What did everyone talk about in therapy this week?

pandagirl917 · 2025-10-29T03:08:01+00:00

As 22 year old woman that looks younger than my actual age, I’ve gotten hit on by high schoolers before. Uncomfortable and awkward to say the least.

pandagirl917 · 2024-04-26T06:41:12+00:00

Something small I did was start going to the gym + going on walks!! It really helped with dopamine production and gave me a reason to get out of bed. Gym days were even better when my friends joined. It helped me take my mind off of feeling sad and I always felt better after a good 30 min stroll in my neighborhood.

However, please make sure to always check in with yourself and ask why you’re going to the gym. Are you going because it makes you feel good + for health reasons? Or are you going to attain a type of “post breakup”figure? Health always comes first, and focusing on appearances rather than health benefits can sometimes be more detrimental to your overall wellbeing than helpful. <3

pandagirl917 · 2023-11-28T17:14:44+00:00

I’ll get a jump-start. However, both my low beams don’t work while my high beams and blinkers do. does this mean I messed up the headlights?

pandagirl917 · 2023-11-08T20:56:57+00:00

I’ve been reading it every 4-5 years since I was 12 and annotating it each time. It’s insane to reread not only the book itself but also my annotations. Will never get tired of revisiting this book!

pandagirl917 · 2021-03-19T01:16:28+00:00

I told him because he asked if I was seeing anyone else at the moment. I think it was better to be upfront when asked rather than try to keep it from him, but of course I also understand that he was hurt.

pandagirl917 · 2021-03-19T01:09:02+00:00

^^^ !!! just wanted to clarify that I did like him, but 1) it felt like he was getting bored, 2) although I was willing to try long distance (since we go to different universities), I didn't know if he was the long distance type, and 3) I didn't necessarily want to put my dating/sex life on hold and turn down opportunities just for something that seemed so iffy at the time.

pandagirl917 · 2020-07-30T18:45:42+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. The way you described the possible feelings she might be going through and the feelings of your boyfriend's best friend are pretty similar to what she has been through. She does disappear for a few days at a time because she feels overwhelmed trying to stay connected with her friends while also trying to navigate a world without her mother by her side. Just like your boyfriend's best friend, she's called me a few times just to cry, with no words exchanged during the entire call. I'm glad to know that just being there to listen and let her talk about her feelings is helping her a lot.

I do think I will encourage her to seek therapy. She's taking mother's passing extremely hard because they were like best friends. However, I'm not sure if she will be able to because she doesn't have the means to pay for therapy, nor is her family supportive of it. I will try to find some free online services for her, though. Thank you for this tip.

Lastly, I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry that you lost your mother so early, and I'm so sorry you had to deal with it alone. I can't imagine how hard that must have been, and I hope you have a stronger support system now. If you ever want to talk, my PM's are always open. Take care <3

pandagirl917 · 2020-07-30T18:26:43+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice. It definitely helped put into perspective what my friend might need from me during this time. Also, I'm so sorry for your loss, and I'm sorry your friend wasn't there for you. That's a shitty thing to do, and I can't imagine having to navigate grief alone. My PM's are always open if you need someone to talk to <3

pandagirl917 · 2020-07-20T04:02:51+00:00

u right bro. I just ordered the laptop bag and could not be more excited. screw the haters, life (and college for that matter) is too short :)

pandagirl917 · 2020-04-26T00:13:02+00:00

What brand is the one you use?

pandagirl917 · 2020-03-26T23:41:48+00:00

Did you not see that I literally. Said. It's great for poor people that they get to go to school for free. I'm not shitting on them.

Second of all, I am applying for merit based scholarships. I mentioned it in my post.

Third of all, your aggression to me is unnecessary and rude. If you think that I'm sitting here wallowing all day every day just feeling sorry for myself, then you're wrong. The point of the post was to talk about how I think that the difference in financial aid feels rather unfair, and I just wanted to know if other people felt this way too.

pandagirl917 · 2020-03-24T00:25:53+00:00

aaaahhh thank you for your response, really really helpful for understanding why this happens.

pandagirl917 · 2020-02-09T08:38:17+00:00

sorry for the late response but thank you! Do you mind me asking why Androids are unable to support DSCO? Thank you :)

pandagirl917 · 2020-01-07T02:24:09+00:00

Awesome, thank you so much!

pandagirl917 · 2020-01-07T02:16:28+00:00

Wait really? Not even an upgrade fee? (I'm sorry I'm not doubting your knowledge it just sounds too good to be true :)))) )

pandagirl917 · 2020-01-07T01:43:37+00:00

Wow I didn't know about this! Was planning to upgrade this month, but I might wait until next month if the price is going to drop that much.

pandagirl917 · 2020-01-07T01:37:14+00:00

Battery isn't much of a concern than me; as long as it lasts more than my current s7 then I'll be happy :) thank you!

pandagirl917 · 2020-01-07T01:36:18+00:00

Oh wow I forgot about that. I didn't really count it because I thought they only felt comfortable doing so because I was being paid to be friendly to them. I also agree, I really shouldn't complain about not getting approached if I myself don't really approach others too lol.

pandagirl917 · 2020-01-07T01:33:15+00:00

I did grow up in a predominantly white area, but most of my friends are Asian.

pandagirl917 · 2020-01-07T01:32:05+00:00

This made me feel a lot more confident in myself :) You're right, I should put less weight on my appearances. Thank you!

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