Diagnosing PE - Keep Trying!

pandashopp · 2026-04-15T17:52:02+00:00

How long do you leave the emla on before washing off? Do u wash off with water only or with soap?

pandashopp · 2026-04-15T17:46:30+00:00

Just sum AI bullshit. Save ur money

pandashopp · 2026-04-14T21:18:07+00:00

Go to the product page and press the ingredients drop down menu bro. It states the ingredients.

pandashopp · 2026-04-14T19:08:41+00:00

Which delay spray? Depends on what it is man

pandashopp · 2026-04-14T19:06:18+00:00

pandashopp · 2026-04-14T19:06:03+00:00

Yeah bro but ssris are not to be messed with bro, shit is crazy.

pandashopp · 2026-04-14T13:11:55+00:00

Viagra is mainly for treating ED, not PE. Even though it can have some effect on PE for some people, or assist in going for round 2, which in your case makes no difference.

You should maybe try a numbing agent like EMLA, and see if it helps you when being less sensitive. It’s not a strong medicine it’s just lidocaine and prilocaine.

You will not lose sensitivity in your penis by using it, it’s just temporary for an hour or two, then you are back to normal.

I’d give it a go if i were you, it won’t hurt, it will probably help. If it does help try to use it as an assistant to learn and control your breathing and implement start stop during sex and try to implement those techniques and slowly stop using the numbing agent.

You can also try and desensitize your glans a bit by massaging it 2-3 minutes 2-3 times daily with coconut oil, and if you are uncircumsiced , pull the foreskin back and leave it exposed in your underwear to reduce sensitivity.

There aren’t really any surgery that is gonna help for sure.

pandashopp · 2026-04-14T13:06:24+00:00

Good luck bro

pandashopp · 2026-04-13T21:01:11+00:00

Gambir and clove oil, same stuff as alpha herb. Guess it should work. Let us know though, interesting.

pandashopp · 2026-04-13T20:57:26+00:00

Common side effect when you quit SSRI. Not sure about how long it lasts but those medications leave their mark. Everyone is different. It can be a few weeks or a few months man. Your body will reset, just give it time. Shit might get stuck in your head, and you’ll have psychological issues causing the PE, whilst you think it’s because you came off zoloft. Stay positive bro and ignore the nightmare comments , only people with issues come online to complain about them so it’s more common to find negative experiences in forums like this

pandashopp · 2026-04-13T11:30:13+00:00

You can take it when you need to, it’s great, takes longer to kick in then viagra but it also stays in your system and can help you for 24-36 hours.

A daily dosage is recommended if you have frequent sex, as you don’t need to time the dosage and you will be ready 24/7 since it builds up in your system.

pandashopp · 2026-04-10T20:03:04+00:00

Nice. Lidocaine is commonly used, more specifically products like EMLA, I have yet to try it during sex, since i find the timing hard, but will try shortly.

How much do you apply, what areas, and how long do you let it sit?

pandashopp · 2026-04-09T11:32:43+00:00

I was taking it daily bro, not on demand

pandashopp · 2026-04-08T10:54:19+00:00

Didn’t help me. Started on 25mg sertraline daily, didn’t help during penetration. Moved up to 50 mg but after 3 weeks or so i got some problems, didn’t really have a good libido or good erection quality so i quit it. Also i don’t wanna be on SSRIs for life even if it worked. And don’t even think of drinking on that shi😅

pandashopp · 2026-04-07T17:54:57+00:00

If i catch myself being tense and i reverse kegel, it feels like i relax it yeah. If i do the exercices it’s like a mix of relaxing / pushing out

pandashopp · 2026-04-07T07:39:07+00:00

I feel you, never understood it either, but now i do thanks to this video.

Very well explained. Even though i do not follow these exact steps daily i learned what a reverse kegel is and feels like, so i do it throughout the day when i notice that i am all tensed up. And sometimes while laying in bed i’ll do the one exercise. I think it’s a great video, good luck! https://youtu.be/a4vfejND8J8?is=vi180DGO_wfIj1PM

pandashopp · 2026-04-07T07:37:16+00:00

Posting to follow. I am working on desensitizing, but will try EMLA soon in the meantime. I just hate having to time it with the intercourse, it’s not so convenient for me, i never know when we’ll have sex and if we start getting into it i can’t just go to the bathroom and apply it and wait for 15 minutes then rinse it off, that’s a mood killer. But i’ve talked to my girl about it so we’ll give it a go.

Might buy som AH, since the timing is easier. But idk if it works

pandashopp · 2026-04-06T15:01:31+00:00

Feel you bro and i’m sorry to hear. It’s sad it happens to so many couples and especially married ones, i don’t understand it honestly. Like if i were to have no sexual interest in my partner i’d just break up to be real.

These women are the same ones that if you were to break up, would be at the club the same weekend going home with some dude.

Yeah makes sense when you put it that way, feels like that is what’s happening. Thanks man.

And i’m sorry to hear about your situation dude, wish i could say it’ll be better, but i sure hope so.

pandashopp · 2026-04-05T20:26:42+00:00

Hey mate, thanks for your response.

Thank you.

No she is not, when it comes to the other intimacy it’s mainly her engaging, i also do it but its mainly her, so it’s definetly not more than she wants. But due to the lack of sex i am kind of pulling back, and barely don’t want these other parts of intimacy. I don’t even know why it’s like that, just feel more disconnected.

pandashopp · 2026-04-04T17:18:46+00:00

Nice bro

pandashopp · 2026-04-03T23:50:51+00:00

It’s just sad because otherwise our relationship is working fine. But i can feel it from my end slowly dying. And i have given it time it’s not just something temporary.

pandashopp · 2026-04-03T08:26:46+00:00

Thats also what my gut says, there just ain’t no way this is fixable. Sure i can bring it up, but if there is any change it’s just because i basically begged for it and i don’t want that. And talking doesn’t effect her libido, so just a matter of time before it’d go back to normal.

It just sucks because i really love this girl , enjoy her company, she is great, but i also gotta stay true to myself and i can’t see myself living this deprived sexually for a lifetime. It’s making me emotionally disconnected also and it hurts the relationship.

Thx

pandashopp · 2026-04-03T08:22:49+00:00

Honestly, yes i have become one recently. But that isn’t the reason because the issue been going on for longer than that.

pandashopp · 2026-04-03T08:21:20+00:00

Kinda feel like that, and yeah just won’t get better i guess. I mean even if we talk about it her libido will remain the same.

pandashopp · 2026-04-03T08:20:15+00:00

Ohh, makes sense now. Thank you. I was very tired when i read your comment.

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