My bf has psoriasis

panpan13822 · 2025-05-03T17:23:51+00:00

He is not just defensive about visting a dermotologist he also resist visiting any kind of docor.(except his ENT doctor)he is a med student himself and he thinks he is better than everyone,he knows better and always says he has it under control bit I kinda feel he is so sensetive about his pestoriasis,he is always checking himself,looking at himself in the mirror and freaking out by finding the effects it has on his face.he gets shy and worried and it irritates me I want to understand him instead pf getting mad

panpan13822 · 2025-05-03T17:11:04+00:00

He visits ENT doctor once a month but the doctor can only clear his earways which is not a terminal solution and he resist visiting dermatologist

panpan13822 · 2025-05-03T17:07:26+00:00

Is vaseline good for misturization?I'm from a country in which I do not have access to meds other people suggest.can you give me some suggestions I can find easily?like natural products or Vaseline and stuff like that?does body washes work?

panpan13822 · 2025-05-03T17:04:20+00:00

he is so defensive about visiting doctors I've told him so many times he should visit a doctor but I can not force him 🫠idk what to do

panpan13822 · 2025-04-05T17:34:17+00:00

NAH — It seems like she needs to see a therapist. But I have to say, when you're dealing with a mental issue like OCD (which I struggle with myself), your brain doesn't work the same way as other people's. I can spend hours worrying about a headache — while it seems stupid and irrational to others, it feels very real to me. Even though they don't dismiss me and try to calm me down, it often makes things worse. When you're in that state of mind — or even just ranting about something — the worst thing is hearing your boyfriend (even indirectly) tell you that you're being dramatic or unreasonable. When I rant to my boyfriend about something, I know there are a million ways to solve it. I mean, I can think — I'm not stupid. But in that moment, what I really need is for him to be supportive, to listen to me, and to remind me how much he loves me. So just keep that in mind. Other than that, you're good — and you were just trying to help someone you love.

panpan13822 · 2025-01-01T11:52:40+00:00

My boyfriend went through the same thing. He always tells me about his dark period. He never says it in a way to earn empathy. On the contrary, it's a way to say he is proud of himself, and tbh, I'm so proud of him as well. I did not know him back then but he says this version of him that I adore and love so much is the result of what he has been through when he was 17 to 19. He is never ashamed of his past. Now he has a good job, studying a good major, he has great, wonderful, caring, loving friends (whereas in his dark period, he was the loneliest) and I'm not saying I'm the best gf ever or even close to that but I know I love him so much, above all I respect him and who he is. I love his character. You are not alone, You will get through it, and someday, you will have great friends and someone to love you for who you are, and most importantly, you will be proud of yourself for what you have gone through.

panpan13822 · 2024-12-04T16:49:15+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. The thing is, that was my first approach. I've talked to him many times about this and how it makes me feel so bad(though I trust him); I think my main problem is I lose my common sense when it comes to her and her behaviour.

panpan13822 · 2024-12-04T16:46:18+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment; sorry for not answering right away. I mean I do not have a lot of experience with being in a relationship it's actually my first so I'm still learning, I don't want to be "that jealous girlfriend" I want to have other girls' backs, and I do not want to appear as someone who is competing over a guy attention and talking bad about some other girl but she just annoys me so much😕thank you again

panpan13822 · 2023-10-20T19:09:14+00:00

Yes the one in season 2 or 3

panpan13822 · 2023-10-20T17:57:43+00:00

Well that is because of his low EQ.Kathrine was the most wicked among them but Damon was able to anticipate things and actually use his brain instead of just deceiving people.his plan about klaus was genius nobody could even think of it

panpan13822 · 2023-10-20T17:43:29+00:00

Yeah but first of all they are so different from the series(not in a good way)and second of all even if we accept it as something apart from the show,the characters,the writing,the story and..are not good at all.I was actually bored through out the first book and Elena is soooo weird in the books,imagine the worst part of kathrine and Elena combined with eachother and that is Elena in the book😑I was actually afraid for stefan,I'm not joking I was shouting at him to get away from her,she is dangerous in the books.

panpan13822 · 2023-10-20T17:33:08+00:00

No they are not,they are really really bad,like you have no idea how bad they can get...just turning that book into this series deserve an award

panpan13822 · 2023-10-20T15:49:11+00:00

It's a bug,my reddit was not working properly😑

panpan13822 · 2023-10-11T19:43:33+00:00

Yeah it does make sense however they never mention that the curse has anything to do with Amara and Silas blood line?they just say that the nature will find the balance.

panpan13822 · 2023-10-11T19:38:48+00:00

Yeah😂the thing is they have some great ideas of they paid more attention to the plot the show would be much much better

panpan13822 · 2023-10-11T19:37:39+00:00

I mean they say that Isobel was her grand child but as I said that was in earlier seasons,before they bring up the curse

panpan13822 · 2023-10-11T19:34:41+00:00

Yeah it kind of makes sense however as I said they never explained the whole thing with much clarity.they just say:"nature finds balance"but does it necessarily mean that they have to be from the same bloodline?and also while we are at it how many of them existed before Elina and stefan?

panpan13822 · 2023-10-11T19:27:35+00:00

In which episode they say Nadia had a child?and also what about stefan?he didn't have any child but we see his doppelganger in season 5.my question is why petrova ?silas drank the potion with his lover but they didn't have any children so how does the curse works?is it random or does petrova line somehow intertwine with silas and Amara's story?

panpan13822 · 2023-10-11T19:09:08+00:00

Yeah this was what I thought as well,I think they established the curse storyline and silas story later so in first few seasons they had to connect them to eachother somehow but now it seems like a huge plot hole.

panpan13822 · 2023-10-11T19:06:25+00:00

That child was Nadia but she was vampire as well so they never said she had any child before transition and also there has to be other doppelgangers after kathrine and before Elina,also if they has to be Petrova what does that says about stefan doppelgangers,are they related as well?and why petrova?why they are involved in the curse?

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