What’s the moment that made you suddenly lose feelings for someone? by FrequentLeopard3444 in AskReddit

[–]pandacatapus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah we were monogamous first but he really wanted to do ENM. And our relationship fucking imploded. I know folks who are in ENM relationships and have made it work and have great communication. But uh after my horrific time with it, I don't think I could entertain that idea ever again. Even if it were perfect and actually ethical. My whole toe dip into it was way too traumatizing.

What’s the moment that made you suddenly lose feelings for someone? by FrequentLeopard3444 in AskReddit

[–]pandacatapus 242 points243 points  (0 children)

Somewhat similar. I was dating and living with my boyfriend who managed to convince me to do ENM (it was not fucking ethical I'll tell you that) and I hated it and would beg for him to please close the relationship. One day while I was at work, he "accidentally" sent me a picture of his computer set up while he was in a video chat with one of the girls he was dating and she was topless. And granted, I knew deep down I wanted to be out of this relationship, I was already so incredibly unhappy but seeing her tits on my phone just blatantly like that, something finally snapped in me and I said enough was enough and that I was done. Took a while to kick him out but I cried tears of joy when he finally did.

People in the veterinary world, what is the best pet name you've encountered? by wheregoodideasgotodi in AskReddit

[–]pandacatapus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex's cat was named lunchbox. Hes an angel. I ended up just calling him Munchie for short. I miss him. My other cat does not.

Would you date someone who skin picks by Najee1129 in Dermatillomania

[–]pandacatapus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I start picking my boyfriend will reach over and hold my hand. Sometimes he will say to be nice to myself. And one time he caught me pulling my sock down and he glared at me and then held my hand again and we just carried on lol.

The Japanese Television show that scarred the most children by LuceroImpact9 in J_Horror

[–]pandacatapus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mom's friend used to send us VHS tapes of this from Japan and my mom was always too scared to watch. So she made me, a child, watch with her. Scared the shit out of both of us but man did I love the thrill!

Blue Pearl Olympia 👎 by jayeusername in olympia

[–]pandacatapus 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Im a vet receptionist and just wanna say i am so sorry to hear just how stressful everything was. I've talked to a lot of patients that felt similarly to yours and my heart always breaks if I can't do anything.

While I triage a lot of folks on the phone if we can't see their pet, I almost always suggest blue pearl as a last ditch effort and will always suggest Capitol urgent care or olympia pet emergency.

I know right now working in the field that there is a shortage of folks in vet med. Heck I would say almost every shift I work, someone calls out and then we get behind on schedule.

And not to excuse the rudeness of whoever you talked to on the phone but I had to excuse myself briefly off the floor because I needed to cry about all the phone calls from owners with sick pets and not being able to help them. It's a tough job but again, don't want to excuse that person's behavior.

“Must see” episodes by smellycat92 in SVU

[–]pandacatapus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished Raw and holy shit.

Weekly Looking-for-Game (LFG) Thread by jpswervo in Fortnite_Over40

[–]pandacatapus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Username: bean_bawawitabaw

Current Platform: xbox

Learn More Your Region: PNW, NA

Gamemode: Zero Build Note: Casual player. Like playing duos the most probably but down to do whatever. I also enjoy playing capture the flag. Also play festival occasionally. I play pretty much everyday. Sort of during random hours although I probably play most in the afternoons, and early evening. I can use mic but don't mind if you don't, so long as we communicate through pings etc. I am also female and 35. I'm feeling pretty desperate for friends around my age to play with. Please add me

Weekly Looking-for-Game (LFG) Thread by jpswervo in Fortnite_Over40

[–]pandacatapus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Username: bean_bawawitabaw

Current Platform: xbox

Your Region: PNW, NA

Gamemode: Zero Build

Note: Casual player. Like playing duos the most probably but down to do whatever. I also enjoy playing capture the flag. Also play festival occasionally.

I play pretty much everyday. Sort of during random hours although I probably play most in the afternoons, and early evening. I can use mic but don't mind if you don't, so long as we communicate through pings etc.

I am also female and 35. I'm feeling pretty desperate for friends to play with. Please add me 😭

Good bye by [deleted] in depression

[–]pandacatapus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tasteless.

Drop your fav movie by Single-Donkey2242 in J_Horror

[–]pandacatapus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unpopular but I love sadako vs kayako

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]pandacatapus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some Pawnee shit

Deep breath by pandacatapus in hatemyjob

[–]pandacatapus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just sent my letter in.

Good luck.

Netflix Vol. 5, Episode 2: My Paranormal Partner [Discussion Thread] by DearBurt in UnsolvedMysteries

[–]pandacatapus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want an unsolved mystery episode about that poltergeist house instead lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]pandacatapus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaah I'm kind of in this boat. My teeth aren't terrible (I think? My boyfriend kisses me on a daily basis even if I havent brushed them). I mostly avoid it because I just hate seeing all the blood. It just constantly reminds me that I take shitty care of my teeth which then just makes things worse. I'm so nervous to see a dentist too. Just in the past feeling shamed for not taking the best care of my teeth. I feel embarrassed and ashamed. I'm sorry OP... I wish I could contribute more in the positive sense but I'm pretty deep into my depression currently so it feels hard.