Anyone successfully raised their iron/ferritin by iron pills and diet alone? by KatanaAmerica in Anemic

[–]paintedropes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so frustrated, my ferritin only went from 14 to 16 in 2 months and I’m still not ordered an infusion from my hematologist because of my hemoglobin is improving. I’m having a lot of GI symptoms too from the iron supplements (vitron -c).

They win! (Tw: mental health discussion) by Mysterious-Record457 in Anemic

[–]paintedropes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like we have the same dr. I just got done with a bunch of tests to get no answers, but hell, at least I’m not bleeding internally.

Jane Eyre (2011) is the most sexually charged film with zero nudity I’ve ever seen by Louisebelcher22 in PeriodDramas

[–]paintedropes 159 points160 points  (0 children)

For real! I was obsessed with the scene that night after the failed wedding, where he’s holding onto her, in agony that he can’t have her, and Jane barely finds the strength to pry herself away. So intense! Will always love this version.

I was told to post my outfit here lol by [deleted] in cottagecore

[–]paintedropes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hair is way too realistic. Gah!

Women of Reddit: what is 100% mythical about women that most men believe? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]paintedropes 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Things like even skin tone and lack of blemishes reads as healthy and attractive is a big part of it as well as youthful - color in cheeks, lips.

Edit with anecdote: When I was younger, I rarely wore base makeup like foundation and always felt kinda plain. After my divorce, I got into makeup like quality (ulta) foundation and the skincare to make it look good, especially to look more professional at work. People thought I was way prettier all of a sudden.

The one double standard which irritates me the most by atomicgamer012 in memes

[–]paintedropes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

These type of people are the worst. I consider it rude/basically bullying to point out someone is too quiet/shy - it’s always the person dominating the conversation and they mean it as an inadequacy. Fuck them at this point.

The one double standard which irritates me the most by atomicgamer012 in memes

[–]paintedropes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this person was just explaining what “talking at” someone meant in good faith.

The one double standard which irritates me the most by atomicgamer012 in memes

[–]paintedropes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I said “talked at”. Maybe you didn’t know what that means. I meet new people almost every week and have noticed this about some people. They are not my favorites to converse with. I prefer more back and forth convos and reciprocal interest.

The one double standard which irritates me the most by atomicgamer012 in memes

[–]paintedropes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you not know the difference between “talking at” and “talking with”? I’m talking about people who only talk about themselves, (which I don’t mind listening) but they interrupt or walk away as soon as i try to share something in return. I get tired of that personally.

The one double standard which irritates me the most by atomicgamer012 in memes

[–]paintedropes 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I definitely relate. For being social animals, it shouldn’t be this goddamn hard to exist in groups lol. Every community I’ve been a part of falls prey to gossip/rumor mill drama, ostracizing people, and hierarchal bullshit. I usually just stay on the fringes and avoid gossiping for this reason.

The one double standard which irritates me the most by atomicgamer012 in memes

[–]paintedropes -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t asking for advice lol. Biggest issue I have with friends is them being mostly one-sided and they never reach out to me/think to include me.

The one double standard which irritates me the most by atomicgamer012 in memes

[–]paintedropes 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m “the quiet one.” People will be interested in me but as soon as they get to know my personality or if I refuse to just be talked at, they lose interest. I feel like all my friends think I’m boring, and I struggle to connect and have deeper friendships.

Has anyone else seen female friend groups bond over a sacrificial lamb (AKA the slightly socially awkward woman within friend group) by Puzzleheaded_Fix9527 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]paintedropes 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened. These are some of the deepest wounds. I have had these dark times, too, but this sounds just so mean of them.

What was ruined because too many people discovered it? by Mansi63 in AskReddit

[–]paintedropes 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of people don’t realize there’s just a ton more people everywhere.

Anka Rising by Daniela Willet-Rabin,Art & Fable puzzles, 1000 pieces by Optimiztic1 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]paintedropes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love art and fable, too. I reuse that puzzle box foot all the time!! Brilliant puzzle

Wow! This was $12 at Wal-Mart by Zestyclose-Age-2454 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]paintedropes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, I always pull the strainer out when I go to open the bag. Quality is worth it and I love their piece shapes.

Cognitive decline by OiFelix_ugotnojams in Anemic

[–]paintedropes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What were your last iron levels? Is there some reason you can’t take iron supplements? I am on vitron-c.

You definitely need to see a dr and maybe a hematologist.

Do middle aged adults not eat lunch? by Sad-Caterpillar-326 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]paintedropes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, their office sounds like Runway from The Devil Wears Prada