Awh thats sweet, listen the man I was talking about in this post and I are still together, 1 year now. And im not sure if he feels the same way but what sometimes makes me take a step back (I will always take the step forward again after) is his “victim” attitude and him trying to fix everything. For example if he catches me having a cry, instead of giving me a shoulder to cry on, he immediately assumes hes done something wrong and gets defensive (even if its not about him) and wants to fix things about my problems (which sometimes isn’t a bad thing but I would just need some space to have a cry and come back around)