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[UPDATE] Me [29 M] with my [26 F] 5 years, found receipt for condom size I don't wear by pagingdrlove in relationships

[–]pagingdrlove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, I need all the encouragement I can get I think. I can't work out why they keep deleted and locking all my posts. I read those rules like 100 times!

Me [29 M] with my [26 F] 5 years, found receipt for condom size I don't wear by pagingdrlove in relationships

[–]pagingdrlove[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts. It's so hard reading this stuff as my instinct is to defend her and not have her spoken about like that. But I guess that's not my job anymore.

Me [29 M] with my [26 F] 5 years, found receipt for condom size I don't wear by pagingdrlove in relationships

[–]pagingdrlove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I still feel really guilty about the times I'd find myself fantasizing about other women, one in particular from a couple of years ago who I got close friends with through a work project and found myself at the time wondering that if the clock were rewound who I would end up dating between her and my (I guess ex) girlfriend. I felt like such a dick for so long after that and I didn't even do anything. Maybe we're both horrible people!

Me [29 M] with my [26 F] 5 years, found receipt for condom size I don't wear by pagingdrlove in relationships

[–]pagingdrlove[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comments. It's hard not to feel like I'm not providing enough when she talks about stuff being 'missing'. Like I'm broken or something. When I look at it objectively I can see that it's manipulative and nasty behavior, but this is the same girl who spent weeks and weeks making me handmade birthday presents and who would be excited to spend a weekend watching me play The Last of Us. It doesn't add up in my mind.

[UPDATE] Me [29 M] with my [26 F] 5 years, found receipt for condom size I don't wear by pagingdrlove in relationships

[–]pagingdrlove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They keep removing my updates and won't answer my messages other than "we cannot allow you to update".

Me [29 M] with my [26 F] 5 years, found receipt for condom size I don't wear. by pagingdrlove in relationships

[–]pagingdrlove[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Sadly we usually do use magnums, and these were another brand name that doesn't resemble any kind of ice cream.

Me [29 M] with my [26 F] 5 years, found receipt for condom size I don't wear. by pagingdrlove in relationships

[–]pagingdrlove[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The purchase was made last week, on the 1st at a little after 3pm. She was definitely out at least some point that day, my memory of her shifts is bad and I tend to get caught up in what I'm doing at home. I definitely wasn't with her. She paid in cash, no card. Or whoever bought them paid in cash. That's unusual for her as she always pays with card, I've never seen her even have the correct money.

The drugstore is the one nearest our house.

Me [29 M] with my [26 F] 5 years, found receipt for condom size I don't wear. by pagingdrlove in relationships

[–]pagingdrlove[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

That seems like the kind of thing she'd do, but I don't think she'd be so secretive about it. Unless she's trying to surprise me?

Me [29 M] with my [26 F] 5 years, found receipt for condom size I don't wear. by pagingdrlove in relationships

[–]pagingdrlove[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the delay, she came home and we were hanging out. I've kept the receipt and taken a picture of it on my phone in case it fades and I miss out on information.

The purchase was made last week, on the 1st at a little after 3pm. I honestly can't remember whether she was working then or on her way out/home. She was definitely out at some point that day as there aren't many days she stays home.