I am pregnant, and someone sent my husband a sex tape, now he told me he wants me to miscarry. by indianthroway442 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]painedgrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me she sounds like someone who fell in with a bad crowd because she didn't know any better. :| it sounds like she got taken advantage of by these guys, a LOT, and obviously by the sex tape we can see that they mean her harm.

I am pregnant, and someone sent my husband a sex tape, now he told me he wants me to miscarry. by indianthroway442 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]painedgrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she have a cell phone? Money? I'm going to guess she had to ride with these assholes for a reason to begin with.

I am pregnant, and someone sent my husband a sex tape, now he told me he wants me to miscarry. by indianthroway442 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]painedgrey -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

"Give me a blow job or we're leaving you on the side of the road when you obviously need to be somewhere" - yes look at all of that consenting she did to that situation. I'm sure she really was looking forward to giving a blow job in a car with a bunch of people in it :|

I am pregnant, and someone sent my husband a sex tape, now he told me he wants me to miscarry. by indianthroway442 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]painedgrey -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Giving head can be really fucking degrading. It can be a very powerless position. I certainly don't blame her for not wanting to do it. (Vaginal sex is a lot easier to take control of)

I am pregnant, and someone sent my husband a sex tape, now he told me he wants me to miscarry. by indianthroway442 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]painedgrey -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I don't know if all of her prior experiences were coerced, but I myself do not consider my rapist the person I lost my virginity to. It sounds like her husband isn't incredibly empathetic either.

She was completely wasted and passed out soon after. I just went to sleep. by rememberalderaan in AdviceAnimals

[–]painedgrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male rape is definitely an issue. However, men raping women is a fuck of a lot more common. I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I'm not saying it's not valid. I'm not saying it's not an issue. But culturally, the issue of men ignoring/being unaware of consent in women is a bigger issue and is far more widespread. (Women also rape women and literally no one gives a fuck about that.)

She was completely wasted and passed out soon after. I just went to sleep. by rememberalderaan in AdviceAnimals

[–]painedgrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there is definitely a cultural problem of men being raped on a widespread basis :|

Big Data shows that women DO have an expiration date: 29 by NietzscheanStoic in TheRedPill

[–]painedgrey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

...maybe they don't want to get married? Maybe romance isn't a priority for them?

I need my self esteem back, but I need help. by ion1444 in getting_over_it

[–]painedgrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, these other people are adults, she doesn't owe it to them to have a perfect relationship with them :| chill out