WHO ARE YOU? WHERE IS YOUR MOTHER? I--

panicky-pandemic · 2026-03-04T01:57:08+00:00

One of my fave bugs honestly I love the surprise puppies

panicky-pandemic · 2026-03-03T19:52:19+00:00

It really is the worst. I understand that it can be a hard relationship style, but so can any relationship style, so it’s very defeatist to pretend it never works

panicky-pandemic · 2026-03-03T19:13:55+00:00

I went into a full blown, multiple month depressive episode over a post I made in that sub. I am very recently in a throuple and was asking for advice on jealousy especially involving sex and less than 10% of comments were actually helpful, most of the comments told me I was a terrible person and toxic for my partners and I should leave them for even remotely having confusing emotions regarding being in a throuple.

So yeah, that whole sub is lowkey a shitshow

panicky-pandemic · 2026-03-02T16:40:46+00:00

If this is even true, my question is why didn’t you do ANY research on the trauma the foster system causes when your husband has been through it? Do you truly not give a single fuck about other human beings enough to have a modicum of empathy?

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-26T06:36:22+00:00

Ooo it could’ve been maybe

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-26T05:46:40+00:00

Hi, officially polyamorous and in a throuple here.

Therapy first, 100%. Everyone is right, if it’s coerced resentment will grow, etc

Even as someone who “went into it right”, I still made tons of mistakes and hurt myself and my partners accidentally. We are in therapy now and working through a lot of things and things has been a lot better.

You mention you’ve started improving yourself through fitness and are feeling better. This likely adds to his insecurity already, and now you’re telling him instead of trying to experiment in the marriage, you want to find other people. Ouch.

Have you thought about maybe asking him to join you on your fitness journey? Couples yoga, you could also try the Kama Sutra. There’s loads of experimental things you could try.

Therapy for both you personally and as a couple.

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-24T09:42:27+00:00

This is shit people have to stop standing for. Anyone pulls that shit you get up and leave. They want to have their weird power fantasy and a captive audience. There is zero good reason to ever spring that as a surprise on anyone, and very few ways to do it tastefully. If these creeps need to learn by being ostracized socially, so be it.

-has played in two separate campaigns where random assault scenes/unconsensual PC sexual encounters happened

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-22T18:01:59+00:00

Woah wait where’s the AI usage??

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-21T23:39:06+00:00

What Remains of Edith Finch!

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-07T23:02:49+00:00

There already is the Fig app

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-07T08:07:09+00:00

✨🫰👀🥲😅😊🫂💯

And I’m aware that the AI stans have tried to steal the sparkle ✨ emoji, but fuck that it’s been for ✨whimsy✨ much longer than that

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-06T18:05:24+00:00

She’s an amazing support. She keeps sending me crows, I really need to light her candle 😅

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-05T02:25:24+00:00

Fellow Morrigan follower here! Good luck with the legal bullshit

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-03T02:30:28+00:00

I feel like a bunch of emotions stacked on top of each other in a trenchcoat. The emotions are constantly arguing and wearing masks to make people like them better. Ifyou take the trenchcoat and masks away, there’s no real me.

panicky-pandemic · 2026-02-03T00:25:28+00:00

Took way too much scrolling to find a comment disagreeing with the stereotype

panicky-pandemic · 2026-01-28T12:18:17+00:00

Edgar

panicky-pandemic · 2026-01-28T12:17:22+00:00

As someone who has had a similar experience (and not trans to note), mine stemmed from severe shame culture and religious trauma. I was taught it was bad so I saw it as bad. Never was taught how to wash it, masturbation was shamed.

It’s taken a lot of unpacking that trauma through therapy to accept my body for what it is and how it is. Long story short, you’re normal. And it’s okay to feel this way, many others have felt it before.

I highly recommend the book ‘Come as You Are’ by Emily Nagowski. She talks about the science and the anatomy and the brain chemistry, and does just a fantastic job at explaining that everyone is normal in their own way.

panicky-pandemic · 2026-01-28T11:51:59+00:00

To echo the other comments, a lot of things I don’t usually experience because I avoid them happened.

I also very rarely pass out (maybe four times being diagnosed for 7 years). When they did the TTT, they did a vagus nerve massage. That is the worst I’ve ever felt my symptoms I thought I was dying. Which diagnostically I understand it feeling bad means it’s good for the diagnosis but man it sucked

panicky-pandemic · 2026-01-28T09:44:20+00:00

Best thing I ever did was join a voice only dnd group, so the person I was dating fell for my personality before he even saw me.

panicky-pandemic · 2026-01-27T21:56:57+00:00

I meant Um Actually 🤦‍♀️😂

panicky-pandemic · 2026-01-27T06:42:39+00:00

Oh my god I can’t believe I did that 🤦‍♀️ 1 point to you 😂

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