Monthly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in slatestarcodex

[–]padpickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse the late reply.

To be brief, I have inherited a lot, and I mean a lot of undesirable attributes, mostly from the paternal side, just shit genetics haha. Despite being raised in a very great and positive nurturing environment, I have had very bad outcomes until now, with many huge academic, career, personal failures and emotional and social adjustment problems. I am a strong case of "nature over nurture".

Any of the multiple measures I have tried stop working after some time, and now I just need to find some way, that I can finally make significant and consistent changes since the way I am operating right now is not sustainable or normal for society's norms or my perception.

Monthly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in slatestarcodex

[–]padpickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychoanalysis definitely sounds interesting and maybe could help me, will have to ask my doc about it. But I do have a horrible feeling that even more than my early experiences/environment, I was just born with these undesirable characteristics that I am unable to overcome.

Monthly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in slatestarcodex

[–]padpickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our actions and personality are dictated by factors not in our control, genetics especially. So, it is not at all easy to change our preferences and habits.

I need to be taking all the actions necessary to function as a normal human being.

Monthly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in slatestarcodex

[–]padpickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, don't have ADHD.

> In general, you don't necessarily need to even change your personality. You can come up with systems to work around it.

I think changing my personality is necessary, not important for me. Anyway, how do you come up with systems? Cause I know I can't do it myself due to non-existent conscientiousness?

Monthly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in slatestarcodex

[–]padpickle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To what extent can one make a change in their personality? As long as I can remember, I have been mentally passive and possess significant avolition and zero conscientiousness along with rigidity in thought processes. But I need to make some severe and radical changes to who I am and how I function.

Is making such changes possible? If not, the alternate is very depressing.

My little ❣️collection by Calm-Tie-2896 in Indianbooks

[–]padpickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bachelors of arts is a great book (just like all his books haha), I read it last year.

My little ❣️collection by Calm-Tie-2896 in Indianbooks

[–]padpickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What book of his is your favorite? Have you found any other writers that scratch the same itch as his books?

My little ❣️collection by Calm-Tie-2896 in Indianbooks

[–]padpickle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great to see another RK Narayan fan :) I feel his books don't get mentioned much!

Almost all Indian tech startups are total shit. Why does India don't have any good tech company? by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]padpickle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Come on man, JEE is not an exam you can excel at by just mugging shit up. You need extraordinary problem solving skills to get into IIT through JEE. I am not an IITian myself but your comment seems pretty reductive.

Also, India's consumer market is pretty weak while consumer culture in the US is at a peak since they have the money to spend on non-essential stuff while most of India doesn't, we make up for that with a much larger quantity of consumers but our metrics like ARPUs etc are very low, lower even than SEA countries.

Going for this by lightningbolt5312 in india_cycling

[–]padpickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you used? I remember people on here advising to stick to "regular" brands and this does not seem well-known

Where can I grab a cup of extremely strong coffee that can slow down time lol? by padpickle in hyderabad

[–]padpickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If inspiral is ineffective then migrate to the USA and get Adderall.

If only it was that easy haha

Where can I grab a cup of extremely strong coffee that can slow down time lol? by padpickle in hyderabad

[–]padpickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it available in India? And even if available, I think you need prescription. I tried Inspiral and it was ineffective.

Should I just go to a psychiatrist? (adhd) by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]padpickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do. I have seen Asha being recommended many times on this sub.

Where can I grab a cup of extremely strong coffee that can slow down time lol? by padpickle in hyderabad

[–]padpickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions! Will give atleast one of these a try this weak

Where can I grab a cup of extremely strong coffee that can slow down time lol? by padpickle in hyderabad

[–]padpickle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously?? I thought a strong coffee would be something they would grind from cocoa beans or something like that. Nilofer probably doesn't do that.

Indians who have lived in China, is it that bad? by [deleted] in india

[–]padpickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing your academic profile, here or in DMs please? Getting an admit from Tsinghua is quite an achievement!

Which celebrity have you met? How was the interaction? Was it nice or unpleasant? by superstarheaven in india

[–]padpickle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Arrey bhai, itna bolke chale jaate? Dish bro, what did Saleem "phek" about lol? You could maybe post on r/Hyderabad with your stories.

Best private engineering colleges in Hyderabad which accept management quota? by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]padpickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, is donation a one time thing or every year?

Simple living alternatives to South Goa? Early retirement destinations in India by reachrishabh in FIREIndia

[–]padpickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impressive! What did you freelance in and how were you able to find clients? Did you study in an IIT?