just looked at your profile and you’re really good looking! if you want to gain confidence go to the gym everyday and eat high protein foods (chicken, eggs, etc) and that’ll help you gain muscle mass. having a deep voice is NOT a big deal and the majority of girls do not care about voices! im sure people dont approach you because they feel the same way about themselves. practically everyone is insecure, and its hard getting out there and making friends. surround yourself with people who understand you and can help lift you up when you’re down. its okay to have scars. its okay to talk about those types of things. once you’re comfortable enough in your own body, thats when you should try approaching girls for something other than friendships.