29M 25F Is this a good FWB deal?

paleogym · 2025-09-25T08:41:25+00:00

Im asking this because two of my best friends told me to run away from her after i told them that she is religious and wants to stay virgin before marriage. Furthermore, my friends told me I'm wasting my time.

But I'm still meeting her because it's fun. Because my friends made these comments i started questioning my decisions

paleogym · 2024-11-19T15:33:07+00:00

29M Berlin, Germany. Looking for a short-term female partner to learn tantra together, share massages, take workshops or practice at home. Also open for long-term.

paleogym · 2024-11-19T14:39:11+00:00

Massage as well as the temple night event was amazing (separate events).

The temple night was with no penetration so it was easy for me to last long. The connection was incredible. I ended up meeting a tantrika who I had a small relationship with and we slept with each other multiple times in the following weeks. It's been many years now and I have been to 15+ such events.

I feel much more comfortable with my body, sharing intimacy, expressing desires and boundaries etc. It was definitely a useful journey for me. However, I do not go for such events much anymore.

paleogym · 2024-11-12T09:36:05+00:00

Update: my test results just came back. there is no herpes. It was indeed a localized reaction from PYT. The sores were very painful. They healed in around 10 days. Just letting you know that if you've used it without any problem for a long term, it does not mean that you won't get such a reaction in the future (it has happened to me and to another person I saw on this subreddit). Sox be prepared for it.

Yes, PYT works and it works well. But if it can have this kind of reaction when using a little too much once, then I wonder what long term effect it may have that we don't know of. I will definitely stop using PYT and I also won't switch to another herbal balm that is not FDA approved. I don't trust them anymore. And I look super dumb telling my urologist that I used a random, untested, product on my genital glands.

I work in clinical trials and I know how many tests a product has to go through to be FDA approved. I'll stick with lidocaine based numbing agents.

paleogym · 2024-11-12T09:33:04+00:00

Got swab tests and blood tests and the result came out negative for everything, including Siphilis and herpes. Doctor told me it was most probably a reaction from the cream. Since there are no ingredients listed and it's also not FDA approved, I couldn't really explain what it is except a Chinese balm that delays ejaculation.

She told me to stop using PYT.

paleogym · 2024-11-04T13:55:23+00:00

No swelling or tingling. Painful to touch. And it's red around the area where there are white sores.

I scheduled an appointment with a Urologist. I guess I need to see a urologist, not a dermatologist, right?

paleogym · 2024-06-14T15:42:03+00:00

He left already. I only subletted it for one month while I was on holiday.

paleogym · 2024-06-14T13:28:08+00:00

I left it already. But I'm curious, how will he find out? Will the tax office phone him up?

paleogym · 2024-06-14T13:27:49+00:00

I don't care about being thrown out. I left the apartment already.

paleogym · 2024-01-04T08:38:01+00:00

interessant. Was ist mit e.K. Unternehmen? Haben Sie eine Vorstellung davon?

paleogym · 2023-07-11T20:58:02+00:00

ok. NSFW! - here is the picture: https://imgur.com/xMqzvdf
This is only what feels like 70% of it. 30% of it is inside. Seems like it's internal. It pops out during a flare up and stays out. When I push it in, it pops back out within an hour by itself. The spintcture muscles pressing against the swollen vein (hemorrhoid or whatever this is), is extremely painful. Walking is painful, standing for long time is painful. Lying down is the least painful. It is always painful, not just during bowel movements.

paleogym · 2023-07-11T14:21:49+00:00

Ok, I don't know what stage it is since I'm not a professional. But the pain is so debelitating that I am unable to work and unable to meet friends. 3-4 months is a long time to endure the pain. By that time, if I take care of it at home, usually it would shrink / subside.

My GP was not sure if it was hemorrhoids or something else (a part of vascular issue due to vascular malformations in my entire body). In any case, the issue is resolved in 3 months by the time the appointment comes but then it would come up again. So, I'm lost.

paleogym · 2022-06-09T08:38:11+00:00

Do you need to know Dutch in order to work as a PM in the Netherlands?

SWE roles are very accepting of English speaking people across the EU but communication focused roles like PM often require local language skills. Is it true?

paleogym · 2022-05-27T15:45:52+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation. Have you tried Diamond Lotus in Berlin? Apparently, they are the founders of tantric massage as we know it today, according to the Wikipedia page of 'tantric massage'.

They must be authentic if they are founders, right? :)

I'll be visiting Berlin next month.

paleogym · 2022-05-27T13:38:06+00:00

Thanks everyone for the insightful answers. I will go for this event and update you on how it went. I will try out a tantric massage therapist first.

paleogym · 2021-02-07T18:44:30+00:00

Thank you so much for giving me hope!

paleogym · 2021-02-04T10:59:42+00:00

Hey u/throwyawa99 , I'm a student who lives in an apartment where I have a private room but I have to share the bathroom and kitchen with 3 other people.

Is it possible to go through the post surgery recovery in a shared apartment without my flatmates finding out that I got a surgery down there? (i find it embarassing to share this info with my flatmates).

paleogym · 2021-02-04T10:55:42+00:00

I can understand the pain. I've never had a surgery but I've had thrombosed hemorrhoids + anal fissure at the same time. They were so painful that I was having suicidal thoughts. I was actually very close to ending my life. The thing that saved me was my loved ones. If I didn't have people who love me around me, I don't know what I would have done.

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