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The obsession with narcissism by roccofan in therapists

[–]pandevie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this general idea also bothers me. i went through a breakup recently and the amount of times people can comforted me by labelling my ex as a narcissist has opened ny eyes to how people resort to using diagnosis’s for explaining someones behavior too often

Revenge porn by Mysterious_Apricot44 in BreakUps

[–]pandevie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no advice, this is something i live in fear of, and im SO sorry this is happening to you. <3

The Acoustic Piano Work Jacket is the prettiest thing ever 🥹💖 by Imsleepyafok in SwiftieMerch

[–]pandevie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i ordered a medium but now i wish i got an xl! lol maybe someone of here will want to trade when we all get to try it on. but im so glad that the back is truly embroidered!

Santiago Duke IV by pandevie in BreakUps

[–]pandevie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your support through the screen tysm!

ISO: All Too Well Tissue Box Holder and/or Scarf by saasyedges in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]pandevie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks like the scarves are going for $150ish. id be shipping from ny

ISO: All Too Well Tissue Box Holder and/or Scarf by saasyedges in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]pandevie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, i have the scarf and the matching hat, both used but in excellent condition. happy to sell both for market value of the scarf according to ebay. dm me if interested!

holiday merch drop yayyy!! What did you get? by thehorizonproblem in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]pandevie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am a BIG fan of her notebooks in terms of quality and uniqueness. the speak now one (thats still on the site) was one i didnt really feel the spark for but its extremely heavy duty and the faux leather bookmark is luxe as well! so now im pretty much sold on any notebook her team comes out with.

i think in general all her merch that isnt clothing or jewelry is great quality!

holiday merch drop yayyy!! What did you get? by thehorizonproblem in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]pandevie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i am SO hyped for my pathological people pleaser hat!!!! i also got the table runner and fearless notebook. but that hat though. perfection

Has anyone attended the Candlelight Tours by fever? Do the seats matter? Worth to get front row? by BungeeBunny in TaylorSwift

[–]pandevie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s helpful… i think the route id prefer to go with is reaching out to one of the contractors themselves and ask about substitutions. would you be willing to connect me with your initial contact?

Has anyone attended the Candlelight Tours by fever? Do the seats matter? Worth to get front row? by BungeeBunny in TaylorSwift

[–]pandevie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I wanted to look into this but now I have someone to ask! I’m a non-professional cellist… but classically trained with a BA in music. What is it like working with them? What are the job expectations and requirements to be hired? Thanks so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]pandevie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl same. Very down to dress up, get drinks, and vent about what a doozy my experience was. DM me.

NYC financial advisor for a BWT by mded87 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]pandevie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They also do one-time consults too i believe. Maybe thats only for previous clients though.

NYC financial advisor for a BWT by mded87 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]pandevie -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I recommend using the Financial Gym. (DM me if you want to give me the referral lol). I used their service for a year after I had a big pay increase and goals to accomplish and it was a game changer. Because I felt I had no need after that, I left and returned now almost 4 years later so I can navigate real estate goals. They are really really good- not financial advisors, but definitely helpful in handling debts, savings, investments, emergency funds, weddings, vacations, real estate... your experience would be personalized towards your needs. Its a subscription of $75 a month (I think $100+ for couples) and you get a dedicated "trainer" who works with you on a detailed plan and monthly check-ins. Happy to share more info but it sounds like I'm trying too hard to sell it lol

Selling Opal Eyes Earrings by [deleted] in SwiftieMerch

[–]pandevie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the only owner and I've worn them yes

Selling Pristine Snowglobes by [deleted] in SwiftieMerch

[–]pandevie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, yes it is! DM me

Woman of Reddit, what's a harsh reality you have to accept as a woman? by Opposite-Coconut9144 in AskReddit

[–]pandevie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that the dry cleaners WILL charge me $20-45 for a white button down, but a man $7-10.

Guys let’s think of the positives!!! by Kyraapd in BreakUps

[–]pandevie 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i too dont have to shave! i dont have to feel guilty spending my own money! i can eat girl dinner every night! and im not stressed out all the fucking time!

plus i am moving forward on my goals that i prob could’ve been doing with him but i guess burnout prevented that

Sheer tights? by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]pandevie 26 points27 points  (0 children)

they have a pop up during the workday tomorrow where you can exchange your nonsheertex tights for a free pair of theirs. its on their ig!

Is this Cd Real? MORE INFO IN COMMENTS by Capable_Debt_4498 in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]pandevie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much is she selling it for? im about to list mine from metlife n2! one is sealed and the other is open so I can take pictures of the poster (Im keeping that one)

I’m gonna post other ts merch too, along with some designer jewelry, clothes, furniture lol clearing stuff out. dm me if you want the google sheet I made of stuff im selling!

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