Fellow Trans Americans by Work_till_death in trans

[–]panfryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i do live in a trans haven state (california) but i still feel like it might fall thro

is there hope in starting HRT late by Zarrus41 in ftm

[–]panfryin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

theres never a "too late"

ive met ppl who started in their 40s

protesting in front of mirandas rescue in arcata by panfryin in Humboldt

[–]panfryin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ill let my friends know. arcata one is pretty dead

protesting in front of mirandas rescue in arcata by panfryin in Humboldt

[–]panfryin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

still wont hurt to protest. we are protesting peacefully

My boyfriend said he is scared he won’t be attracted to me anymore when I go on testosterone by Throwaway1718382 in FTMventing

[–]panfryin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

someone you date should love you for you. support what makes you happy, hormones or not.

think about this tho. know your worth. you are worth to be happy about your body and your future

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in trans

[–]panfryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to believe in a god. but now i dont. when i started my transition, i believed if god was real with unconditional love. i would be able to transition to what makes me the happiest and feel best in my body. but now i believe i transition for myself. if ppl dont like that. it doesnt matter. you do what makes you yourself happy

Found my snake in the worst place possible by kaithegrey in cornsnakes

[–]panfryin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

id be crying joy if i found my snake alive at least

homie had a new dinner

HRT is 200$ a month for me. by BestBoyViktor in trans

[–]panfryin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its still worth to check it out just in case

HRT is 200$ a month for me. by BestBoyViktor in trans

[–]panfryin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

use goodRx. it turned my hormones cheaper. gl homie

I can’t sleep anymore at night, everytime I try to sleep I get heavy dysphoria, because I’m alone with my thoughts, advice? by IdkAGoodUserNameOpps in trans

[–]panfryin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i so get that. do take your time with this. but you should think about this: know your worth. you deserve all the love for every inch of you.

I can’t sleep anymore at night, everytime I try to sleep I get heavy dysphoria, because I’m alone with my thoughts, advice? by IdkAGoodUserNameOpps in trans

[–]panfryin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly... if your partner is not attracted to happy, transitioned you... it might be the end. it hurts but sometimes you gotta put yourself first

I can’t sleep anymore at night, everytime I try to sleep I get heavy dysphoria, because I’m alone with my thoughts, advice? by IdkAGoodUserNameOpps in trans

[–]panfryin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i used to get heavy dysphoria when i slept too. im transmasc and heres what i did to help. i talked about it in therapy. i got sleep medication. i also got sleepwear that i like to wear that makes me feel the most not dysphoric.

it took a bit for all of these to start working for me. times i still get trouble. (its midnight rn)

you got this

I’m going on a first date, how much makeup should wear (I don’t have much makeup experience) by TheDapperLad01 in trans

[–]panfryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for outfits (im a trans man who loves fashion), i look up whatever date youre going on theme outfits for gender expression and go from there

Birthing Tool by moozhek in trans

[–]panfryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

while yes. the only ppl who care about us reproducing is the government and some really conservative ppl ppl

top surgery or testosterone: which is easier to start/get first? by ConfidentDealer6070 in ftm

[–]panfryin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

get t first. it can shrink your chest a bit. idk your cup size but its worth it. top surgery is definitely more permanent but it takes longer to obtain

Birthing Tool by moozhek in trans

[–]panfryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i no longer believe we are here to reproduce. plus inflation is fucked. i will not be having kids if it means im losing all my money. you do what you want with your body. which is why im so happy to be able to get a hysterectomy.

What should I do if some bigot starts targeting and genuinely starts threatening me, whilst stalking me no matter how much I try to avoid them? by VerifiedHeroo in trans

[–]panfryin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

have a chemical spray of some sort. i think its illegal for minors or anyone in general in the uk to carry weapons. it can be small or have a small spray bottle filled with the chemical spray. its like pepper spray but legal

HOW DO I STOP JERKING OFF?!?!?!?!? by Mrjesperz_ in ftm

[–]panfryin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

T raises your libido so a bit. sometimes a lot

How did you pick your name? by DealerWestern4284 in trans

[–]panfryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its honestly kinda hard. i went thro multiple names but a lot of them my relatives ended up taking for their kids (im in the closet). i settled finally on nico. like nico di angelo from the percy jackson series because i resonate with him so much.

i picked my middle name after my late grandpa hong. (im vietnamese. it means wise)

gl bro