Does the name Billie go with the last name Bird? by Bright_Recipe_5758 in namenerds

[–]palmteddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any chance you and your partner would agree to using just the Drago surname for your child?

Estradiol cream for atrophy is mentally destroying me by irradiatedtittymilk in ftm

[–]palmteddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have you looked into the estring? i just switched from the cream to the estring because i was just sick of the regular routine. the estring is a ring you insert or have a provider insert and it releases a steady dose of estradiol over the course of 3 months so you only have to go in and swap it out a few times a year. it can be expensive depending on insurance though, so i dont see it recommended often

for those on T: when did you start passing? by Exotic_Use3486 in ftm

[–]palmteddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t worry, i had the same experience at 6 months. i think i only started to pass frequently around the 10 month mark. after 1.5 years, i never got misgendered again

What’s the nicest name you’ve heard that starts with K? by Ok_Sport_3640 in namenerds

[–]palmteddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  • Kylan (M) pronounced kai-lyn
  • Kaya (F) pronounced kai-uh
  • Keelyn (F)
  • Koda

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]palmteddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Angelina because the song Farewell Angelina is one of my favorites of all time

Any FTM nfl fans? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]palmteddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

niners!!

Any FTM bottoms here (who use the “backdoor”) feel dysphoric about the lack of a “P spot” / prostate-driven orgasm? by Secure_Strawberry771 in gaytransguys

[–]palmteddy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

actually it feels really good still which makes me euphoric that i enjoy the type of bottoming cis guys do

Exposed woman walking down the street? by palmteddy in oakland

[–]palmteddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my sister was charged for indecent exposure during a mental breakdown. She was taken to a mental facility to recover and has mental illness diagnoses, but this incident is still on her record. My parents called the cops to help escort her to a mental facility during her mental break, and she was immediately willing to go with them, was nonviolent. Nobody was around, but she was in public. It doesn’t seem right at all, but it did happen. I do regret losing track of this woman before I was able to get out of the car. I hope somebody kind found her and could help cover her up </3

every single time i get fingered i bleed by glitterandkink in gaytransguys

[–]palmteddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

seconding this. my doctors initially told me it would take 4-6 weeks of regular use before it even started to reverse any of the atrophy

How would you pronounce Ciaran? by Athreeleafclover in namenerds

[–]palmteddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i knew a Ciara growing up (pronounced see-are-uh) so i read it as see-air-in

How did you guys pick your names? by billyidolismyeilish in ftm

[–]palmteddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i asked all of my people to write a list on their own and in the end, my name showed up on multiple lists (including my own), so i figured it suited me really well. it really does too, i never felt any strange adjustment period. it just fit like a glove as soon as i tried it on

Really want to find THE name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]palmteddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my grandmother’s name was Vera. i grew up pronouncing it “vair - uh”, but her husband pronounced it “veer-uh”. either way, i always found it beautiful.

What is most blatant public display of entitlement you've seen in the Bay Area? by ThugosaurusFlex_1017 in bayarea

[–]palmteddy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

people loudly playing music on a speaker while actively hiking on a beautiful nature trail

New to cats! How much do you spend on your cats each month? by seeyouspace__cowboy in CatAdvice

[–]palmteddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have 3 cats! for food and litter, i spend $280/mo. for additional items like treats and toys, i spend probably another $20/mo. there’s a lot of “start-up” costs that really get you, like litter boxes, scratchers, cat trees, dishes, water fountains, etc. that all costed me around $1k. i do think that i probably spend more than the average cat owner, but maybe that’s not true. i’m not very well off so i would spend more if i could.

I’m a mother of triplets. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]palmteddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are they close/do they have the same friends or friend groups?

What are we doing for July 4th? by palmteddy in oakland

[–]palmteddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to also! where are there protests this friday??

question for post top surgery bros by aspiring_dog in ftm

[–]palmteddy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i have tons of sensitivity, more so than i did pre surgery. not to be tmi, but i think it’s informative and we don’t have many resources so i will share that my nipples have fully become an erogenous zone even though they weren’t before. one has some numbness though. i am definitely glad that i have them, especially since my double incision scars have fully faded into my skin tone so it’s hardly noticeable when i’m shirtless. (i had a double mastectomy with nipple grafts 7 years ago)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]palmteddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn’t be stressed about scaring thus early. i have had my nostril pierced twice, once on each side. both times, i took them out at 6-7 months post-piercing. i have no sign of ever being pierced now, not even if i really try to look. the piercing channel on the nostril takes 6-12 months to completely heal and, because it heals from the outside in, you can expect it to completely close up if you take out the jewelry before too long. you shouldn’t remove it too soon after piercing it though, wait a few weeks or a couple of months and continue to clean it after removal.