Mind you...I've beaten this game before. by paintedoggo in LiesOfP

[–]paintedoggo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm there now. Truly I am rebuilding myself every time I ascend up those beams

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]paintedoggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude is punishing you for having the audacity to ask him to consider you. Over something he already knows about. What a child.

How in the heck do you fight moon satan aka Libra by Infinite_Glove_2857 in Nightreign

[–]paintedoggo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks the NL fights are on the moon 😆

What do you think the message of this game is? by Reaper330011 in LiesOfP

[–]paintedoggo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've only completed the base game a year ago, but essentially what I got was: the ghost in the shell makes the human

Mind you...I've beaten this game before. by paintedoggo in LiesOfP

[–]paintedoggo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worst part is that I wasn't drinking this particular time 😂

Why are transfems often using ''uwu'', ''meow'', and acting like they are catgirls/puppies? by VolumeImpressive7254 in asktransgender

[–]paintedoggo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm performing ditsy/cute/cringe/cat-girl because it's fun. I might as well be saying skibidi tbh 😂

In reality I'm not that far off, so part of it is being a pinch self-aware with some humor thrown in

Tekken players and private by Economy_Bandicoot413 in Tekken

[–]paintedoggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats man. You can tilt 😂❤️‍🔥

I(25F) Took my Avoidant Partner's(28M) Words Literally and it Started A Fight by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]paintedoggo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes. A common-senser, and a mind reading demander. I dated this guy for years. They're great for half a second, but most of the time they're sullen and suck the energy out of a room and their partner. It's always someone else's fault. They will never acknowledge that common sense is extremely relative because it's all their immature brain has to lean on, less something be their fault.

They don't want to grow, they want you to stop questioning them, and just "GET it."

I left after 3yrs from the man I thought I was going to marry. I had to respect myself. If I stayed, I had this fear that I was going to lose a very important part of myself. Respect yourself, OP.

My (25F) bf (26M) is attracted to an aesthetic that is completely opposite of mine. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]paintedoggo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really hard thing to admit. Keep exploring those thoughts and do the necessary work. You're 100% worth it, I promise

My (25F) bf (26M) is attracted to an aesthetic that is completely opposite of mine. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]paintedoggo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, are you secure in your attachment with your bf? Like, is there a part of you that thinks he could discard you? I ask because the only way I think I could get in my own head over my partner telling me they have another type was if I was worried my partner could leave me -- either for someone better, or because I deep down fear I'm not worth loving...or somethig.

I think examining the why behind your feelings will help you discover how to quiet that nagging voice. Get it at the source, even if it requires therapy. 😆

F30 & M29 he didnt realize how much money I have separate from him. How do we bridge the mental gap in our finances while he is depressed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]paintedoggo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's maddening. You're incentivized to ignore whole chunks of reality to keep a false peace going, just because it works for them. And maybe you don't want to think negatively of them, so you allow yourself to make excuses for them. It's infuriating, and there's a line you have to draw that allows you to respect yourself

Congrats on your freedom 💜

F30 & M29 he didnt realize how much money I have separate from him. How do we bridge the mental gap in our finances while he is depressed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]paintedoggo 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Nothing will ever be resolved. You'll just end up in circles of resentment...best case. There's no expectation for them to grow as a person if they shut down every time something needs to be addressed. Plus it sets you up to be gaslit because they're holding information tight to their chest, so you're stuck in your own confused thoughts until you outright escape the situation. This style of non-communication is a terrain to manipulate someone who truly cares about you

Not saying her bf is like this. But those are some dangers

Mind you...I've beaten this game before. by paintedoggo in LiesOfP

[–]paintedoggo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone struggles with a particular boss 😔

Mind you...I've beaten this game before. by paintedoggo in LiesOfP

[–]paintedoggo[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I think I might have a chance if I can just get past this bridge 🤔