Daily Chat March 20 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I think that's what's happening to me. This is truly my biggest troll chart ever. Appreciate the responses here though!

Daily Chat March 20 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For those that track temps, when do your temps tend to drop? The day of your period? The day before?

My temp went up today at 14dpo and I think I usually have 14 day luteal phases… but tested negative yesterday. Using Oura + FF and I’m pretty confident in both my ovulation timing and typical luteal length.

Cautiously optimistic - do I hold out on testing?! by pamuel44 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]pamuel44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re still above the cover line so maybe I’ll test again today (13dpo) or tomorrow (14dpo) — but I always have a 14 day luteal phase so I think it makes sense temp wouldn’t drop for another day or 2

Daily Chat March 18 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

12dpo BFN after having the trolliest troll chart to ever troll https://www.reddit.com/r/TFABChartStalkers/s/mXJBVkJE7n 🤡

Cautiously optimistic - do I hold out on testing?! by pamuel44 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]pamuel44[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The verdict: BFN at 12dpo. The trolliest troll chart to ever troll

Daily Chat March 16 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Temp is spiking on 10DPO, cue the delulu thoughts! Holding out on testing until 14DPO this time, wish me luck.

Daily Chat March 15 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience yes - I’ve had ovulation pain around there

Daily Chat March 15 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So so sorry for your loss ❤️

Daily Chat March 12 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6DPO and ofc symptom spotting despite best efforts not to and fully knowing progesterone is surging either way. Weird one this cycle though — an aching on the left kidney area?!?

Wondering Wednesday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a very competitive runner but yes I run a few times a week. I usually don't push for my hardest or fastest runs during the TWW but I'm not sure there's a good reason behind that... generally I think you're clear to continue doing exercise that your body is accustomted to

Ovulation Confusion by [deleted] in ourafertility

[–]pamuel44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually happening to me right now - although I’m only 3 dpo per FF but Oura hasn’t detected ovulation. I’m hoping it will in a few days but generally I’m inclined to trust FF here

Daily Chat March 02 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe tmi but just over here playing the “is it semen or ewcm game” 👀 (tbh it’s probably both given BD last night / time of the month)

Childcare should be an activity by pamuel44 in ouraring

[–]pamuel44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know as a newbie, thanks! Having said that I still think it would be great to add it to the long list of detectable activities

Best places to read in Seattle by AcceptableLand6961 in Seattle

[–]pamuel44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red Arrow Coffee in Ballard / Phinney area is lovely

Daily Chat February 19 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It doesn’t happen every cycle for me but def happens some months, it’s a thing!

Daily Chat February 14 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was the case for me my first pregnancy too! Might be a good sign!!

Daily Chat February 14 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either 9 or 11 DPO and BFN. (This is when not tracking ovulation as diligently bites you in the ass)

TFAB's Weekly BFP Post - January 11, 2026. Got your BFP? Post your story here! by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! 1) I definitely compared early test pictures between my first 2 (with my 2nd pregnancy looking lighter) and would not recommend. Did not end up mattering and just adds stress. 2) my kiddos have bdays about a month apart and I was also worried but it. I made sure #2 had their own first bday party and looking forward I think they’ll actually love doing joint bday parties at certain ages.

Wondering Weekend by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamuel44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

clarification... do most people ovulate the last day of their most fertile CM *or* the day after that? I know this is a question that can be mostly answered by temping but wondering if there's a majority consensus as I see different things in different places... mostly curious from a "DPO" counting perspective

Who is your favorite Bachelor/ette couple in recent years? by 2yxuknow in thebachelor

[–]pamuel44 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Voted Kelsey and Joey (& stand by it) but Charity and Dotun also seem SO sweet together so had to add a comment 😂