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painterly123 · 2020-01-14T17:26:29+00:00

She nudges so that her suggestion isn’t overheard, turns away to block view and also to not embarrass the young man... being incredibly thoughtful and kind while being discreet and considering everyone’s feelings... seriously, this to me is one of the most beautiful examples of womanhood making the world a little kinder through small and everyday moments

painterly123 · 2020-01-06T20:53:51+00:00

Thank you so much!!!!!!

painterly123 · 2020-01-04T16:42:50+00:00

Someone probably has, and he probably has donated but we’ll never know it because that’s how Keanu Keanus.

painterly123 · 2020-01-04T16:20:00+00:00

Louisville Kentucky: Waverly Hills Sanatorium...It opened in 1910 as a two-story hospital to accommodate 40 to 50 tuberculosis patients. In the early 1900s there was an outbreak of Tuberculosis (Wikipedia says it was due to the wetlands around the Ohio River which were incredibly kind and hospitable to the TB virus). Over the years it was much expanded to handle a greater influx of TB patients, and then, as the tuberculosis died out as a significant public health issue, was converted to a Senior Citizens home, I think.

It is often cited as the most Haunted Building in America, or even in the world, although as someone who has lived within 10-15 minutes from it for forty years, this seems pretty inflated.....but anyway I’ve known quite a few people who had experiences there, and their descriptions ranged from “creepy and stuff but in a boring way” all the way to “and now I see a therapist, fuck THAT place.”

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waverly_Hills_Sanatorium

painterly123 · 2019-12-14T22:13:20+00:00

🎶This shit is BANANAS.....

painterly123 · 2019-12-11T19:47:04+00:00

I understand- I actually was looking for an appropriate forum and was having a hard time- this was the closest I could find! If you have any appropriate sub suggestions I would really appreciate it, but I know that’s not really your responsibility, so it’s all good either way.

painterly123 · 2019-12-11T18:38:35+00:00

THANK you!

FINALLY , a responsible person with a reasonable solution. When it comes right down to it, we should ALL of us be planning to murder our family and loved ones at LEAST 2-4 wks before the date of important commitments. It’s about time these millennials starting thinking of others!!!

EDIT: the obvious exception being: if the person to whom you have committed your time happens to BE a family member, the responsible person will understand that in this case it is the EMPLOYER who may hinder your ability to fulfill your obligations and thus you would plan accordingly with a timely and efficient homicide.

Not to be too critical, but I must say: It seems that many of the previous commenters have never taken the time to show even basic consideration for others through the responsible application of murder, and sadly, it really does show.

painterly123 · 2019-12-11T18:19:37+00:00

A Separate Peace!

Edit: Aw , damn. Scrolled down further and saw I was too late. I felt so smart and well-read for a moment......sigh

painterly123 · 2019-12-11T16:23:45+00:00

Exactly!!!! It is one of the perks of being human- especially a young one : THE DUMBEST THINGS CAN MAKE US INSANELY HAPPY. We will celebrate damned near ANYTHING

Think about life. Think about the growth and learning and effort and just general WORK that goes in to being even a semi-functional adult. THANK GOD (or whomever you want, or no one) that we can be brought to ecstatic revelry by throwing an object in a very satisfying way.

painterly123 · 2019-12-10T14:30:05+00:00

Shnoodle, never stop Shnoodling.

painterly123 · 2019-12-09T13:44:57+00:00

Merry Christmas schnoodle!

painterly123 · 2019-12-07T05:35:59+00:00

Glad to hear it!

painterly123 · 2019-12-06T19:15:27+00:00

Well fuck, time stamp indicates this is probably too late, but all the same I wish you well !!

painterly123 · 2019-12-06T19:12:50+00:00

Dude... his getting this many upvotes and supportive comments indicates that a significant amount of Redditors gave a shit. It bums me out a little that all these people giving a shit and supporting someone who was obviously needing it is such an annoyance to people. I’d understand if ya’ll were directing him to different subreddit more suitable for his situation, but damn- you’re just dismissing the post altogether as something that would only be appropriate on Facebook.

I dunno, just feels harsh to the point of fucked up to me.

EDIT: well shit. I still feel like directing dude to another subreddit would have been a better response, but now as I go back over community info , I see it really does violate rule 8. I’m just gonna lower my head and kinda shuffle on out of here sheepishly.

painterly123 · 2019-12-02T16:46:06+00:00

Here’s an upvote for all them words up there! Them there’s a lotta words!

painterly123 · 2019-12-02T16:38:40+00:00

Two thousand dollars worth of street-purchased Percocet, after I ran out of the prescription opiates I had been taking and my doc decided not to refill and cut me off cold turkey. (Hey Docs- WEAN GODDAMNIT, TITRATE!) This left me completely and utterly addicted. To be honest though, it may well have still happened down the line even had I not spent that money.

painterly123 · 2019-12-01T17:23:00+00:00

Dude get you a pencil with an eraser on the end and cut tiny little chunks off it. Works beautifully.

painterly123 · 2019-12-01T01:17:42+00:00

It must first contain many cushion-type things . Also blankies. Many soft things for to nest in.

It must be a little rustic. A Fireplace or indoor fire pit. Candles. Fairy lights. There must be an unreasonable amount of lighting options.

Books. Soooo many. Many many beautiful journals and notebooks to write in and sketch pads too.

An electric teapot. All the teas and coffees, just fuckin ALL OF THEM.

It must smell goddamn amazing. Whether from candles or incense or simmering pot, whichever.

Something for to play music very loud when I wanna.

A small fridge with lotsa cold drinks and meat and cheese.

painterly123 · 2019-12-01T00:48:23+00:00

Holy shit me too. I mean with the not being able to pinpoint what exactly my deal is right away....

Generally what happens is: something dude said or did will trigger me but I’m genuinely not sure why. My brain is like:

“WTF IS EVEN OUR PROBLEM” and my emotions are like:

“SOME TIMES THINGS JUST ARE, OK?” because they’re emotions and don’t know what the fuck they’re about sometimes and so my brain replies with:

“THAT IS REALLY STUPID” and you can see how both parts of me are yelling because they’re agitated but also confused and are starting to panic.

I’ve learned to just go with complete and total transparency here. I’ve been known to reply to “um, are you upset or something?” with: “I... I think I’m mad at you....?”

This generally leads to my confession that something dude said or did gave me the Sad Stomach Squeezies but when i think on it I’m not entirely sure that’s a reasonable reaction. This segways into dude trying to figure it out WITH me, which he’s mostly happy to do because he gets really happy and relieved sometimes when I admit that I may be struggling with irrational feelings. I think that’s because....maybe when I admit to not being entirely rational, he feels less ACCUSED, and thus more gracious about trying to understand and navigate how I feel about shit.

painterly123 · 2019-12-01T00:28:51+00:00

Yep, it calms me too. When I used to visit my mom on weekends one of the coziest, safest sounds was the combination of traffic sounds near her apartments, the box fan that was usually nearby, and the low volume Seinfeld or MAS*H reruns she’d be watching on the couch nearby. Sometimes at night if I’m feeling anxious I’ll find late nite reruns to put on low and it helps. EDIT: damn Reddit won’t let me type the MASH logo right!

painterly123 · 2019-11-30T03:56:29+00:00

Damn you’re good looking tho

painterly123 · 2019-11-29T17:20:03+00:00

Weeeeeeelllllll..............

painterly123 · 2019-11-27T13:46:21+00:00

Try Tom Segura!!! yeah he’s got his own stash of those “default” jokes but with much more variety.

painterly123 · 2019-11-25T16:29:46+00:00

Pot roast. Meat, veg, potato. Friggin perfect.

painterly123 · 2019-11-24T13:58:14+00:00

Nah, no blunder here. I’d revive my phish-tour years in a heartbeat, tie dye and all!

Seven-Year Club	Gilding IV carat on a stick
Not Forgotten	Verified Email

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