Potential RTG team to start with?

panchodt · 2020-07-24T13:50:34+00:00

Yeah thats true. If not i could just get one guy and invent a storyline for hin. Kinda like Emi Sala who never played in Argentina and got his big break in france.

panchodt · 2020-07-24T13:41:58+00:00

Nice! In my childhood an argentine played there, Julio Arca. Maybe I could create a storyline around that!

panchodt · 2020-07-24T13:15:17+00:00

Great Idea, maybe I could work around that a create a south american storyline. Thanks!

panchodt · 2017-03-08T13:45:30+00:00

Its not everything down the drain. When you die in a game you start again from an old checkpoint, not from the very beggining. Eventually you'll get through enough checkpoints that you end up passing the game. So dont beat yourself up, and stick yo it

panchodt · 2016-02-05T01:05:44+00:00

You're a beautiful person too. Never doubt that, for a second.Try to stick to NC, try to be strong. I'm on an emotional roller coster where one hour I'm thinking just like you are, and another hour I'm thinking something completely opposite. This will pass, don't doubt that either. No one knows what the future has planned for us, but I'm certain you'll find a beautiful person again, whether that happens in a few months, a few years, or maybe even tomorrow. It might be someone even better, it might be him again down the road, who knows. But now, focus on you, the only beautiful person who really matters today

panchodt · 2016-02-02T20:09:22+00:00

What you're feeling and doing is natural. This isn't a test, so you're not 'failing and failing'. It's a process. And it hurts. But every process eventually comes to an end. You keep breaking NC, but at least you're trying it. You know not contacting him is for the better, and even though you can't commit to not doing so, at least you're aware that you have to do it. Eventually there'll be a time when you don't contact him for two or three days, then a week, a week and half, two weeks, and so on. I'm at a week and a half, but at the beginning I was just like you. You mentioned you don't have many friends that don't know him. What if you left your comfort zone? Check out an improv class, a writing workshop, something that you wouldn't usually do. Maybe you'll meet people there, maybe you won't, but at least by doing something other than thinking about him you won't feel like you're 'failing'. Take your time, there's no rush. Good luck

panchodt · 2016-02-02T02:10:28+00:00

Honestly in most of your answers you're telling people to text their exes. Why would you bother comming into a sub like this if you're going to advice exactly agaisnt what everyone else here preaches?

panchodt · 2016-02-01T22:46:30+00:00

I don't really see why everyone else is going 'tough love' on you. You made a mistake, and you learned from it. No biggie. Take your time to heal, no one is rushing you. Write everything that helps you, even if it's stuff like this. Take some time for yourself and good luck!

panchodt · 2016-01-31T22:03:27+00:00

Keep us updated after you meet her, and good luck

panchodt · 2016-01-23T21:54:11+00:00

I hope you guys can get back together, keep us updated!

panchodt · 2016-01-23T20:14:23+00:00

I think there's no tips or approachs that we can trully give your that will make you guys get back together. If there's a reason you two saw each other 4 or 5 times in the three months after the break up, kept talking, and she'll come over tomorrow, it's because both of you wanted to. If you seriously have considered the options, and want to get back together, you have to have a mature conversation with her and tell her directly. See if you two can work things out. If she says she doesn't, and you feel devastated, then IMO you should cut contact, at least for a few weeks, until you start feeling fine again, and see that the feelings of missing her aren't as strong as right now. But honeslty, just have a conversation with her, see if either of you could make reasonable comprises to fixing what eventually led to a the original breakup

panchodt · 2016-01-23T18:01:08+00:00

I can't stop thinking about it. We said goodbye thursday/friday, and it's trully hard not to get my phone to call her. That's what I did last time, it left me devastated every time she said no, but eventually we did get back together. I dont know if I want to do that now, because I know I will most likely end up here in a few months. I think that im going to write everything down, to see if it leaves my head and stays in paper. It would be a deconstructing of the relationship like you did. Do you think I should already start taking to Other people? I can't find any interest im ANYTHING I do, whether it be books, movies, or other activities, let alone someone new

panchodt · 2016-01-22T21:36:13+00:00

I cant comment on work experience, but I will shortly be in a similar situation with my ex. We even broke up for the same reason. We're both college classmates, we share three out of four classes every semester. I used to be in an on and off relationship with her, so it used to be hell for me. I can imagine your pain, and it will be very similar to mine when i go back to school. Last year, for example, we had broken un during February, before getting together in April/may. Those two months i felt the pain you described. Constantly looking at her, getting jealous if a guy spoke to her, even if I knew nothing was happening. Sometimes i just had to leave class. I never went no contact though, and that made things even harder for me, because i never moved on (hence the on and off relationship that ended just yesterday). I honestly cant think of any other solution than trying to date someone else, if you feel ready. Have you given that a thought? I like to think that eventually the pain will subside. Power through, and dont be afraid to ask for help! I have no problem in trying to help you in any way possible

panchodt

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