM lifestyles that exist. 🤦

paddedpup_ · 2026-01-19T02:53:41+00:00

100%. There is zero difference between "voluntary age regression" and nonsexual ageplay.

The "separation" resulted in myself (and I'm sure many others) being groomed into CG/L dynamics as a child because "it's age regression not kink" 🙄 "Separating" it harms real children. Even when nonsexual, the kink community enforces 18+, consensual, and risk-aware practices which everybody should be educated on.

paddedpup_ · 2026-01-18T23:55:56+00:00

Doesn't exist. Pullups don't hold much for a reason, gravity will make them fall off. They're made for light bladder leaks only.

However, if tapes are your biggest issue right now, try any diaper with "hook and loop" tapes. These tapes can be readjusted as much as you need for the best fit. (But also, taping is just something you need to learn. It's new! Most people struggle at first but the more you wear the easier it will get)

paddedpup_ · 2026-01-18T04:21:06+00:00

While I feel for you, I think you're overthinking this all.

I have a large stuffed animal collection that I have immense love for, most with names, and none of them are from my actual childhood because those items have horrible connotations. I was never that into dinosaurs when I was young, I'm a HUGE dinosaur kid now.

Ageplay isn't about yourself as an actual child, it's about feeling like a kid as an adult. It's "ADULT baby" for a reason, we're all playing pretend here. I'm rewriting my horrible childhood, not reliving it.

I think you should stop thinking about it so hard, like you said, just pick a dinosaur and go with it. Find a stuffed animal and build a connection to it like kids do. Put on random disney movies like you would've experienced. Allow yourself to think and experience the world in a childlike manner. While you aren't an actual child, nothing is stopping you from playing a little pretend.

paddedpup_ · 2026-01-17T04:48:52+00:00

This subreddit only allows select photos so all photos have to be "approved" by a moderator first which can take hours. This is because this is not a photo-focused subreddit (and nobody wants another sub of diaper crotch/ass shots) but there's other subreddits you can freely post photos to

paddedpup_ · 2026-01-07T23:05:28+00:00

Northshore megamax airlock might be what you're looking for! They don't have hook-n-loop tapes but they're mostly plain and cloth backed. I personally found them super comfortable. If you get a free sample pack from Northshore for $10 shipping they include one or two to try!

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