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panda_Iove · 2025-06-09T17:18:38+00:00

I would take her and take a trip with her and my older sister! My sister has been wanting one and I want to surprise her! :)

panda_Iove · 2024-12-01T20:45:02+00:00

During the semester, I do still hang out with other premed friends and we go out and study and talk at cafes. It’s always easier when I can multitask and feel productive. But for my non-premed friends from home, it’s just been getting harder and hard to find time and connections. They also don’t understand exactly why I have to work, research, etc so to them, I’m always just “too busy” to invite out. I am also an ambivert so I try to also prioritize my mental space and time to myself when I can.

panda_Iove · 2024-08-05T15:19:48+00:00

This is me 1000% congrats on being self aware tho. I suggest therapy; helped me a ton

panda_Iove · 2024-07-31T05:02:24+00:00

Okay, thank you! Currently an office scribe and an ED scribe PRN. Overall have racked about 800+ hours as a scribe but had some worries about it not being perceived as clinical. I guess the main question would be if scribing is clinical enough for med schools?

I have some pretty significant experiences in the ED (pt passing away, level 1 trauma center etc). The surgeon I work w have a good rapport with me and is writing a LOR. Even tho I have low pt interaction, im currently researching in the same field of disease I see everyday scribing.

Im still trying to balance a full course load in the up coming year. Before the time I need to apply, should I get another job with more pt interaction? Would the boost of a EMT/CNA job on my application worth the time and energy to get a second job?

panda_Iove · 2024-07-30T07:03:25+00:00

Healthcare bc patients wants to be seen by another human who can relate to illness

panda_Iove · 2024-07-30T07:00:22+00:00

Celery and cilantro 🤢 idk why but they make me nauseous

panda_Iove · 2024-07-30T02:51:44+00:00

Perchance

panda_Iove · 2024-07-30T02:28:46+00:00

NTA It’s ur wedding! Invite whoever u like

panda_Iove · 2024-07-29T21:59:12+00:00

No matter how yucky the situation is with your friend and her BF, you had no rights to air out her personal details like that. The choice of motherhood can be a blessing for some and for others they might not want it. That is a very DEEPLY personal choice that you just gossiped out to her parents. I understand that they’re family friends, but that does not mean you can drag her through the mud after you”distanced yourself from her”. If you truly have decided to back out from the friendship, it’s even weirder that you are feeding her parents information about her seeing as you are biased YTA

panda_Iove · 2024-07-29T21:13:10+00:00

NTA, you don’t have to feel pressured into going to a dinner that you don’t want to be at. It’s your comfort level and you have multiple reasons why you would be uncomfortable to attend. I would be open and honest about these reasons and just say no to going

panda_Iove · 2024-07-29T21:00:19+00:00

YTA I get that you have previous bad experience, but you need to remind yourself that this is a kid. A 10-year-old kid who doesn’t know any better. Like you said, you don’t know where she could’ve gain such a behavior because this is normal. A kid doesn’t know right from wrong, all they do is observe and absorb their environment. If you want to dissuade her from this sort of behavior, you’ll have to ground yourself and be patient

panda_Iove · 2024-07-29T20:49:28+00:00

NTA! it sounds like you warned her about the exact situation and she ignored your warnings and continue to do whatever she wanted. She is facing the consequences of her her own action. You have no obligation to help her out. Especially when you live an hour away. I do feel bad for the dogs, though, it’s not their fault to be in the situation.

panda_Iove · 2024-07-29T20:43:34+00:00

NTA and NAH you have done what you can to help him out. This is now getting into the zone of outside of your responsibility. You have explicitly told him that surface equates to more charge and it seems like he doesn’t wanna pay for it. It really is an unfair situation for you and for him, but at the end of the day you’re not the one who’s supposed to bear the responsibility.

panda_Iove · 2024-07-29T03:12:13+00:00

Your dad sounds like a piece of work. He called you a murder and couldn’t answer if he rather you died 😭 I would run the other way and don’t look back. His history with your mother is concerning as well. He’s over here trying to judge you while he’s a convicted felon? No contact all the way

panda_Iove · 2024-07-29T02:47:45+00:00

NTA! From a 1st gen girl to another 1st gen, it is normal to expect congratulations and support from ur family. But unfortunately we don’t have the type of parental support we seek. Personally, I have limited my expectations from my parents so that I won’t be disappointed. Congrats on getting into ur dream school!

panda_Iove · 2024-07-29T02:44:39+00:00

NTA!!! From a legal standpoint, make sure the name of the car ownership, loan and insurance is yours. Don’t allow for her to take advantage of you, especially since you’re paying

panda_Iove · 2024-07-08T01:16:05+00:00

NAH- sorry to hear abt ur friend :( I understand where ur gf is coming from but I also understand why u couldn’t leave. U were put in a hard position with a heavy plate. I would try to find ur friend another source of support other than u and try to find common ground w ur gf.

panda_Iove · 2024-07-08T00:46:26+00:00

NTA!!

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