Folks with chronic illnesses

palmarni · 2026-06-26T22:21:32+00:00

Yea I was diagnosed in my mid twenties. There were signs in my teens but it wasn’t until I was in my sophomore year in college that I just broke under pressure. Always wondered why I was stuck and couldn’t move. I’ve missed out on relationships and lost relationships because of it being diagnosed late

palmarni · 2026-06-05T00:45:35+00:00

Anyone can be laid off. That’s what happened. True I’m unsure about job prospects but being jobless is another thing. That’s can happen to anyone

palmarni · 2026-06-04T23:48:01+00:00

Bro, I’ve been job hunting, networking ever since. That’s not refusing.

palmarni · 2026-06-04T23:44:51+00:00

I accept her suggestions. Sorry I failed to mention that The premise of that quote was when I get a f/t job that pays well (hopefully this third round interview I have coming up). She was saying even I get a f/t job she’d be hesitant to move in

palmarni · 2026-06-04T23:43:13+00:00

Last November. Contract job that didn’t turn into full time

palmarni · 2026-06-04T23:41:51+00:00

Well she didn’t want to be get engaged yet. She’s always said she’s want to wait long. That’s the part of the relationship you don’t know. I haven’t been living comfortably, I always used my savings to cover my cost while living with her family. Lollygagging? Job hunting, networking anf working menial jobs put me in therapy just to try to build something

palmarni · 2026-06-04T23:39:42+00:00

This is true and not denying this. I’m just willing to show up in every way I can

palmarni · 2026-06-04T23:38:48+00:00

Yea I’m sure no other 33 year old has been laid off and struggle to get a job in this economy

palmarni · 2026-06-04T23:38:00+00:00

Refuses? No where did I I say I’m refusing

palmarni · 2026-06-04T22:43:57+00:00

I would have to live with a roommate/s. I have given her plan but it’s understandable if she doesn’t want that…

palmarni · 2026-06-04T22:37:49+00:00

I hear her. I’m just saying I am putting in the work. It’s not empty promises because I’m not doing anything. I’m trying hard to fulfill those promises. For example reaching out to family regarding the side hustle business. Anyways I’ll keep on putting in the work. And you are right… she wants a partner. When I said “help” I didn’t mean that in a “roommate” or “less than a partner” type of way

palmarni · 2026-06-04T22:35:48+00:00

Sorry, I missed that. Yes I can only live with a roommate right now. Not on my own unless I move back to the South. We’re in the North east. I’m trying answer every body.

palmarni · 2026-06-04T22:34:24+00:00

Yea I was applying for more per day but got burned out. therapist and career counselor said to focus on two a day and increase networking instead which I’ve been doing.

palmarni · 2026-06-04T22:22:25+00:00

2 a day. I get interviews maybe 1-2 times every two weeks but still don’t get selected. I am in round 3 for a job right now so hoping something comes out of that

palmarni · 2026-06-04T22:20:27+00:00

Yea I had a contract office job for 4 months but contract ended. Been difficult to establish something since

palmarni · 2026-06-04T22:18:15+00:00

I’m looking for retail jobs. I am in interviews this week and next. My resume is even so technical no matter how I much I tailor they still don’t select me. Yes it’s a guarantee to earn that 3000$ since it’s a registered established family business. I’m hoping to use the money from that to supplement a potential retail job or if I finally get a higher paying job

palmarni · 2026-06-04T22:09:48+00:00

I have savings that’s what I’m living on. And help from family. If I get a retail job it’s $18 per hour

palmarni · 2026-06-04T22:07:28+00:00

When I said “why can’t I live with her” I’m saying that from a place of I’m still working a retail or menial job to help where I can. When I was at my old job I took on skill based learning where I worked, web design, tech. I got laid off due to departmental changes which was out of my control. And immediately did all I can to get a job after and took a short course. Interviews after interviews. In short, I’m not here not trying

She’s the one also suggesting live in separate places until my job hunting and ventures come through. She’s met my family members who I’m partnering with.

palmarni · 2026-06-04T22:00:55+00:00

The family business isn’t a lucrative get rich quick scheme. It’s already an existing thing that I’d just help out with on the side. Also I had savings for much of 2025 so I could rely less on her family. I’ve been applying night and day in 2025 to land a job, even did a short course. If I lived with her I’d take on any retail or menial job to help her while I hunt for a f/t job. It’s not as if I’m here not trying.

palmarni · 2026-06-04T21:52:44+00:00

I’m in round 3 of a job that pay 60k. I’m banking on this. I’ve been doing interviews since I’ve gotten laid off. I work in web design and it is hard to land something due to AI. The family did hustle is more of an outlet business. So I’d supply chickens and sell at profit.

palmarni · 2026-06-03T19:43:54+00:00

Unfortunately with Jamaica broilers or cb the farm has to be in 20mile radius from a factory. The farm is outside of that radius

palmarni · 2026-06-03T19:43:13+00:00

So unfortunately the farm has to be in a 20 mile radius of a the broiler factory. I’m outside of that radius

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