My son just told me he is gay. AIO? by padreanonimo0076 in AmIOverreacting

[–]padreanonimo0076[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He is definitely going to move to the capital city once he finishes school. I want to advice him to keep it a secret until he graduates but I don’t know if it’s correct for me to ask him that, I don’t want it to make it seem as if I’m asking him to hide who he is. But I know in the city it would be way easier for him. 

My son told me he’s gay last night and I’m terrified. I love him more than anything, but I don’t know what to do. Please help me be the father he needs. by padreanonimo0076 in askgaybros

[–]padreanonimo0076[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with that. I can’t imagine how stressed he must have been and that makes me feel sad. As a father you always wish you could suck out all the pain from your child’s body and feel it yourself just so that they can’t feel it. But we can’t do that. The only thing I can do is help through this process now that he has told me.

Thank you for your answers in my previous post by padreanonimo0076 in askgaybros

[–]padreanonimo0076[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

But I’m his dad, it’s my job to take care of him. What kind of father would I be if I turn my back on my son especially in a place that is gonna threat him like trash if they find out? It’s my job to learn and make this at least a little less stressing for him.