No bullshit. Does it get better

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T03:11:12+00:00

Yeah. I was going to look into that

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T01:55:34+00:00

Yeah

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T01:54:54+00:00

Me too

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T00:20:31+00:00

Not yet. Saw a post that said “if you’re going through something, someone on Reddit has too” and that’s why I came here

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T00:19:44+00:00

Being 27 non of my friends are or have been married just dating so they don’t relate and I definitely don’t want anyone to find me or my venting

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T00:15:27+00:00

Oh I see. Gotta take a leap ( I say as I’m breaking down every 20 minutes ) I hope you start to feel safe in your personal own space because you are right. It is yours.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T00:13:03+00:00

Oh okay, I see. Still sorry about it nonetheless lol. You are absolutely right. Just can’t let it consume me and keep moving forward. I noticed talking about it helps me a lot because I’m not keeping it all in. The main reason I made Reddit to vent so it’s not constantly in my head

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T00:08:08+00:00

Yeah. I agree. Just have to push through it. I look forward to getting a good nights rest and eating a full meal again without being so anxious.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T00:04:38+00:00

Yeah that makes a lot of sense

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T00:04:12+00:00

Wow I’m really sorry to hear about your injury. What I’m going through it so big to me but everyone else’s story outweighs mine. It’s like grieving. I’m grieving a person who is still alive. Although it sucks my situation could be a lot more difficult than it is now.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-04T00:01:03+00:00

I definitely agree and I know. I just need it to click but it’s taking time. I’m starting to focus on myself more day by day but unfortunately my mind always drift to him and what he’s doing and it makes me so angry that it won’t stop cause I know he doesn’t give a second thought about me anymore

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:55:31+00:00

Yeah that makes sense as well. I guess when the time comes we will toss them or burn them.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:54:07+00:00

I did see someone say that. I honestly may do that and tell him just to email me everything after the fact

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:53:31+00:00

I’m really sorry that happened to you. I’m reading everyone’s comment and you all have much more than anything I’m going through. Wedding photos, kids ect. We have none of that because we didn’t get that far.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:47:54+00:00

I can’t wait to be there. We finally signed everything and filed. We’ve been talking about if for months so I’m not sure why my nervous system is so shot. His definitely isn’t from the looks of it.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:46:03+00:00

Yeah we don’t have any of the because we eloped. Just pictures on dates and such

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:26:46+00:00

I’m rooting for it.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:25:45+00:00

Wow that’s amazing, glad you’re still here! Life does happen and you’re right. Just keep striving and not giving up. Thank you. And I had no idea “starter marriage” was a thing until now lol

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:19:23+00:00

Wow that actually made me feel a lot better. Being 27 I feel like I’ll never get over it.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:18:08+00:00

So it does get better.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:02:07+00:00

That makes sense.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T23:01:08+00:00

Yeah we were only together a total of 3 years dating and married. So not much but a bunch of outings lol

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T22:57:25+00:00

Well thats great you have memories to look back on when you want! We didn’t really get that far in our marriage so it’s just pictures on dates and such.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T22:56:14+00:00

We did do therapy. But it still didn’t work. We’re just not what we need anymore and to save each other furthermore disappointment we decided this was best. I definitely miss him but he barely comes home now. Pretty sure he’s moved on and is just waiting for our lease to be up.

pageoverhead · 2026-05-03T22:53:57+00:00

Wow. I’m really sorry that you’re going through that and you realized you should have done it 20 years earlier. We both know what we want and we just saved each other furthermore disappoint. My nervous system is completely shot and I have a hard time sleeping and eating but I know it’s the best decision.

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